August 31, 2006
BLAME GAME
MSN taglines are so danged catchy that I often find myself following their links. And today I found
this hunk of baloney under the heading "Is your husband making you fat?"
When we live with other people, we tend to compromise our behaviors. On “Today’s Woman,” we look at whether your husband is making you fat. If you find yourself plopped down on the couch with chips in your hand at night or look in your cupboard to discover it’s filled with cookies, it might not be all your fault.
I find this paragraph so annoying that I don't even know where to start. First of all, if my husband enjoys chips or cookies and wants to use his hard-earned money to buy those items, I most certainly am not required to eat them just because they're in the house. (If you find your teen plopped down on the couch with a beer, is he free from blame because you were the one who stupidly had alcohol in the house and he couldn't be expected to control himself?) It is not my husband's fault if I choose to eat junk and then get fatter because of it; anything I have done to gain weight over the years is my fault and mine alone. I hate this constant blame-shifting. Suggesting a healty diet for both the husband and wife is a wonderful idea, but it's extremely condescending to target women by saying that it's probably their man's fault they're getting fat.
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That's because, if you watch enough commercials on TV, that the Idiot Husband is always taking the healthy snack meal out of the microwave before the Hardworking Wife can snarf it down, leaving her little choice but to gorge disconsolately on the chips and Velveeta.
Posted by: Deskmerc at August 31, 2006 06:19 AM (MK29W)
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Female Victimology - you have to love it. It's ALWAYS the man's fault. I can't tell you how sick I am of that mantra. *sigh* Heaven forbid that any woman take responsiblity for her actions when she can blame the man. It's sickening.
Posted by: Teresa at August 31, 2006 07:24 PM (o4pJS)
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The problem is that you, are tying to place personal responsibility in to a MSM news source and thatÂ’s just wrong. You know that the MSM will never have anyone preach or teach about personal responsibility. But thatÂ’s neither here nor there.
Posted by: dagamore at August 31, 2006 09:27 PM (7IZfE)
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Yeah, look at you. You're fat because you sit around knitting, watching tv, reading, and eating sour cream by the gallon. You can't expect your husband to come home from a hard day at the government teat and drag your big butt away from the computer to do some exercise!
Posted by: Willy C at September 01, 2006 03:15 AM (UHDmC)
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BTW, Willy, you certainly have a bad attitude. I see no reason for peoples' comments to be so downright nasty. Sarah loves a good discussion or debate, but you do nothing of the sort. You and a few others just sling insults, and very personal insults at that. You don't even discuss the subject at hand. And, also, Sarah goes to the gym every day, walks every day, and swims laps every day. Her husband thinks she's beautiful and they are so happy together. So sad you spew insults, and especially personal insults, towards Sarah when you don't really even know her. Yes, I'm prejudice because I'm her mother, but it would do you well to learn a few lessons on life from your mother. I try to find some good in every person, know that people will not always agree with my opinions, and sometimes life is not fair. Those are a few things I've taught my children, and they seem to be doing okay.
Sarah's Mama
Posted by: Nancy at September 01, 2006 06:04 PM (bw5Sm)
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Nice comment, Willy. I can only hope that you were trying to be funny but failed.
Anywho, going back to the subject.... I agree about the blame-everyone-but-yourself for obesity in the US. "It's the Fast Food Companies! It's not YOUR fault!" There's a commercial for a weight loss pill that actually says something like, "You're not making yourself fat; it's the cortizol!"
Whatever.
Posted by: Allicadem at September 02, 2006 07:03 AM (hozcp)
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It's a sad fact that we women, thanks to biology & the need for the survival of the species, have that extra layer of fat cells that the weaker-suriving, male body, doesn't possess. It will keep us warm if we're stuck in a blizzard, but it certainly makes putting on & taking off the pounds tougher than it is for guys. I know if Hubs and I start working out at the same time, it's ALWAYS longer before I see results than he does b/c of this & it is frustrating.
Of course, I can't account for the extra layer of fat that some people appear to carry around between their ears...present company (Willy C) included. That just comes from years and years of not exercising the brain by resorting to junior high, potty mouth of which a mom couldn't even be proud.
Well, I best return to my vat of sour cream. Where DID I put that straw!?
Posted by: Melinda at September 03, 2006 07:25 AM (mMRvT)
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Willy C. - your comment was really rude and inappropriate. I'm a leftwinger the sometimes loses his temper here and says regrettable things, but your comment was just plain unoriginal and uninspiring. I hope to god that you're a republican.
