July 31, 2005
HAIR
I've only donated blood once. I was in college and it was quite an ordeal. First, they said I was borderline anemic, so they had to run some tests to see if they even wanted my blood. Turns out it was OK, so they hooked me up to the bag and started draining my arm. I guess they need the bag and also three little vials of blood; on the third vial, somehow the needle popped out of my arm and blood squirted everywhere. After that unique experience, I was leery about giving blood, and then I started hopping back and forth to Europe every year or so, so it was never an issue. So I don't really donate blood.
But I can donate hair.
When I had been dating my husband for a week, I cut my hair short. Like short short. After the look on his face, I didn't cut my hair again for five years. At first it became a Lord of the Rings joke: I was going to look like an elf. After Return of the King was over, I turned to him and said, "Now what?" I guess I had grown so attached to the hair that it scared me to cut it.
I had always intended to donate my hair, but then it became a quest to donate as much as I could. It grew and grew, and the more it grew, the more annoyed my husband and I grew towards it. It was always in our mouths, getting pulled, clogging the drains and the vacuum, and driving us nuts. In May I decided I was ready for a cut, but I told myself to wait a month and see if I was still ready. A month passed and I got cold feet, so I let another month go by. And I knew I was ready.
We chopped 18 inches off, and bagged it to send to Locks of Love. I hope some little girl gets a beautiful wig from it.
Everyone keeps asking me if I'm going to start all over again. I don't know; I'm really enjoying the short hair:
1. no more marathon blowdrying
2. no more sitting on the hair
3. no more rolling over in bed and suffocating
4. Charlie was biting and tugging on it when it was long
5. less money spent on Draino
But since my hair grows so fast, maybe I'll get to another wig. We'll see. The husband likes it short, so for now I'm happy.
And now that I've kept you in suspense for long enough...here's the new and improved Sarah. And the getting-too-big-to-cuddle Charlie.
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Posted by: H. Sims at July 31, 2005 10:24 AM (t5Jhh)
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Looks great! What a wonderful thing to do, you've made some little girl feel like a princess.
Posted by: Jamie at July 31, 2005 11:23 AM (dsFoT)
Posted by: J and Erin at July 31, 2005 12:08 PM (p/w9O)
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You hair looks great and that dog still looks cuddly to me. What a doll.
Posted by: Ruth H at July 31, 2005 02:07 PM (iKlAZ)
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Wow...you managed to chop off a few years too...you're going to get carded! (I on the other hand keep on being asked if I am the mother of the two 14-year-old girls I am taking care of this summer.) You look great! Very cute cut.
Posted by: CaliValleyGirl at July 31, 2005 03:12 PM (zTqcv)
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You and Charlie look so cute! I want to hug you both!
Your mama
Posted by: Nancy at July 31, 2005 05:46 PM (DljPa)
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You look fantastic with your hair that length -- and Charlie is a little sweetie :-)
Most of all, some little girl will have your beautiful hair for a wig ... a true Win-Win!
Posted by: Barb at July 31, 2005 06:21 PM (g9qHI)
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What a beautiful young woman you are - inside and out! The gift of your hair is wonderful. I can't manage the hair thing myself - I am old and gray! But I do donate blood. Not so bad - sorry your experience with that was not a good one. Everyone can find a way to make a difference, and yours is a sure thing! Thanks for sharing!
Posted by: JCK at July 31, 2005 06:50 PM (J9ixV)
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I have to say that I love it too! Very cute and what a beautiful smile to match!
Posted by: Angie Dente at July 31, 2005 06:55 PM (TdD4k)
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Wow Sarah. You've done a great thing. There's nothing like a new haircut to give you a different outlook on life - and now you've given that gift to someone else. Congrats. It looks GREAT!
Posted by: Kathleen A at July 31, 2005 07:58 PM (If3eX)
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It looks great!! I bet it is alot cooler for these "hot" summer months.
Posted by: jenn and casey at August 01, 2005 03:25 PM (Ka9I5)
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My daughter has donated her hair before, starting at age 9. When I was diagnosed with cancer last year and went through chemo, it meant so much more to her. Just knowing that she might be helping someone who was struggling made her so proud! Thank you, Sarah, for your wonderful gift. We who need it really appreciate efforts such as yours.
Posted by: heidi at August 05, 2005 03:39 PM (wB07F)
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How sweet of you. The new look is really cute.
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DISSENT
Smink has a post on his views on
women in the military (He's fer it). No one in the comments section brought up the touchy and delicate issue I would like to address. Any candid discussion of women in the military must focus on some key problems.
What about the barracks rooms designated for anonymous sex where females can try to get knocked up so they don't have to deploy? What about the females in Iraq who are running prostitution rings, charging money for sex with the male soldiers? What about the females who are making pornography and posting it on the internet? What about the females who have boasted that their goal is to sleep with every officer on the FOB? What about the females who lure married men to their beds and then threaten to expose their adultery? What about the frightening power a junior enlisted soldier has when she's sleeping with the first sergeant?
All of these scenarios I describe have happened in our brigade. I know of families that have been destroyed because of both real and imagined infidelities during a deployment. I've heard stories about ruthless female soldiers that make me ashamed of my gender. If we are going to discuss the effects of women in combat, we do need to discuss all that Smink brought up: performance, sexual harrassment, etc. But we also need to address the nasty effects of taking thousands of males away from their families and bunking them with a handful of women for a year. Yeah, I bet a lot of times it's the males' fault, but I've heard enough stories to make me wonder if the females haven't brought some of it on themselves.
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You raise some serious questions there. What should be done, or how should those situations be handled/prevented?
Great continuation of an interesting discussion.
Posted by: JACK ARMY at July 31, 2005 01:02 PM (L20+G)
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You know I was just all set to write an indignant blog entry about this very issue. Someone posted a link on a board I read to pics of a woman deployed in Iraq, buck naked with an automatic weapon between her legs. That discussion focused on 'what you do on your own time is your business' But what about the fact that the woman in question was wearing a US uniform?
You make good points that should be discussed. Prostitution is illegal and should be prosecuted. A man or a woman who's married and cheating on their spouse knows it's wrong Now if they are being blackmailed because of it, that's illegal.
But don't make the guys seem like boy scouts. Just because they're deployed doesn't mean that they don't have to accept personal responsibility for their actions. When I hear of women acting like you described it makes me ashamed of my gender, and angry that their behavior could have the effect of setting back women's rights gains.
I also have to wonder if some of these problems would be an issue if the US weren't deployed to Muslim countries where fraternizing with the indigenous women is a no no.
Posted by: Mare at July 31, 2005 06:13 PM (0CpxG)
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You're kidding, right?
How about punishment for those men AND women that commit a crime (prostitution and the solicitation of prositution). And if this is on going, it more reeks of a failure of command.
Are we going to whine that a man can't resist such temptation? That's why they make women where bhurkas for heaven's sake! Insist on self control.
If husbands are cheating on their wives (here or there) -- this is just the woman's fault? Self control.
"Lure married men to their beds"?? The married man didn't have a clue? Hypnotized? Drugged? Stupid? You can't be lured -- you have to be a willing participant.
Women soldier don't need male soldiers to get pregnant to avoid deployment -- any sperm donor will do -- on or off the base. The barrracks is just convenient -- not a necessity.
Sleep with every officer? There are few officers that have invested that much time, effort and sacrifice that would be willing to lose their marriage, career, and self-esteem to sleep with an enlisted soldier who claims to want to sleep with every officer on the FOB?? (FOB groupies??) but again, the officer's not an idiot -- he has to be a willing participant.
This is not an issue of women in the military. This is the species as it always has been. And by my reckoning, there is a WHOLE LOT MORE rape and sexual assault perpetrated on women soldiers by male soldiers that those evil women soldiers luring men to their "doom".
Posted by: Not Kidding at July 31, 2005 06:19 PM (pHSgP)
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As I stated in the comments on Jack Army's blog, I am not saying the men are saints...I'm just saying that the women provide their fair share of nasty. The original post at Smink's absolved women of any role in the military's problems with sexual harrassment.