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August 30, 2006
WOAH
Wow. Did anyone just see Keith Olbermann ten minutes ago? He was completely off his rocker. I am taping the repeat at midnight because I missed the beginning of his diatribe, but apparently
Donald Rumsfeld's speech got him all in a tizzy. I think he's just ticked because Rumsfeld went after journalism.
Anyway, somehow Olbermann managed to twist history so far into itself that he said Rumsfeld is the new Chamberlain and we're waiting for the new Churchill to step up. Oooh, I know, can Murtha be Churchill? Because that would complete the wacked out reverse analogy. Rumsfeld is Chamberlain? In what universe?
Olbermann made some pretty outlandish claims. While Rumsfeld said:
I recount that history because once again we face similar challenges in efforts to confront the rising threat of a new type of fascism. Today -- another enemy, a different kind of enemy -- has made clear its intentions with attacks in places like New York and Washington, D.C., Bali, London, Madrid, Moscow and so many other places. But some seem not to have learned history's lessons.
Olbermann sarcastically said, "This country faces a new type of facism indeed." Referring to the Bush administration. Olbermann actually had the gall to say that the United States is a democracy, "sometimes just barely."
Sometimes.
Just.
Barely.
Is he joking or insane? Just barely. Keith, if this were a fascist state and barely a democracy, you wouldn't have made it to the end of that rant. And you wouldn't make it to work tomorrow. For all your ridiculous talk about the Bush administration being omnipotent and fascist, I bet you still have your job tomorrow.
Lord, this diatribe was too good to be true. But you know, Fox is the biased one and the other networks are bastions of middleoftheroadhood. Blogging fun like this doesn't come along every day.
Rumsfeld is Chamberlain. Just wow.
I'll be checking OlbermannWatch tomorrow for their response.
MORE TO GROK:
I hit refresh one more time after I posted this, and the OlbermannWatch for today is up! Better commentary than mine here.
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Rumsfeld will be right about something sooner or later. It's the law of averages. He'll be right about something, if only by accident. Maybe this is that thing!
Posted by: jimdennis at August 30, 2006 06:21 PM (dIlny)
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Yesterday Instapundit had a link to a QandO post wherein the AP story about the speech was compared with the speech itself:
http://www.qando.net/details.aspx?Entry=4496
Makes for some interesting reading. Enjoy!
Posted by: Teresa at August 31, 2006 07:19 PM (o4pJS)
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Yes obviuosly if we see a trend towards fascism in this country we should all realize that we cannot say anything until such time that we are not allowed to-- then we can. Of course it will be too late. Is it not obvious that one means we are nearing a fascist state when one compares the recent trends to fascism. I just heard reactionary arguments made that the democratic party is Stalinist because the primary voters went for Lamont. If this was Stalinist no one would be able to call it Stalinist. Why are you not pointing that out as well. If someone sees the trend towards totalitarianism it should be brought up while it still can be and not held back until it is too late.
Posted by: john henry at September 01, 2006 10:27 AM (hxDMK)
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No john, you can still say things. Just don't whine when people point out how completely and utterly wrong you are... all without you disappearing.
Posted by: Patrick Chester at September 01, 2006 12:17 PM (MKaa5)
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That reminds me of that Harry Taylor fellow who at a toen hall meeting ranted about how much the sucks...TO THE PRESIDENT. There's a website www.thankyouharrytaylor.org where all the libs go congratulating him on how awesome he was to speak his mind and what not. The irony is that no one seems to understand that being able to call the leader of your country a loser to his face is a freedom few people have. I don't know what my point is, I guess just what you said about all those people having their jobs in the morning not to mention their lives. Yeah I'd call that democracy more than just barely
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BLOG IN-JOKES
I wonder if any other blog-intense family has arguments where one person says he's Israel and his wife is acting like Hassan Nasrallah? Or where someone admits that her reaction to his not handing her the spices fast enough was "disproportionate"?
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HEH
From now on, any time someone takes a photo of me, I want the
Katie Couric treatment!
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You and me both, girl. Heck - I could stop this crazy diet, stop the painful exercise and never have to quit smoking...
Oh, in a perfect world. :-)
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FOR OLD TIME'S SAKE
Den Beste wrote a post on
Israel's disproportionate response. What a man.
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I'd be interested in your reaction to
this.
Posted by: David Boxenhorn at August 30, 2006 07:03 PM (dm8bD)
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Thanks for the link! I miss SDB VERY much. I wish he would share his wisdom more often. We wait patiently for Bill Whittle, I'd do the same for SDB!
Also, What to Expect When You're Expecting is an excellent book. A word of advice: Skip the parts they tell you to unless you have a specific condition (if you can possibly restrain yourself ;o) ).
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August 29, 2006
BUSH JOKES
Many people have commented about the episode of Bill Maher's show where Christopher Hitchens gave the audience the finger. But no one has said anything about the other brilliant things Hitchens brought up. Really, I just couldn't get over how danged witty his jabs were; it always took the audience a second to realize they were being ridiculed. You should watch his performance here at
The Malcontent.
Maher made joke after joke after joke about how dumb and religious Bush is. Seriously, he beat that horse. And I personally think Hitchens' best bit was getting fed up with it. At about ten minutes into the segment, he said:
I've been on the Jon Stewart show, I've been on your show, I've seen you make about five George Bush IQ jokes per night, there's no one I know who can't do it. You know what I think? This is now the joke that stupid people laugh at. It's a joke that any dumb person can laugh at because they think they're smarter, they can prove they're smarter than the President. Like the people who make booing and mooing noises in your audience.
My husband and I both agree that we will be relieved when Bush leaves office for the simple reason that hopefully we can put an end to the idiot jokes. No matter how many times someone points out that Bush's IQ is in the 90th percentile, probably slightly higher than Kerry's, no matter that Bush has degrees from Harvard and Yale, every yahoo with a computer likes to pretend he's oh so much smarter than Bush. I think Hitchens is right: people like to think Bush is stupid because it makes them feel better about themselves.
But it truly takes a simple man to think himself grand because he can make chimp jokes.
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The Bush-is-an-idiot jokes may come to an end...but what follows will be worse. Succeeding Republican presidents will be lambasted as "not even as bright as George W. Bush."
If you don't believe it, consider this: During his time in the public eye, Dan Quayle's intelligence was kept under constant attack, remember? But hearken to what Senator John "I served in Vietnam, and don't you forget it!" Kerry said during the 2000 presidential campaign:
"All over this country people are asking whether or not George Bush is smart enough to be president of the United States....the scary thing is, one of the people asking me was Dan Quayle."
Democrats and their media allies have two approaches to a Republican of stature: 1) call him a fascist, or 2) call him stupid. They'll never tire of either.
Posted by: Francis W. Porretto at August 29, 2006 12:11 PM (PzL/5)
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I think what this is really about is not IQ, but rather certain verbal mannerisms that serve as in-group markers. Here are a couple of posts I did on the topic before the election:
http://photoncourier.blogspot.com/2004_09_01_photoncourier_archive.html#109422760433909117
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http://photoncourier.blogspot.com/archives/2004_10_01_photoncourier_archive.html#109863184095038005
Posted by: david foster at August 29, 2006 12:26 PM (/Z304)
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He looks stupid. He sounds stupid. Hence the jokes.
Posted by: bob at August 30, 2006 12:31 PM (gwkri)
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On a tangent here: did you see the episode of Penn and Teller where Hitchens is one of their experts (on Mother Theresa...the episode about holiness being Bullshit)? It's on Google video. He is so funny, because he doesn't give a crap about what people think of him and was just smoking and drinking through the interview...it was priceless!
Posted by: calivalleygirl at August 30, 2006 09:35 PM (rbquN)
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A friend of mine who supports W told me that you could not blame him for the failure to put a defensive air cap over the pentagon or activate anti-aircraft guns for almost an hour after the 2nd plane hit in N.Y. because "no one told him(W) to do this" I do not think W is at all dumb but often he and his supporters have no better explanation than something like this for obvious failures.
Posted by: john henry at September 01, 2006 10:34 AM (hxDMK)
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WHEW
At least I'm not the only one who did a double take at the
Ford Freestyle ad. There's not really anything wrong with it per se, but it was a bit jarring when I realized the family was divorced. A sign of our times?
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My friends and I decided the next commercial in the series will show a happy family, dad driving, mom singing sons with the kids -- one son and one daughter in the backseat with the family dog between them. Then, at the end of the drive, they'll pile out and the boy will say, "Thanks for letting us have one more ride with Chester." At which point, the dad will put the dog down.