Posted by: Sarah at August 01, 2005 01:27 AM (qPy3t)
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I sooo did not have the balls to bring this up, glad you did!!
Posted by: ArmyWifeToddlerMom at August 01, 2005 01:28 AM (R/Ouj)
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sarah
i've read your site for some time and have enjoyed it. congratulations on your husband returning home. i have heard nothing but great things about his division and heard recently that one of cpt simms' soldiers may be up for the medal of honor... ssg bellavia may be the most decorated solider in the war... was he one of your husbands soldiers? that kid is outstanding he killed six terrorists by himself in a house and i read that he was forced to use hand to hand fighting... i wanted to mention right quick that your apology to sgt fitts was very big of you. we that have never been in combat can never know what it is like. is that your husband shooting that rpg next to his tank? amazing. can you ask him what he was shooting at? vehicles, houses... action shots like that are amazing. why didn't he use the tank gun... was it damaged in fighting... anyway.. this site is great
Posted by: douglas at August 01, 2005 02:54 AM (qVsTR)
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sarah,
is your husband going back soon... know that my church and family are covering you and him and all our soldiers with prayers
Posted by: douglas at August 01, 2005 02:57 AM (qVsTR)
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Isn't INTEGRITY valued in all our military services?
Integrity: the courage to do what is right even when no one is looking.
I find this discussion humerous. Everyone seems so concerned about the promiscuity in the war zone.
What about promiscuity in the USA?
War is just another excuse to engage in immoral behaviour.
Posted by: Bec at August 01, 2005 03:53 AM (lzFux)
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I've seen both sides of it. Went through co-ed Basic and AIT, was in an MOS that some say is as high as 50% female (96B - Intel Analyst). That means I served with females from the day I started Basic to the day I ETSed. A good soldier is a good soldier and I worked with some very good female soldiers ... but I also saw a lot of sex-related drama happen around female troops, including abuse of double standards and sex discrimination policies. Also saw male troops 'lose their military bearing' (lose their minds, more like it) around female troops. I couldn't imagine NOT serving with female soldiers, at least in my old MOS, but it's definitely not a problem-free arrangement.
Posted by: Eric at August 01, 2005 05:40 PM (CTgpx)
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wow. ok. I served 8 years in the Navy. I heard the horror stories too. Women who got stationed at Diego Garcia and made a dandy sum prostituting. It exists. So does rape among the MEN. There is a problem but lets not lay a blanket of blame over men vs women (or the other way around). You have some bad apples in the Service, period. Removing women from the Military won't get rid of the problem.
I remember a friend who went on a 6 month world cruise on his boat. He was a lowly supply petty officer. Oh the stories he told. His boat had NO women. They still had problems. Lets not even discuss when they hit port. He said that the people you thought would surely cheat on their spouse didn't, and the ones you never imagined would....did. He said he was astonished to see the XO in line outside of medical to get checked for AIDS after a port call to Mombasa.
The answer is stricter rules and stricter punishments for disobeying. I am now in the Army National Guard. I am a very moral person and would hope that I never stoop to those levels.
Bottom line? It's like my Mama always said "If you go looking for trouble, your gonna find it."
SGT Lori
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July 29, 2005
BRAC
The husband and I watched Vice Chief of Staff Cody's briefing on the Pentagon channel two days ago, and I looked for an article on it yesterday to no avail. But it's out today:
Army identifies locations for units in new, brigade-centric force structure. If anyone's interested in base realignment,
this graphic is informative. The presence in Germany will be
significantly reduced. What an exciting time for the military!
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I reckon this all makes sense, but does anyone else thinks it looks odd to have a Mountain Division BCT in Louisiana?
Posted by: Bob at July 29, 2005 02:18 PM (WMa4u)
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Anyone with an opinion about the Stryker vehicles? I've read such different things.
Posted by: Pericles at July 30, 2005 01:57 PM (hHudX)
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Is that graphic accurate, is the 3rd ID going from Mech to Light fighters? I hadn't heard that before.
Posted by: Neil at July 31, 2005 06:13 PM (KLnwY)
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FATWA
I sat down to write about how North American Muslims are issuing a
fatwa against terrorism. It's about time, I say. The article states
Imam Yahya Hendi, the Muslim chaplain at Georgetown University in Washington and a member of the Fiqh council, said: "We hear from our fellow Americans very often that Muslims have not spoken aggressively about terrorism, that Muslims have not made their voices very clear. I disagree. Muslims have made their voices very clear from day one. So maybe we needed to do more. The more you do, the more you realize you need to do."
Anyone who's ever read LGF knows that these Muslim voices have never been clear. Hmm, what does LGF have to say about this anyway? Oh: The American Islamic Leaders' "Fatwa" is Bogus. Great.
In fact, the fatwa is bogus. Nowhere does it condemn the Islamic extremism ideology that has spawned Islamic terrorism. It does not renounce nor even acknowledge the existence of an Islamic jihadist culture that has permeated mosques and young Muslims around the world. It does not renounce Jihad let alone admit that it has been used to justify Islamic terrorist acts. It does not condemn by name any Islamic group or leader. In short, it is a fake fatwa designed merely to deceive the American public into believing that these groups are moderate. In fact, officials of both organizations have been directly linked to and associated with Islamic terrorist groups and Islamic extremist organizations. One of them is an unindicted co-conspirator in a current terrorist case; another previous member was a financier to Al-Qaeda.
Where are the moderate Muslim groups? I keep hearing how Muslims are afraid of being branded as extremists, how not all Muslims are terrorists, how Muslims fear for their lives because of the actions of a few...but where are the moderate Muslim voices to stand up and say enough is enough? Kalroy found some of these voices, but like him I too am waiting for the Million Muslim March. We need more of this and we need it to be more publicized. I'm waiting for someone to stand up and say that we won't tolerate this:
That's an x-ray of one of the bombs from London. Whoever devised this bomb -- loaded with nails to inflict maximum damage on innocent Londoners -- is a monster. Remember the other day when I talked about umbrellas? Moderate Muslims are under an ugly umbrella with terrorists, and I for one would like to see them issue a real fatwa against these atrocities.
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Posted by: Dave at July 29, 2005 09:11 AM (c6xQA)
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i don't think that 'fatwa' really means that much either.when you kill children AND think your going to go to heaven for it(banging head on desk)you really can't(or won't)reason with them.ever.
Posted by: tommy at July 29, 2005 12:15 PM (NMK3S)
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Problem: Define "innocent civilian". Seems that your average Wahabbist thinks only they and their ilk are "innocent civilians"; all others are either heretics or infidels.
So when I see a "fatwa" that includes all persons of all faiths or no faith, including civilians, public servants, government officials, and military personnel--in other words, all the six + billion persons on this earth, no exceptions, will I believe any Muslim is truly denouncing terrorism. I await such a fatwa.
Still waiting.
Still waiting.
As I thought.
(sigh).
Posted by: Jim Shawley at July 29, 2005 01:42 PM (CnYsu)
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Thus the major problem in dealing with the Muslims - they don't REALLY think that the jihad is wrong. Unlike the anti-abortion Catholics who were appalled by the lunatic who went around killing abortion doctors, these people think that it's alright to take a life in the name of religion.
Until that frame of mind can be changed - you won't see your Million Muslim March. *sigh*
Posted by: Teresa at July 29, 2005 09:25 PM (nAfYo)
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More Sufi!
Less Sunni!
That's my new protest sign.
Kalroy
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July 28, 2005
FOR YOU
We know we're getting old when the only thing we want for our birthday is not to be reminded of it.
Happy Birthday, Amritas...
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FISH TALES
Gnat got fish. When I was her age, I had two fish named Bert and Ernie, and I helped out by feeding them one day. Unfortunately, I fed them an entire can of fishfood on the day my father had just cleaned the aquarium. Whoops.
I've always been interested in pet fish; the husband and I registered for an aquarium when we got married and bought three fish (well, five if you count Milhouse I and Milhouse II, may they rest in peace). Then we bought a plecostomus to help keep things clean, and we noticed that when the shopkeeper scooped him up, we ended up with a snail too. Into the tank he went. A few days later, I did a doubletake when I realized there were two snails. Upon closer inspection, I found we had been visited by the snail stork thirteen times. Note to self: snails reproduce asexually.
The fish are still living with my mom, and we may inherit them back if they live another year. I'm anxious to move back to the US so we can get our aquarium back out of the box and get some more fish. The pet department is where I really find myself homesick lately. Here we have but one shelf in the PX for pet supplies; I'd give anything to go to PetSmart these days.
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Sarah,
It wasn't a can of fish food; it was a huge box!!! It's a good thing you were daddy's little girl because he was not too crazy about cleaning the tank again. You were about two years old, and you came downstairs carrying the box and said, "I feed the fish." Boy, you sure did!
I can assure you I'll be a better grandmother when you have children than I have been to your fish. They kinda' thrive on neglect!
Love,
Mama
Posted by: Nancy at July 28, 2005 04:00 AM (DljPa)
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PetSmart is great for supplies, but I'm not too sure about the quality of their fish. I'm about to lose a Dwarf Gourami I got from there no more than a couple of months ago.
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July 27, 2005
HAIRCUT
Look what I did today...
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I hope it was on purpose and not the result of some tragic elevator door accident. Let's see the final product.
Posted by: Tony B at July 27, 2005 03:20 PM (QBrm4)
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Did you go and turn invisible again?
Posted by: marc at July 27, 2005 03:44 PM (boChC)
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Woah! Big change!!
So when are we going to see pics of the new you??
Posted by: Barb at July 27, 2005 04:14 PM (u8Zgq)
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I'd like to see the new pics too. How is the husband handling it?
Posted by: NYgirl at July 27, 2005 05:43 PM (JEAUq)
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I remember when I did that, many long years ago. I don't have it but we still have our younger son's braid he cut when he was 25 and it was so pretty my husband couldn't let me get rid of it. I'm glad he didn't. Younger son is now 43!
Also, where is the "after" photo?
Posted by: Ruth H at July 27, 2005 07:01 PM (iKlAZ)
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Short hair is sexy
Posted by: Bryan Strawser at July 27, 2005 09:47 PM (GMpvi)
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She cut her hair and donated it to "Locks of Love" which is an organization that makes wigs for cancer patients. She cut it shorter than she would have liked but knew that someone else could use her hair. Pretty proud of her!!
Posted by: ME at July 27, 2005 10:24 PM (PCnCC)
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You got in a fight with a maniac armed with a hedge trimmer and barely escaped with your life? ;-)
Posted by: Patrick Chester at July 28, 2005 12:40 AM (74cXW)
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You are beautiful inside and out, long hair or short. You are going to make some little girl feel beautiful. I'm proud of you! Was the finished product seventeen inches long?
Love,
Mama
Posted by: Nancy at July 28, 2005 04:06 AM (DljPa)
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Oh.My.Gawd! You have to post a pic of the new YOU!! Get going missy.
Posted by: toni at July 28, 2005 09:27 AM (SHqVu)
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I thought I remember someone making some comment about there being little kids in China who could donate hair for wigs...;-)...Can't wait to see what you look like!
Posted by: CaliValleyGirl at July 28, 2005 04:24 PM (zTqcv)
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Sarah joins such illustrious family members as Alexis Jonak, daughter of my sister Anne, in donating hair to Locks of Love. Alexis was 6 1/2 when she had hers cut off. I was so proud of her and I told her that now she had the hair I have always wanted to have! I'm sure you look great, Sarah. I can't wait to tell Alexis what you did.
Love, Kate
Posted by: Kate Ross at July 28, 2005 04:41 PM (W/4Ld)
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Sarah - the donation of your hair to such a worthy cause is totally sweet, and incredibly generous!
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July 26, 2005
LINKS
Mark Steyn:
Mugged by reality? (via RWN)
This Will Make You Proud (via my dad)
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i will never get used to this concept that news must be neutral. I would not be surprised if we were to be given articles on rape from the perpetrator's side. Sometimes you just have to pick a side and ride with it.
Posted by: Walter E. Wallis at July 27, 2005 03:47 PM (xX0fS)
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Sarah - thanks for the links. I recognized Capt. Chontosh's name immediately, and the tribute was wonderful.
The story from Mark Steyn is just stunning to me. All of the PC/bend-over-backwards crap is now beyond silly, it has become dangerous in today's world.
Posted by: Barb at July 27, 2005 05:02 PM (u8Zgq)
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Maybe this doesn't affect the main point, but it looks like the man in her office was not really Atta:
http://edwardjayepstein.com/nether_fictoid11.htm
Posted by: Pericles at July 28, 2005 03:24 PM (hHudX)
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July 25, 2005
WHAT???
I agree with
Lileks that
this is just absurd. The flip-flops were too informal, but John Roberts' family was too
formal? What on earth does that mean? Their children looked nice, for pete's sake. My brothers and I used to wear stuff like that regularly when occasion called for it, like church or family photos. I darn sure think my mom would've made us dress up when we went to
be on TV at the White House! And the caption under the photo is just plain snarky: "Even the clothes are conservative". What could the children have worn to make them look less right-wing, tie-dye and peace signs? Give me, and the Roberts family, a freaking break.
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It is a stupid column, unworthy of a great paper like the WaPo. At the same time, though, I have to admit that I raised an eyebrow at their clothes too, especially the way they dressed their son. Formal versus informal isn't the issue; of course this occasion calls for "conservative" formal dress. The issue is what decade the clothes come from. These folks look like they stepped out of the Eisenhower era. When was the last time you saw a seersucker suit with short pants? At least it isn't a sailor suit, but still...
Posted by: Pericles at July 25, 2005 05:38 PM (hHudX)
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I saw the photos too, and my thoughts were: "Gee didn't Jackie Kennedy and the kids wear stuff like that back in the day?"
Posted by: Bubba Bo Bob Brain at July 25, 2005 11:13 PM (aHbua)
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How silly. The children and his wife look classy and very nice. Since when has being well turned out become a crime? I think the reporters need a course in Etiquette!
Geesh.
Posted by: Holly at July 26, 2005 12:48 AM (geFXN)
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You know what I thought when I saw the picture? Looks like a French family. I swear, that is how loads of French people dress their kids...totally cute, totally 50s. The last time I saw pants like that was on my French friend's nephews at her wedding 3 months ago. That is not a flashback to the 50s, it's an ode to France. Seriously...I bet you that those clothes came from France, or some French childrens' clothes boutique in D.C.
Anyways, funny how they are just grabbing at straws here.
Posted by: CaliValleyGirl at July 26, 2005 01:46 AM (zTqcv)
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I think the reporter, Robin Givhan, needs to get a life! If he/she can't find something of substance to write about other than what the Roberts children were wearing and how outdated they were (which obviously he/she doesn't have young children, and if he/she does, obviously they're not being invited to the White House), I think he/she might consider finding a new profession. I see children dressed like that in church every Sunday; but then, church may be a little too conservative for Robin.
Good grief!
Nancy
Posted by: Nancy Dunn at July 26, 2005 03:03 AM (DljPa)
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Not to be catty... Hell, let's be catty! Robin Givhan doesn't need to get a life, she needs to get some
fashion sense.
Posted by: Pixy Misa at July 26, 2005 04:56 AM (RbYVY)
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In fairness, she is the fashion editor. It isn't like one of the political writers penned the column; talking about how people are dressed is her job.
Whether a paper needs someone to do that job is another question.
Posted by: Pericles at July 26, 2005 07:35 AM (hHudX)
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Sometimes you just have to get out the old horsewhip and go visit the editor.
Didn't Robin used to be married to Mike Tyson?
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July 21, 2005
GRRR
You know what really bugs me? The media bends over backwards to recognize knighthood, but they constantly belittle our president. They make sure to always say
Sir Paul McCartney, but I can't even count the times I've heard the media refer to our president as "Bush". His name is President Bush, you clods.
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Do you have examples of this in the MSM where they don't call him President Bush the first time they refer to him? It would surprise me if that happened too often, although it would be no surprise if you saw a lot of articles where they say President Bush once and simply 'Bush' thereafter; that is just good writing. Do a Google search on "Clinton" site:foxnews.com, and you will see them doing this often for both President and Senator Clinton (with a few articles where their titles never get used even one).