Posted by: marc at August 29, 2006 06:33 AM (2jDuy)
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JUSTICE
So Saddam is being
forced to watch himself on South Park. Perfect. May I remind you that I
suggested this almost two years ago. I hope he's had to watch it on a loop for at least that long. Also he should have to watch "Do the Handicapped Go to Hell?" and the subsequent episode, "Probably."
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August 28, 2006
I LOVE BOOKS
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Most Certainly Not:
1) A book that changed my life
Atlas Shrugged, of course.
2) A book I've read more than once
Atlas Shrugged, of course (2x). Also Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance (4x). Funny story about that one: My Swedish friend heard me go on and on about that book for years, and one day at her friend's house I looked at his bookshelf and nearly fainted. There was Zen och konsten att sköta en motorcykel. My friend immediately borrowed it and started it on the train. And after about an hour, she looked up at me with this exhausted look and said, "Thank god I didn't try to read this in English." And I don't think she ever picked it up again after we got off that train.
3) A book I'd take to a desert island
Maybe I should take Gravity's Rainbow so I have nothing else to do except figure it out! Who am I kidding though; I'd probably take Atlas Shrugged or Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance.
4) A book that made me laugh
I read Neither Here Nor There: Travels in Europe and Don't Go Europe! when we lived in Germany, and they both cracked me up.
5) A book that made me cry
I finished East of Eden recently, and I cried through most of it. I sat there in an empty apartment on a folding chair and wept for a week.
6) A book I wish had been written
I had an idea for a book once. I started it, but I kinda fizzled on it. I still like the idea of it, but I doubt I'll ever go through with it.
7) A book that should never have been written
That's a hard question to answer. Not anything on my shelf, no matter how much I loathe Marcel Proust. Um, The Protocols of the Elders of Zion?
A book I'm currently reading
I set down Gravity's Rainbow (I promise I'll come back to it) to read a certain book that arrived in the mail. More on that next week.
9) A book I'm planning to read
I got so many books the other day at Goodwill that it will be a struggle to choose which one comes first. Some on the list are Heart of a Soldier, The Way Things Ought to Be, Airframe, and Flying to the Moon (seriously, Goodwill must've known I was coming to put that one out.) I also still want to tackle Eurabia: The Euro-Arab Axis and Taking Science to the Moon. Still on the card are South Park Conservatives, The Wisdom of Crowds, and Diffusion of Innovation. My favorite birthday gift ever was when my parents took me to a used bookstore when I was 19 and told me to choose until my arms got full...
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I know what you are reading right now because I am too . . . do you like it?
Posted by: Heidi at August 28, 2006 11:30 AM (Rlz+k)
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I know what you are reading too, and am itching to read it, but have to wait until I get my own copy when I arrive home next week. I am sooo curious about it!
Posted by: CaliValleyGirl at August 28, 2006 12:40 PM (186zJ)
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You have to read Marley and Me. As a dog owner, I know you'd love it. I cried at the end.
Posted by: Tom at August 29, 2006 04:57 AM (PaxpS)
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Marley & Me is on my list for this week! Can't wait to crack it open.
Posted by: Melinda at August 29, 2006 08:13 AM (mMRvT)
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HEALTH CARE
It's usually pretty easy to gripe about the military health care system, so I wanted to write and say that I had the most
wonderful visit this morning. My doctor was so helpful and scheduled me for all sorts of follow-ups and treatments for various things. The whole thing -- from appointment to lab work to pharmacy -- took one hour. It was amazing. Yay for the people here at our hospital!
And I've lost ten pounds since I moved here too!
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WHAT? You lost 10 lbs? I am worrying about gaining weight when I go back to the States with all my catch-up eating of IHOP, Cold Stone Creamery, Taco Bell (without having to convince the bf that he NEEDS TB too), El Pollo Loco, etc. This gives me some hope ;-)
Posted by: CaliValleyGirl at August 28, 2006 08:02 AM (ugBbc)
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Yeah, well I should have said that I lost five pounds, plus the five pounds I gained during our leave!
Posted by: Sarah at August 28, 2006 08:10 AM (YL5y0)
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Yay, Sarah! Good for you!
You know, I was lost in thought the other day about how it would be to pay co-payments again every time I went to the doctor (or not have any health insurance at all). Not a pleasant thought. Even though I want to scream at the stupid front-desk people sometimes, I think we have pretty good medical benefits. And I don't have to have ANY money in my wallet to see the doctor, get bloodwork, or to get three months worth of medication. Gotta love it.
Posted by: Erin at August 28, 2006 01:34 PM (023Of)
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Wow! Good for you! I didn't have the same luck when we were there - I sat in the pharmacy alone for two hours. However, now that we are away from a post and using the "civilian" doctors and hospitals, I'm still running into problems. Maybe I just have bad luck with doctors/healthcare in general!
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August 27, 2006
BOOK QUOTES
Angie tagged me to do one of those blog things, so here goes.
1. Grab the nearest book.
2. Open the book to page 123.
3. Find the fifth sentence.
4. Post the text of the next 3 sentences on your Blog (Please include the book and author) along with these instructions.
5. DonÂ’t you dare dig for that "cool" or "intellectual" book in your closet! I know you were thinking about it! Just pick up whatever is closest.
6. Tag five people.
Well, the nearest book is the husband's textbook, Contemporary Strategy Analysis. Snooze, but here goes:
"The ability to share costs across different segments has been a major factor in automobiles where very few specialist manufacturers survive and most of the world's main car makers offer a full range of vehicles allowing them to share costs through common platforms and components. The analysis of a company's optimal segment range is similar to the analysis of diversification versus specialization. We shall return to this issue in Chapter 15."
Shoot me before I have to read any more. Thank heavens the husband understands this crap. The closest fun book is something on the shelves. The first one on the second shelf is probably more interesting to my blog readers: Culture Shock Germany.
"Attendance at state schools is free, as are some (though not all) teaching materials and resources, such as books. Compared to many other present day state systems, German education offers quality instruction and commendable results. At least as important when considering your child's education is that sending your children to a German state school is also one of the best ways to integrate them into German society."
That wasn't that fun either, was it? Let's try one last book, the first one on the fifth shelf, Another Roadside Attraction.
"[The cockroach] is the most primitive of winged insects and its fossils (found in the rocks of Upper Carboniferous) are the earliest known. No other creature has lived on this Eearth as long as the roach. That's rather an impressive record for the repulsive little geek."
That'll do nicely.
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Oh, come on! You can understand that. An auto manufacturer, let's say General Motors, shares costs for all sorts of things across the board. New engine technology research, for example, would be recouped by new auto sales for the next model year it appears through Buick, Pontiac, GMC, and all the others. Commonly used parts can be standardized, using the same sorts of alternators, brake pads, fuel pumps, transmissions, and whatnot. You make a bunch of parts and they'll fit a whole range of vehicles made by the different divisions. That way you can spend less money on the more specialized parts for the more customized vehicles. Determining the optmimum balance between ANSI standard cars that all use the same parts verses more specialized vehicles that can't use the same parts makes for lots of pretty lines on lots of graphs and keeps marketers and focus groups employed. Chapter 15 should show you a lot of these graphs.
This also shows why the military procurement system can be such a nightmare. Image all the vehicles in the motor pool...the Hummers, the M2/M3s, the M1 tanks, the 5 tons and 2 1/2 ton trucks, the M113's, the LAV/Strykers, Hemmits, M88's, whatever the artillery brigade uses, FAVs, all of them use different parts. A generator/alternator off an M113 will not fit in a Bradley or a M1, and vice versa. About the only things interchangable are nuts and bolts, a few gaskets, sparkplugs and glowplugs, and maybe headlights. Real parts aren't standardized. And don't even get started on aircraft parts.
Posted by: Deskmerc at August 28, 2006 05:50 AM (Lrs90)
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Umm...You forgot to tag five people. Ooh-ooh, pick me!
Posted by: Erin at August 28, 2006 01:40 PM (023Of)
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Sarah, This is funny. I opened the nearest book, which happened to be Faulkner's _Absalom, Absalom!_. I turned to page 123. There was only one sentence on the page and it was continued from the previous page. It isn't as bad as it sounds.
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August 26, 2006
BE PREPARED
Yesterday I stopped in at Goodwill to check out their book section. I left with tons of books, including fifty cent copies of
What to Expect When You're Expecting and
What to Expect the First Year. I've heard these are popular books for pregnancy reading, and I didn't want to pass up such a good deal when I know I'll want them someday. Anyway, they caught the eye of the girls working the checkout counter, who got really excited for me. I realized it's a tad embarrassing to be explain that you're not pregnant but you're buying books about pregnancy.