Posted by: Pericles at July 21, 2005 06:51 PM (hHudX)
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Yes, I have examples, but they're oral, so I can't prove to you that it has happened.
Posted by: Sarah at July 22, 2005 02:08 AM (j3A3+)
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Were these anchorpeople or commentators?
I can't prove this either, but my hunch is that if you went back six years you would see them talking about Clinton the same the way. And if you go back to coverage of the campaign, I bet you would see/hear a zillion references to John Kerry that omitted the title "Senator."
Posted by: Pericles at July 22, 2005 07:50 AM (hHudX)
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just be thankful the MSM doesn't refer to him as "lying motherf****n bush" as a veteran of the first gulf war this clown is the worst president since carter
Posted by: tommy at July 22, 2005 09:59 AM (NMK3S)
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OK, perhaps they've done it to other presidents too; that wasn't my point. My point was how they HEAP respect on celebrities who've randomly been knighted but neglect the same respect for our president.
Posted by: Sarah at July 22, 2005 10:09 AM (j3A3+)
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celebrities who've randomly been knighted...
I assume you mean someone else who's been "randomly knighted." McCartney's genius and dedication deserves every bit of respect a knighthood would afford.
I wonder if the mark "The Beatles" have left on the world will ever be eclipsed by another musical group?
Posted by: Curtis at July 22, 2005 11:19 AM (GC501)
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Okay, if you aren't trying to complain specifically about how the media treats a conservative President and are just trying to complain about the media's infatuation with the British upper classes, we may have some common ground. The Princess Di worship over here has gone a little overboard, as far as I'm concerned. I've nothing against her, but she didn't walk on water. She was just pretty.
Posted by: Pericles at July 22, 2005 01:51 PM (hHudX)
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Curtis -- Meh. I'm an Elvis man.
Posted by: Sarah at July 22, 2005 04:21 PM (j3A3+)
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Hey Tommy!!!
I dont think any president has been as bad as Carter for the simple fact he came off as a totally powerless president that couldn't make a hard decision.
Remember he was President during the Iran Hostage crisis and he came off as being completely powerless to do anything whatsoever.
This is also the time of our first gas crisis / shortages. Remember the long lines at the gas pumps and only being able to get gas on odd or even numbered days?
While Bush may not be well liked at least there is one thing you can say.
He is a man of action. Maybe not the action we'd like to see but at least he's doing something other than sounding like a ninny like Carter did.
If Carter were president now I doubt we'd be in Iraq. I also doubt we'd be in Afganistan or anywhere else for that matter.
We'd be sitting here waiting for the next attack like wimps and crying about it.
Posted by: G.Schaefer at July 22, 2005 05:07 PM (Pr6kL)
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G. Schaefer, Carter was not the first president to be in office for a "gas shortage", in 1973 the Arabs embargoed oil to protest the U.S. meddling in their affairs, the president in '73? Richard Milhous Nixon. If you look back through history there has been an "oil crisis" about every 30 years or so. So Nixon was probably not even the first president to have this happen to him.
Posted by: Bubba Bo Bob Brain at July 22, 2005 10:42 PM (aHbua)
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You're right, but it has to go both ways. We have to meticulous about Senator Kennedy and President Clinton while we're ripping them new ones.
Posted by: pedro at July 23, 2005 11:36 AM (b5kM6)
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hey g.schaefer listen bro my biggest problem with bush 43 is very simple.iraq is tough.iran would be 10 times times harder.n korea would be 50.our troops are under-manned,under-funded.and their families are being asked to sacrifice more than should have to.at least when i went to war we all KNEW we were going kick some ass and come home all right.the same can't be said about this conflict.and as a fervent believer in powell doctrine unless you are 100% sure you going to win don't start a f*****n war in the first place.
Posted by: tommy at July 25, 2005 10:05 AM (NMK3S)
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The libs infatuation with British royalty has always made me giggle. Those idiots even learned to curtsy and bow when Charles and Diana visited the US!!! (of course I would never be invited to one of those gigs no matter how much money I might make - because I'd never curtsy to foreign dignitaries)
I couldn't understand why they would pay homage to foreign royalty when they can barely be civil to most Americans especially the President... but so it is. Knighted celebrities are just a couple of steps down from the regular titled aristocrats in Britain.
Heaven forbid you forget to use that title when talking about them, but the President isn't special at all... How hysterical.
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FLIP FLOPS
I turned to Annika for commentary, for she's the one with the
shoe fetish, but no word from her yet on...um...flipflopgate? Apparently some girls
wore flip-flops to the White House and it's caused a ruckus for, well, people who are older than the flip flop craze of late. To be honest, until the news pointed it out, I didn't even notice their footwear. Flip-flops have come a long way from being "shower shoes", so I don't think they were that inappropriate. But the ones I saw were classier than the two dollar Walmart bin shoes, so I don't know. I own some cheapo flip-flops myself, which I would never wear with a nice outfit, but I also own some classier flip-flop-like sandals that I would probably not consider disrespectful towards the White House. Your thoughts, Annika?
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Now you know full well that you would be singing a different tune if you knew for a fact that those women were Democrats. Then it would be all about their lack of respect for "Sir President Bush." Good thing that Harvard doesn't have a killer lacrosse team!
Posted by: Pericles at July 21, 2005 06:55 PM (hHudX)
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We had a fairly conventional wedding last summer. My wife wore a very stylish pair of flip flops, cute pink with daisies on them. I see no problem with them.
Posted by: Paulie at The Commons at July 21, 2005 08:50 PM (4KwiQ)
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i bought
these just recently. i don't know if i'd wear them to the white house, but i do think they're way cute.
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I was actually gonna post something similar to this. Today I had a meeting with a vedor. Here I go, slacks, button down shirt, jacket and very nice flip flops. No issue. In fact - I can count on one hand the number of times I've worn "real shoes" to work this summer. I'm in an office - in sales.
No Big Deal!!
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Posted by: Sean at July 23, 2005 01:20 AM (Evr8K)
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I'd have to agree with Sean, at least in the USA. Flip-flops are a bit too casual for a formal setting, and meeting the President, however one feels about him, is one of those times. It is, to me, a matter of respect. It is also not that newsworthy really. So while the girls should have put on shoes, the newspapers didn't have to care so much about it.
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July 20, 2005
SUPPORT
It seems
Prager's article on the Left's support for the troops caused quite a stir. I thought more about the outrage that article spawned after I read this line from David Horowitz's book,
Radical Son:
Hands Off Cuba! and Bring the Troops Home! were slogans designed to consolidate majorities, but also to achieve agendas that would never have been defended by most of the people who eventually supported them.
Horowitz was talking about the Vietnam era, but I was struck by the parallel to today's cries. And it made me start thinking about all of the people who are offended by the suggestion that they don't support the troops.
My father has had little contact with the military. He didn't go to Vietnam, but he had friends who went and didn't return. He recently surprised my mother with a diatribe about how we should bring our boys home. My father votes Republican, so it's not a matter of politics; I assume he simply can't stand the idea of any Americans fighting and dying, especially when his only daughter's husband is involved. I don't think that makes my dad anti-war...and I would hope that he would be horrified to hear of the birds who have flocked together. That's what struck me about Horowitz's statement.
Who can honestly say that they don't want our soldiers and marines to come home? "Bring the Troops Home!" is a huge umbrella statement that covers many points of view, indeed "designed to consolidate majorities". The scary part is when people who fall under that umbrella don't know about the company they're keeping. ANSWER wants us to bring the troops home too, but they're an offshoot of the Marxist-Leninist Workers World Party, organizing anti-war protests that I'm sure many unsuspecting, good-intentioned people attended. (Hey, if my father went to a protest, maybe some activist could hand him a "Bring Home the Troops" sign, you know, since he's got his hands full with his "Death to Jews" sign anyway.)