Of course, anyone who knows me well is probably laughing, because they know there's no way on earth I'll get pregnant until I've read both books cover to cover and used different highlighters to color-code important information within. My husband and I are the ultimate planners. We spent months researching the type of dog we wanted, for pete's sake. My husband did so much research on our Mazda5 that he knew more about it than the salesman (an advantage which helped him get it at invoice). Right now he's been spending all his free time making intricate spreadsheets comparing different mortgages and the time value of our money to see how we can save $300 over the next five years. We're pretty intense people when it comes to Decisions That Affect Our Future, but heck, we even consult Consumer Reports to decide which dishwasher soap to buy. So while it might've seemed funny to the girls at Goodwill, those who know us aren't shocked that I bought pregnancy books for the baby we'll probably have in 2008.
Which is actually starting to freak me out a little. In Germany we always said that we'd wait until our next duty station. That was two PCSes away, so it seemed safe. But now we move in just over three months, and the reality of "we're buying the house where we'll have our first baby" is starting to freak me out. It's not going to be anywhere near Angie, and she's supposed to be my nanny!
I better start reading those books soon...
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lol, I purchased
What to expect When You Are Expecting a couple of weeks ago when my husband and I decided that we were going to start trying. The guy behind the counter started to congratulate me but I quickly pointed at the tampons that I was also purchasing.
Posted by: Jill at August 26, 2006 05:18 AM (EOWoo)
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Just come and live with me for the first 12 months...after that I'm stumpped.If you need or want anymore books, let me know! I'll just give you mine as we are NOT having any more babies of own!!!
I'd still love to be your "super nanny"!!! That makes me feel so good to hear that. Maybe we could even doggie-sit Charlie again too!! Smiles!
p.s. freddie wants to type something tooujmiythvpj
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...(he's been kicking the keyboard and drooling all over me as i've been typing this)
Posted by: Angie at August 26, 2006 06:36 AM (SA3c9)
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Sarah...I can't even tell you how much I would give to have been in line with you while you explained why you were purchasing those books! You are freakin' hilarious.
(and I've been in Canada this week, so that's why you haven't gotten a hold of me. I'll call you later this weekend for sure.)
Posted by: Erin at August 26, 2006 07:51 AM (023Of)
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The What to Expect books should be read with a critical eye, as they have some misinformation, particularly on recommendations for weaning and recommending against co-sleeping.
Posted by: Anon at August 26, 2006 09:00 AM (dGLAJ)
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I liked "The Baby Book" and the "The Birth Book" . . . I still use it from time to time when the stinker is sick. Happy Reading!
Posted by: Heidi at August 26, 2006 01:57 PM (Rlz+k)
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So you said I'm going to be a grandmother?!?! Oh, but you said 2008. Oh well, I'll just have to wait!
Love,
Your Mama
Posted by: Nancy at August 26, 2006 06:54 PM (pquEL)
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I just love hearing that I'm not the only obsessive planner around! Whew.
I think it all makes perfect sense. But you might want to take that with a grain of salt. Consider the source and all....
;-)
Posted by: Tammi at August 27, 2006 02:19 AM (3UQTn)
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This post was so funny. I can totally see you in line! I will tell you though, you can read those books over and over again and your child will do something totally different. Nic is always pulling something over on me and I try to look it up and I get stumped everytime. And even after having Nat and thinking "I should be prepared for this, since I have already done it once", something always goes backwards and I resort to the "books" again. My advice: be prepared but also go with the flow and have fun!
Posted by: Jennifer at August 27, 2006 05:41 AM (sBEwC)
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Too funny! My husband is a planning fanatic, too. He mapped out our whole lives on a spreadsheet before we were married -- right down to when I would be pregnant for each of our three children. I told him that I thought we had decided to have 4, but he said that he couldn't fit it in to the spreadsheet.
So right now, we have zero children and are a little behind on that timeline. Hopefully in the near future! Like you, I'm starting to feel a little anxious about it maybe being "FOR REAL" time to start trying. YIKES!!! Am I really old enough to be a mom?!
Posted by: Rachel at August 27, 2006 10:51 AM (qAmfL)
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Heh - about the only thing my husband and I didn't plan was the kids... LOL.
Posted by: Teresa at August 28, 2006 05:01 PM (o4pJS)
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Congrats on trying! I have read about 7 books by now. Its been 6 months since we first started. Here's to sending some baby dust your way!