Several people emailed or commented to say that they had done X,Y, or Z for friends and family who were deployed. Fabulous. But by being on the Left, you need to be aware of the company you're keeping. Do you know about the reporters such as the one Toby Harnden met?:
Not only had [a well-known journalist] ‘known’ the Iraq war would fail but she considered it essential that it did so because this would ensure that the ‘evil’ George W. Bush would no longer be running her country. Her editors back on the East Coast were giggling, she said, over what a disaster Iraq had turned out to be. ‘Lots of us talk about how awful it would be if this worked out.’
Many mainstream writers and people on the Left are actively hoping for failure in Iraq. So are Daily Kos' readers, and that left-wing blog gets more traffic than any other blog out there. Disgusting characters like Ted Rall and Michael Moore want to bring the troops home, and I wouldn't be caught under any umbrella with them.
Most Americans want the servicemembers to come home safe and sound, but if you google "bring troops home", you get a list of anti-war sites and writings. If you want to bring them home, then admittedly you don't want them to all die (which is more than we can say for some), but it's not the same thing as supporting the troops. Support has to be more than sending a box of deoderant and candy and hoping they don't all die. As Prager said, you have to support their fight too. That's where we argue semantics, and I think it's an important distinction. I wrote about this before, and I stand by my original assertion:
LT Smash points out that we have an all-volunteer military and that "the troops are committed to winning the war. If you donÂ’t share that goal, then you are not, by definition, supporting them." People in his comments section disagree, but Smash points out two different definitions of supporting the troops: "Your definition would appear to be 'wish them good health and hope they come home safe.' My definition of 'support' is a bit more robust than that. In my world, 'supporting the troops' also means letting them know that you appreciate the sacrifices they are making, and believe in the cause they're fighting for."
I tend to think that the first definition should be an understood, that no human would wish that soldiers should be injured or die (though some of the posts on Democratic Underground might suggest otherwise). Therefore, it's not worth broadcasting, just as "I support cancer patients" or "I support the disabled" seem inane.
Not everyone agreed with Smash, as the volume of comments shows, but I do agree with him, as I do with Prager. You don't have to agree with me on the definition of "support" if you don't want to, but just be careful of which umbrellas you're under.
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Sarah,
That's the longest post I've seen you put up in a while, and I really appreciate your thoughts and perspective. I am a former Infantry officer (I got out in 2000 as a no-tim-in-grade Captain)and based on my experience, you speak for a lot of soldiers and military families. Keep up the good work; I read your site every day. God bless you and your husband and thank both of you for doing what you do for the rest of us.
Chadd Newman
Frederick, Maryland
Posted by: Chadd at July 20, 2005 10:49 AM (roGJq)
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Part of this post is interesting, and part isn't. The argument that you shouldn't be on the Left at all because there are some nasty people over there isn't serious. The Right is a big umbrella too, with lots of horrible people under it. No matter wehre you are on thepolitical spectrum, you'll be standing close to someone not very respectable. Besides, remember the Left/Right reflects stances on a lot of different political issues. Am I really supposed to start supporting Bush's asinine stance on taxes just because I might not like the foreign policy positions of some people on the Left? (Or rather, because you don't like them?)
The bit about what it means to support the troops is interesting, but unconvincing and/or unclear. Does this mean that anyone who thought the war was a bad idea before it happened automatically doesn't support the troops? That would mean that the only way you could be a person who always supports the troops is to be a person who believes that we ought to go to war against the whole world. That way, whoever we fight next---Sweden?---you think the war is a good idea. This would be crazy, and no one supports the troops in this sense. Remember my post about Republicans who opposed Kosovo, for example.
Maybe the idea is that once we go to war you have to hope we win, even if you opposed the war to begin with. That makes a little more sense, but winning and losing wars aren't the only options. I could never want to see our troops defeated in battle, and I don't think that people who said that they hoped the Iraq policy would fail were really hoping for that either. Someone who wants to bring the troops home immediately (I don't) isn't hoping for a military defeat. Nor is the idea of bringing the troops home when the fight looks unwinnable something that only "the Left" would think of. Nixon pulled out of Viet Nam, Reagan pulled out of Beirut.
Do I have to support the way the war is being fight, in order to support the troops? I think that Rumsfeld screwed up big time by not having a better plan to preserve order in Iraq afer the invasion. Does that mean I don't support the troops? (Is Rummy one of the troops? Is Tommy Franks?) Does it help that the Army War College is on my side? If I think that Abu Ghraib was a fairly serious matter, that it is right that soldier got punished for it, and that probably some officers should have been punished along with the enlisted, does that mean I don't support the troops? If I worry about the fact that troops constantly afraid of being ambushed are sure to kill innocent civilians because something about the way that look makes them nervious, do I not support the troops? If I don't see any way we can avoid continuing to alienate the people we are supposed to be trying to help, do I not support the troops?
Posted by: Pericles at July 20, 2005 03:08 PM (hHudX)
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I live in New York City, and know people who lost family members on September 11th.
Some want the troops home simply because they don't want US soldiers, who signed up to defend our country, to die in a foreign land fighting for a seemingly ungrateful people. They don't care about the nuances and subtleties of winning over the muslim world. They honestly just think that if we have a problem with an Islamic country, well, we have a nuclear arsenal that'll resolve any security issues overseas.
They're honest and good people, but don't think the Muslim world is worth another American soldier's life.
They don't support the liberal approach to "troops out", which is accepting responsibility for the muslim world's problems and grovelling. Their approach is "nuke the sh*t out of the bastards".
Posted by: Sean at July 20, 2005 03:45 PM (BN/Fu)
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It is a weird blindness that refuses to see our interest in killing Jihadists. Their bring the troops home crap is akin to refusing to fight a forest fire until it reaches your fence.
it is likely the pressure to bring the boys home at the end of WWII was inspired by communists who wanted no interference in their push to world dominance. Now it is mostly to bash Bush. Since we know that words can kill, it is time to dust off the sedition laws and write some exile penalties.
Posted by: Walter E. Wallis at July 20, 2005 04:20 PM (xX0fS)
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Sedition laws violate the First Amendment. Since Bush tells us that the terrorists hate us for our freedoms, wouldn't getting rid of the Bill of Rights mean that we were appeasing the terrorists? Frankly, I'm not sure that some conservatives' vision of what this country ought to look like is so different from Afghanistan under the Taliban, except without the beards.
Posted by: Pericles at July 22, 2005 02:22 PM (hHudX)
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"the troops are committed to winning the war"
This is where "smash's" argument got completely retarded. The war is over. The troops are working security while Iraq gets back on its feet after we went in got rid of a bad leader and broke a bunch of stuff.
'Supporting our troops' is really a nebulous and ultimately meaningless phrase that right wingers really like since they can keep redefiining it however they like to use it to clobber people they don't like. I have friends and family in the service, I send them things, write them letters, and do what I can to make their lives bearable in that sh*t-hole over there. But since I think (and always thought) that the invasion was wholly unjustified and think that our President is working for the sake of his personal benefit and benefit of his amoral friends rather than for the benefit of either the U.S or Iraq I don't "support the troops."
The whole "support the troops" trope exists to distract from real questions and criticisms. It's just a tar baby designed to get you stuck in lame arguments where the terms can keep being redefined since they are ultimately meaningless.
Posted by: R at July 22, 2005 08:59 PM (+pCG+)
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My first question is why would you have read Horowitz in the first place? If you want to inform yourself to what's going on in the world he's one of the last people you should refer to.KB
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RE-UP
An interesting side note that no one mentions when they talk about military recruiting these days, via
this Stars and Stripes article:
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Stars and stripes is not what I would call an "independent source" for those numbers. If that is so why does no paper not published by the pentagon print that??
Posted by: Bubba Bo Bob Brain at July 17, 2005 09:29 PM (aHbua)
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So, what, that means it's falsified? I personally think other papers don't care about making the military look successful in its goals. And anecdotally speaking, my husband reenlisted all but two of his eligible soldiers while they were in Iraq.
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I'd like to know what the overall rate is. Anti-Bush MSM like citing recruiting numbers as evidence that the GWoT is causing our military to weaken. The military cities performance against re-enlisment goals.
What's the big picture?