Posted by: Household6 at August 30, 2006 11:42 AM (40zEu)
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August 23, 2006
SMELLS
I've heard that the best human sense for recall is not sight but smell. I got a new air freshener for the car today that was supposed to smell like "fresh cotton." Either I was misinformed as to what cotton smells like, or this air freshener should've been labeled "old timey bottle of Bayer." I instantly thought of
my MuMu. She always kept aspirin and Mentholatum by her bed. What's interesting about the nose is that I didn't really remember that my grandma smelled like aspirin until I smelled that air freshener. And though Bayer is not the best smell for the car, I think I will keep it. And think of her when I drive.
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JUST NASTY
Did you know that Fox News Channel reporter Steve Centanni and freelance cameraman Olaf Wiig were kidnapped in Gaza? Maybe not, since all we hear about on TV these days is John Mark Karr. But according to some TV critic guy named Bob Lawrence, this may be
more than just an oversight:
Fox has deliberately set itself apart from other news media. Starting at the top with Roger Ailes, the Fox sales pitch has been to deride other media, to declare itself the one source of the real truth, the sole source of ‘fair and accurate’ news reporting. As a result, there’s not a reservoir of kinship or good will with Fox on the part of the rest of the news media. You can’t keep insulting people and then expect friendship when you need it.
TheyÂ’ve made it a policy to keep a distance between themselves and the rest of the media, far beyond the usual competitive spirit, so thatÂ’s where they are: at a distance.
So you mean I was right to make the snide comment a week ago that no one would care because the journalist was from Fox? I thought I was being overly snarky, but I guess life is stranger than parody.
I'm with Cold Fury:
So howzabout we make a little deal: since you and your liberal-media playmates find yourselves unable to muster enough patriotic spirit — or, for that matter, simple human decency — to bother concerning yourselves about the fate of a couple of fellow American journalists because their politics may not mesh with your own, from here on out, American soldiers (the overwhelming majority of whom violently disagree with your politics, which I think we can safely infer from your snide and heartless comment) will no longer be expected to go out and rescue your sorry, worthless asses when the terrorists you’re so busy propagandizing for get tired of putting up with your ass-kissing sycophancy and decide you’d be more useful as hostages instead.
In other words, if partisan politics means that much to you liberal-media jackholes, and youÂ’re that closed-minded that you canÂ’t even rise above your own petty liberal dogma to scrape up a plugged nickelÂ’s worth of fellow-feeling for your American colleagues no matter who they work (or voted) for, then you have no right to expect any when you find yourself caught in a steel-jawed Islamist trap of your own devising.
If the North Kosanese getcha, don't expect any help from your "countrymen"...
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The death of common decency.... It's a very sad thing to witness. Very sad.
Posted by: Andi at August 23, 2006 03:37 PM (g1Or8)
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Soldiers shouldn't protect liberals eh? Nice one Mussolini. Here's the truth though - other media outlets snub Fox News because it's not a real news program. It's propaganda. The guy who got kidnapped isn't a reporter - he's a propagandist. So yeah, maybe we shouldn't care as much.
Posted by: Will at August 23, 2006 05:37 PM (TfuSc)
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Will is a boil that should be lanced.
Posted by: Oda Mae at August 23, 2006 08:40 PM (BDfvU)
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Will is mistaken. Just because he works for FOX news shouldn't mean anything compared to the larger picture which is an American citizen is being held hostage by a bunch of terrorists. Hopefully he'll be safely re-united with his family. That is the most important thing right now at the moment. It's been awhile since I've posted just want to say I enjoy your blog........dislike your politics. That's all folks.
Posted by: tommy in nyc at August 24, 2006 06:15 AM (NMK3S)
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I don't know... Fox News is bad for people so Steve Centanni is bad for people so I can't work up much sympathy.
I can say these things now because we're only three monthes away from taking back the congress and senate, so fuck you.
Posted by: Will at August 24, 2006 09:10 AM (TfuSc)
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Will, Will, Will,
What am I going to do with you? I was hoping you would start debating and disagreeing without being so mean-spirited. I don't give up on people easily; just ask my daughter! I'm still counting on you. You're never too old to change for the better. I'm still trying myself, and I'm almost sixty. Hang in there!
Nancy
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P.S.
I don't mean change your politics, your beliefs, etc., just try to present your case without so much aggression. You do keep this blog lively, that's for sure!
Nancy
Posted by: Nancy at August 25, 2006 07:00 PM (pquEL)
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You are too nice, as always, Nancy. I doubt Will can change - he enjoys being an autocratic, smug wanker a bit too much to give it up - even if a miracle occurs and his dream of a Congress made up of short sighted ostriches actually comes true.