Posted by: Sean at July 18, 2005 12:59 PM (etwyR)
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Sean asks an important question. My hunch is that the Army is behind its goals if you look at new enlistments plus re-enlistments together. According to Stars and Stripes, so far in FY '05 the Army is about 3,000 ahead of its goals in re-enlistments. I don't know the new enlistment number for the same time period. But just in February alone, new enlistments were over 1,900 below the goal. In May, it fell over 1,600 below its goal. PLUS, in May the Army actually dropped its goal to 6,070 from 8,050. It missed its original goal for that month alone by about 3,000.
For the record, I don't think that you can infer anything positive or negative about the success of Bush's policies from these numbers. It does say that our soldiers aren't cowards, but no one thought that they were.
Posted by: Pericles at July 18, 2005 03:49 PM (hHudX)
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All,
The reenlisment goals are what are set by the individual service for that year in order to meet "end strength" numbers. Each service has a set "end strength" (number of personnel at the end of the fiscal year--1 Oct). This includes the recruiting goal.
For instance if the end strenght is "X" and recruiting falls short, reenlisments have to increase to meet end strength requirements.
I look at the high reenlistment rate as a sign of what we are doing right and recruitment as an indicator of what we are doing wrong. We are doing a good job of showing the importance of our work (reenlistments) and a poor job of selling ourselves to the mother's and father's of potential recruits (enlistments).
Notice the Corps is awesome at reenlistments? Despite one of the most heavily burdened services with combat deployments? That just shows the "common" Marine believes in what he/she is doing! Same goes for the other services.
Bottom line is people who serve believe in the fight and the importance of what we accomplish every day.
V/R
Jamie
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One explanation of this that I've heard is that the combination of high re-enlistment bonuses and stop-loss have led to many people re-enlisting simply because they know they'll be forced to stay in anyway and if they don't re-enlist, they won't get the re-up bonus. This doesn't counter your statement but it hardly leads us to think that there's a great deal of enthusiasm for the war.
Posted by: Karlo at July 19, 2005 09:07 PM (r65rq)
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Jamie -- I am reminded of what Donald Sensing's son went through when he was trying to choose
Army or Marines. The Army relies heavily on the GI Bill as a selling point, but not many people are going to take that bait during a war. In contrast, the Marines focus on patriotism and duty. That's a stark contrast, in my opinion.
Posted by: Sarah at July 20, 2005 04:52 AM (aZGxu)
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Karlo,
There isn't a great deal of enthusiasm for ANY war. If you've been to one, you realize why the phrase "War is Hell" was coined.
However, we are fighting for our very beliefs and way of life. If we are to roll over and allow the terrorist to win, we lose--everything. Believe it or not this a large part of the "war on terror". It was never about WMD. We are fighting extremist who want to take away our way of life and replace it with a version 99% of US citizens wouldn't comprehend. I am NOT talking about Isam as a religion either.
We fight there or they come here. It REALLY is as simple as that. Would anyone want Zarqawi roaming in their neighborhood? That is exactly what we would get if we don't fight. Just imagine 100 million Zarqawis roaming in the neighborhood of the US. Most people fighting know this. Reenlistments are high because of this.
Sarah is right though. The Army doesn't do a good job of sales. Also, the media doesn't help by displaying anything that shines a bad light on the military and never showing the positive work done by our armed services.
The Army does offer some good bonuses though for re-ups (so does the Air Force--I got a pretty decent chunk of change. Even as a "lifer"). Bonuses do help retention but not as much as most think. Also stop loss is really not an issue here. Most of the stop loss stories are rumors.
V/R
Jamie
PS: Sorry Sarah for taking over your comments. I couldn't resist this one.
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About a year ago, a former Marine officer I know laid out for me the different recruiting pitches that the different branches use. He said that for the Army it was the GI Bill, as other people have said. For the Marines, though, he thought it was "We will make a man of you." He said that the men he commanded were mostly guys who had been scrawny runts before going into the Corps who were sick of being pushed around and who wanted the Corps to toughen them up. (Which is what happened, I presumed; I'm not calling any serving Marines runts.)
I think the "Better to fight them in Iraq in America" line is bogus, though. We are fighting different groups of people in Iraq. Some are Baathists, or Iraqis who were not in love with Saddam but don't want another country's army in their territory. They would never have bothered us if we weren't in Iraq. Then there are the real jihadists, the suicide bomber types who had been suppressed under Saddam but are coming in over the border. Them we need to kill. If we hadn't gone into Iraq, though, then they would have gone to Afghanistan, and we could have killed them there. And concentrating on Afghanistan would have saved us a lot of trouble. That was the war we had to fight, and if we had focused on it 100% maybe Osama Bin Laden---the guy who killed 3,000+ Americans---would be dead or in jail.
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SAJAK
Raise your hand if you knew that Pat Sajak is a right-wing nutjob. I sure didn't, but I've had a fun time reading some of his
archived articles.
But what's the deal with the new Wheel of Fortune? It was so much simpler when I used to watch it with my grandma; now I can't figure out what's going on a lot of the time. Since when did they get rid of bidding on dog statues and stuff?
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Wow! I always thought he was a bimbo...he is really funny.
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My hand is raised. But I don't watch anymore because it is sooooo dumb. I guess it's still on cause it is an icon by now.
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Sorry, "right-wing nutjob" is one of my favorite terms of endearment for the Right; I picked it up from that JibJab cartoon and I use it tongue-in-cheek all the time.
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i knew, i knew!
i still prefer "jeopardy" to "wheel" tho.
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The Left doesn't support the troops and should admit it
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Typical right-wing thinking, Prager is an utter pin-head, you think the mission is FUBAR, but you can't support the troops? Praytell me then what was the "care package" I sent to the Army about?? I think the troops should not be in Iraq, but if the miserable pile of excrement that is our government insists on placing them in harms way I can send some stuff to them to make their time a little easier, doesn't mean I approve of the mission foisted upon them though. What a schmuck.
Posted by: Bubba Bo Bob Brain at July 14, 2005 08:04 PM (aHbua)
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Oh yeah Sarah,
Go ask some of the "chickenhawks" how much they have sent to Iraq to "support the troops". I bet you'll be surprised at the answers you get.
Posted by: Bubba Bo Bob Brain at July 14, 2005 08:08 PM (aHbua)
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There is one clear sense in which I think all Americans support the troops, which is that we wish for their well-being. I support the troops in another sense, too; I fervently hope that their efforts to patch Iraq together into some kind of functioning society succeed. But I do think it was foolish to launch the war when and as we did, and I continue to say so. Does this mean that I don't support the troops in the sense that you care about? It isn't hard to find quotes on the net where conservatives (including people in the Administration now, like Cheney) criticized the decision to deploy forces in the Balkans. This even while fighting was taking place. Does this mean that THEY failed to support the troops?
Posted by: Pericles at July 14, 2005 10:13 PM (hHudX)
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Conservative voices from 1999 on the war in the Balkans.
http://slate.msn.com/default.aspx?id=27730
Posted by: Pericles at July 14, 2005 11:46 PM (hHudX)
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Gee, Bubba: I thought the point of supporting the troops was... supporting the troops, and not bragging about how great you were for doing it.
Posted by: Patrick Chester at July 14, 2005 11:56 PM (74cXW)
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There are plenty of people on the Left who do not wish for our servicemembers' well-being: Democratic Underground is full of them. A perfect example was the thread
I hope the bloodshed continues:
The only way to get rid of this slime bag WASP-Mafia, oil barron ridden cartel of a government, this assault on Americans and anything one could laughingly call "a democracy", relies heavily on what a shit hole Iraq turns into. They need to die so that we can be free. Soldiers usually did that directly--i.e., fight those invading and harming a country. This time they need to die in defense of a lie from a lying adminstration to show these ignorant, dumb Americans that Bush is incompetent. They need to die so that Americans get rid of this deadly scum. It is obscene, Barbie Bush, how other sons (of much nobler blood) have to die to save us from your Rosemary's Baby spawn and his ungodly cohorts.
Posted by: Sarah at July 15, 2005 01:18 AM (ujwCC)
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You can't pull some random quote from a place like Democatic Underground and take that to be representative of how "the Left" thinks. Or even significant portions of people on the Left. That is no more fair than my going to Free Republic or Little Green Footballs (?) and choosing the nuttiest thing someone posted there and saying "This is how conservatives think." From a site like that, you can't even be sure that the craziest quotes don't come people who are actually on the opposite side of the spectrum, trying to discredit their opponents by making them look like whackos. That post you quoted might have come from Karl Rove.
In criticizing a view held at most by some weird fringe element, you are arguing with a strawman. There are plenty of serious-minded critics of the war; it would be a better use of time to engage their arguments.
When people you love are risking their lives in a war, I can understand how it must be frustrating to hear people say things like "This was the wrong war." or "Even if it was the right war, it was the wrong plan." But don't shoot the messenger. And don't think that it means that the people saying these things have less respect for people in uniform.
Posted by: Pericles at July 15, 2005 08:06 AM (hHudX)
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So here's how you support your view of the LEFT:
You link to Vodka Pundit who links to Sullivan who links to a message board (Democratic Underground) on which anyone can post anything. That explains everything. You need to get out more.
Posted by: Dave at July 17, 2005 12:36 PM (19PZO)
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Hey Chesty, I didn't mention it to brag, but rather to point out how specious the argument raised by Prager is. As usual the right manages to mis-interperate the most simple of sentence constructions.
Posted by: Aging Veteran at July 17, 2005 09:33 PM (aHbua)
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Stupid comments wouldn't give me my usual nick-name, and e-mail.
Posted by: Bubba Bo Bob Brain at July 17, 2005 09:35 PM (aHbua)
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Sarah, Nobody expects you to standup to the flak you're getting here. But I hope you at least think about it.
Posted by: Dave at July 18, 2005 12:36 AM (h40yz)
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Bubba wrote:
"Hey Chesty, I didn't mention it to brag, but rather to point out how specious the argument raised by Prager is."
Uh huh... and your saying "I have put off paying bills to send supplies to the troops" combined with attacking all the icky people who disagree with you as not sending much isn't bragging? Pull the other one, it's got bells on it.
Hm. I wonder where I said I was on the right or the left? Oh wait, I didn't. Are you claiming to be on the left? If so, I will address you as such. Otherwise, I don't need to know your political leanings to know you're just another loudmouthed little braggart.
Posted by: Patrick Chester at July 18, 2005 01:36 AM (MKaa5)
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Chesty I dare your ass to come to Clementon NJ and say that to my face. First, after I disply my DD214 to you I'll proceed to feed it to you ok?? You will discover that I do not brag when I say: "I take shit from no man, woman, child, small mammal, or vending machine".
Posted by: Bubba Bo Bob Brain at July 18, 2005 07:59 PM (aHbua)
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Main Entry: brag·gart
Pronunciation: 'bra-g&rt
Function: noun
: a loud arrogant boaster
Odd, how I never said anything about whether or not you'd been in the military and discharged yet here you are using it in a threat against my well-being.
Oh well.
Posted by: Patrick Chester at July 18, 2005 11:10 PM (MKaa5)
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Typical mouthy blog coward eh Chesty? Only further illustrates the "Chickenhawk" meme.
Posted by: B at July 19, 2005 12:03 AM (aHbua)
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Odd. You emailed me and offered to take this to email. How unsurprising that you did it after making your last post.
Ah well. Make one last post, I guess. I am through with you on this topic.
Posted by: Patrick Chester at July 19, 2005 01:10 AM (MKaa5)
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July 13, 2005
GRRR
Last night my husband and I had a meeting with a financial advisor, and the longer I sat through the meeting, the madder I got. You have a ROTH IRA, you get taxed in the end. You have a regular IRA, you get taxed now. You die with money and you have all these death taxes to pay.
Why, oh why, are people punished for saving their money wisely?
Forget "what would Jesus do"; I find myself often wondering What Would Our Founding Fathers Think? How would they react to knowing that, because my husband and I saved all his deployment money instead of spending it on big screen TVs and cars, we now have to fork over taxes to the government if we want to invest it?
It's our money, dang it.
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Look carefully at your money - every piece says 'The United States of America' on it. None of it says 'Sarah' on it. This shows that the money belongs to the government, and they just let you use some of it sometimes.
Posted by: Glenmore at July 13, 2005 08:37 AM (loaB2)
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Funny how that works. The government says "Look, see what we have given you!" while having its hand out asking for a cut.
Posted by: Cerberus at July 13, 2005 12:21 PM (nzIoS)
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Generally if your easily-valued assets have a total value under $1,000,000 you do not need to woestate tax return, so unless the Military pays you guys much better than it pays my brothers (one of whome is an officer), I don't think you need to worry too much.
I think estate taxes are actually a good thing since they keep 'old money' from growing too much and help to level the playing field so that merit and hard work rather than inheritance determine one's chance at realizing wealth. I think it has actually helped to keep the U.S. as a land of opportunity rather than devolving into a Corporate-Feual state.
Personally I stuck with ROTH IRAs mostly. Deferred tax works for me.
I expect that the Founding Fathers would be horrified at a lot of things in the U.S. today, including a permanent standing army (since your Hubby is a big part of Big Government your taxes are really just getting paid back to you in his salary), the corruption of federalism such that highway money and 'interstate commerce' allow the Feds to keep removing power from the states, the degree to which the executive branch has taken powers from the Legislative - Congress is no longer actually involved in the decision to declare war, etc.
I wondder which thing that would have them most disgusted. I think it's likely that it would be the war on drugs (there is good evidence that at least a few Fonding Fathers smoked weed), with the "Patriot" act coming in at a close second. I expect that the degree of corruption in the Congress - the many and various abuses there are myriad, I am especially disgusted that Congressmen get an automatic pay increase each year, unless they specifically vote against it.
Thinking about it more, I think that the direction that the awful state of our two party system at this point where only those who can afford to pay get to play would be the thing that horrified them most.
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Posted by: Pamela at July 14, 2005 04:44 PM (a7Bpk)
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You aren't paying extra taxes on the money you saved instead of spending. If you put the money into a regular IRA you don't pay income taxes on it now. You will pay income tax on all of the money in the IRA, your contributions plus yor additional earnings, just once, when you withdraw the money. Better yet, with a Roth, you pay income tax on the contributions now and you don't pay tax on either those or the earnings later. So you pay income tax on each dollar of income once at most, and with a Roth you get some money tax free.
It is easy to say what Jesus would think, though. Bush calls Jesus his favorite political philosopher, but he ignores what is virtually the only thing Jesus ever said about politics... "Render unto Caesar what is Caesaer's." Pay your taxes.
Posted by: Pericles at July 15, 2005 08:13 AM (hHudX)
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first of all, I hit this blog trying to find out if the 1ID unit that was in ARMOR geddon's blog was my old unit 2/2 from the 9ID.
Teh I saw the IRA crapination and had to throw in my two cents.
Read the RichDAD/PoorDAD books,there's a reason theyre bestsellers, its not hype.
Corporations make money, spend it, then pay taxes. Individuals make money, pay taxes,then spendit.
If youre so cheap that you won't pay brokerage or get real damned financial advisor that doesnt do what every mall rat democrat does then you'll pay a premium for squirreling away money. If it is not IN PLAY and making you money every month without you lifting afinger than the Gov'T will TAKE IT. And you can thank your loving socialist neighbors for them having the power.
Fuck taxes,tax is for IDIOTS. Jefferson and Adams both said it was every citizens DUTY to pay the least amount possible. Lookwaht the communists have done with Social Security!!MOney for OLD PEOPLE!! And they stole every fucking penny. You really think you should give these people more!!!? Don'tworry about the welfare state, they'll find their cash...
Invest in a business,get your home loan into an interest-only loan and invest the monthly savings. Pay business taxes only. Get a fucking accountant and a bookkeeper that OWNS SHIT!!! If youre stuck in the same traffic light as your brokers, youre a cheap ass idiot. Buy a nevad corporation,get a fucking clue and PAY someone to incorporate you . Otherwise you can go give your money to wall street and watch them steal every penny while you piss and moan for the government to change and save you,which will NEVER happen!!
Rich people are DIFFERENT!! You can'tbethe sameold dumbass and keep your money. It has to be in play or it will be stolen. Any idoit can beatup on an IRA,roth or not.
That shit is just for suckers...
Conform and perish.
Posted by: playertwo at July 25, 2005 02:22 PM (YSkil)
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I could see the steam coming out of playertwo's ears there.
If tax money is used well, paying taxes is a boon. War, for instance, is never a good way to spend money.
"Do what rich people do". Rich people of course don't play by the rules. That's how they get rich. The rules are there for you to adhere to so that they can abuse them and get rich. It's an easy system. Look at how Carnegie, Rockefeller and Bill Gates got rich. There's a lot of hard work in there, sure, but there's also quite a bit of armtwisting as well.
It's not you who has to do as rich people do. It's the rich people who have to do as you do: pay their dues.
Playertwo does not seem to be a very socially engaged individual. That is his choice, of course. Who am I to judge.
The thing is though: why would the poor people believe in the law of the land if they only get the short end of the stick: no benefits or social security and if the country goes to war, they get to pay with their life for the mistakes of others.
Actually, here is where I follow playertwo completely: the soldiers from a poor background especially should go up to their commanders and say: "You want me to keep fighting? Sure. It's going to cost you though: 5 million bucks, pay up front. If I don't get my money, you get to stand guard yourself."
If there is no apparent reason or need to look out for the weaker elements in society, why should the weaker elements of society die to defend it? It's not my idea of a good time.
And I would wear flipflops. I'm sure it would piss of somebody.
Posted by: Jorge at July 26, 2005 08:23 AM (wb4gG)
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I CRY FOR YOU
Charles Johnson posted a link on LGF, with no fanfare or explanation. I almost didn't click on it, but I was intrigued by the poetic name. And as I read
But None Ever Cried for Me, I was filled with a sense of horror and shame.
In the words spoken by these politicians I hear affirmation that my child's blood, a Jewish child's blood, is of a different color. I shivered as I heard London's mayor, Livingstone, lamented that this was "mass murder... by terrorists bent on indiscriminate... slaughter... aimed at ordinary working-class Londoners...." and an ugly thought entered my mind.
What of the slaughter of my children, 'ordinary, working-class' brothers and sisters in Haifa and Jerusalem, Ashdod and Ashkelon? What about my working-class Jewish fellow citizens whose simple wants and needs are the same as those in London? Where is the determination to eradicate the vermin who have turned Israeli streets into infernos as they blow up buses, restaurants and malls?
Do those murdering and maiming my children deserve a state of their own from which they can peacefully continue to bathe my country in blood? Why are the snakes in London to be pursued and eradicated, while those who have killed young Jewish mothers, Jewish infants and the unborn are to be rewarded and feted as heroes in every corner of every continent in the universe?
We've let those Islamobarbarians kill in Israel for far longer than we've noticed. In our eyes, the Islamofascist fight started in 2001, but it's been going on for far longer than that. We pretend somehow that they're not the same people killing in Iraq and New York. But they are. They're the same sombitches, and they need to be stopped too.
Israel, I cry for you. I really do.
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July 12, 2005
MEETING
Today I was trying to remember when I first read Bunker Mulligan. I was happy, and tearful, to find that I had
documented the occasion:
The sphere grows every day. You write a post. Maybe someone notices it. Oh, look, a comment. And they've left a link to their own blog. And then you go there and realize that you now have yet another blog you'd like to read every day and you're running out of time in the day.
Shoot. That just happened to me.
Mike left a comment, so I went to his blog and found an amazing post on intelligence. There's so much there, but one tidbit is
To truly be "smart," you must have knowledge and experience. And those must both be broad and eclectic. Knowledge can come from books, but experience only comes from doing something other than reading and writing. Unfortunately, many people feel they can get by with one or the other. I've known some very intelligent people with loads of knowledge who cannot judge distance, hammer a nail, or relate an allegory to anything in their lives. I've known people with years of experience doing things who cannot understand theoretical concepts well enough to capitalize on that experience. The "intellectual elite" fall into the former category.
I started reading his site again from the beginning, and I found one bit that made me smile:
Like Twain, I shy away from organized churches. I've found a better relationship with God on my own. My cathedral has 18 holes, bunkers, tee boxes, water hazards, and greens. I'm closer to God on the golf course than I am sitting in a pew surrounded by people who believe almost the way I do.
If there's a heaven, Bunker's playing golf there every day.
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I was just looking at my blogroll and thought for a moment about removing the link to his site but I could not bring myself to do it. The world is a poorer place without him in it, but thinking of him playing golf in Heaven made me smile. Thanks
Posted by: Cerberus at July 13, 2005 03:26 AM (nzIoS)
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I haven't been able to take him off bookmarks or the blogfeeds I read, either. I'm still feeling I failed him in some way. Or maybe I just failed in follow through on what he suggested. I know it's silly but I feel I failed a lot of people by not writing on what's needed in education, life, etc. And mayabe that is conceited of me. I don't know but I still feel grief that we are not getting the benefit of his wisdom anymore.
Posted by: Ruth H at July 13, 2005 04:40 PM (o+WT7)
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Me too, Ruth. I find at least one thing every day that I'd like to hear his opinion on...
Posted by: Sarah at July 13, 2005 04:52 PM (X9WY3)
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Yeah to all of that. Man, it's funny how you miss a pen pal like that, isn't it?
And I haven't been back to the golf course yet, either.
God Speed Bunker.
Thanks, Sarah: you're a gem. And thanks to your husband for his dedicated service, from a veteran.
Posted by: Paulie at The Commons at July 13, 2005 09:18 PM (4KwiQ)
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PUP-DATE
Charlie celebrated his three month birthday yesterday...
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He just needs to be snuggled. What a sweetie.
Happy 1st Quarter Charlie!!
Posted by: Tammi at July 12, 2005 08:41 AM (F4oo1)
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He is getting blonder, and bigger!!
Posted by: ArmyWifeToddlerMom at July 12, 2005 11:38 AM (TJcCA)
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OMG, he is so cute! Happy first quarter Charlie
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July 11, 2005
TOUR DE BLAH
Dear Tour de France,
Riders in the Tour should not be allowed to wear yellow. Sponsors with yellow jerseys make it extremely difficult to find the Maillot Jaune. Because other teams wear yellow, some people drive four and a half hours to see the peloton and can't even find Lance when it comes whizzing by. And that makes some people really irritated and sad.
Sincerely,
Sarah
We drove to Mulhouse yesterday for the finish line, and I was quite disappointed with my Tour experience. We waited for two hours at our spot at about 750 meters from the finish line, and then when Rasmussen finally arrived, this is the photo I got, thanks to the jackass standing next to me.
That's the winner of the stage, right behind the stupid balloon some guy waved in my face. I managed to get a good photo of Voigt and Moreau as they took second and third, but then the peloton came screaming by and I couldn't even find Lance, but I got to listen to my husband rave about how cool it was to see him. And then it was all over; only the people in the VIP section could see the end ceremonies, so we walked back to the car and that was that.
We discussed how the Americans would run a Tour de France: lots of big screens and food vendors and selling souvenirs and crap; a big stadium area for the end ceremony so everyone could enjoy it. As it was, we felt like no one really cared if spectators came or not. It was kinda weird, and rather disappointing.
I'm glad we went because it was something neat to say we've done, but I'm not sure it was worth nine hours in the car yesterday. I'd rather watch it on OLN.
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It would be cool to see.
When you get back to the US, come down to Austin for the Ride For The Roses and you can see Lance up close- maybe ride with (near) him. Heck, volunteer and you might meet him.
Posted by: Jack Grey at July 11, 2005 06:07 PM (Jq8H8)
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We took the train out to Pforzheim - and had a similar experience... but we got some pretty good pictures, and several blocked by the stupid man in front of us wearing an umbrella hat.
Posted by: Susan at July 14, 2005 02:31 PM (sJmbQ)
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It's not the "Tour de Grok" honey, better luck next year!
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