Posted by: Oda Mae at August 26, 2006 03:03 AM (k3v1s)
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Look at what the Freepers were saying about liberal whore anti-American Jill Caroll. Just look.
Posted by: herb at August 26, 2006 08:09 PM (8NVD0)
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She was the one telling the stories conservatives claim that they want to be told, but when she was captured, Limbaugh exclaimed that "Something inside me likes this, my friends liberals being show reality"
Posted by: Herb at August 26, 2006 08:17 PM (8NVD0)
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TOILET HUMOR
Our toilet has officially turned into a European toilet. Maintenance has been out twice already to plunge, snake, and grumble, but the water simply won't suck down the hole; it just stirs. Last night I was trying to think of a joke I could make about it, so I tried to come up with something that doesn't belong in a toilet. I laughed out loud and teased my husband, "Honey, you really need to stop shoving Korans down our toilet."
It's funny when the first thing that comes to mind when you think "what could clog a toilet?" is the Koran...
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Well, they don't call them Shitte for nothing.
Posted by: tim at August 23, 2006 04:22 AM (QsSL6)
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I was laughing at the joke, but then I fell off my seat when I read Tim's comment.
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August 22, 2006
BWAHAHAHAHA
It's the
new "Democracy, Whiskey, Sexy!"
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SOS
Oda Mae --
I don't know if my emails aren't reaching you. At least one got kicked back. Anyway, I need your address to send your bear to you. See if you can email it to me.
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THE WRONG THING TO READ AT 3 AM
Charlie threw up at 0315, and I couldn't go back to sleep after we cleaned it up. I thought some internet would help, but clicking on
this Amritas post in the middle of the night just made my head reel even more.
He says, among many other things:
Instead of focusing on over there, we should remember what we can do here. Specifically, tighten the borders. Minimize Muslim immigration.
But noooo. We want more 'security'. More war in East Ameraq. No attention paid to the Muslims that continue to stream into the West. We whine about the jihadists among them when it's too late - when they're already here - often with citizenship. What does that say about us? We want to be warriors, bravely defending our fortress - while we leave the back door wide open. Why? Because we also want to pat ourselves on the back for being free of bigotry. Aren't we wonderful?
I can't find anything there I don't agree with. Amritas has gradually come to see the war in Iraq as the wrong move, which I can respect because I've followed his thought process, and nowhere did it involve ideas like "no blood for oil" or "Bush is Hitler". Common ground goes a long way. And when I read things like the segment of Diana West's article he quoted, I find myself agreeing:
I wanted to make the world - that part of the world from which terrorism mainly springs - democratic, and therefore, safe.
Over the past few years, then, the United States has supported fledgling democracies in Afghanistan, Iraq and the Palestinian Authority ... But the fact is, when these peoples have spoken, what we have heard, or should have been hearing, in the expression of their collective will is that the mechanics of democracy alone (one citizen, one vote) do not automatically manufacture democrats - if by democrats we mean citizens who believe first and foremost in the kind of liberty that guarantees freedom of conscience and equality before the law.
On the contrary, each of these new democracies has produced constitutions that enshrine Islamic law.
This, as I understand it, is a big part of why Amritas feels we made the wrong move by going into Iraq. I can appreciate this argument, since I have fretted about the same thing in recent times. My husband and I worry constantly about the seven signs of non-competitive states, which I think wholly applies to the Middle East problem.
That said, I still see good in our presence in Iraq. Varifrank reminds us this week that Iran could've easily armed Hizbollah if Old Iraq had been in the middle to cooperate.
Even though there's a whole website dedicated to me being the world's biggest war cheerleader (yep, it's still up and running), I have never said that I have all the answers. I, like Amritas, simply fear and even hate Islam. But I don't know the best course of action for defending ourselves from it; I just know I'll support whatever it takes to get them to leave us alone.
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August 20, 2006
GRAVITY'S BURDEN
Last night we watched
Mr. and Mrs. Smith. Meh. It wasn't that great, but it's easy to finish a so-so movie; it's only two hours of my life. However, I am struggling with applying the same concept to the book I'm reading. I've already sunk countless hours into
Gravity's Rainbow, and I can't decide if I want to keep going or throw in the towel.
I've never not finished a book (well, except once, but I felt guilty for 15 years). I always think that there's got to be something of value in most books, so I hate to quit them. Maybe the good part is at the end, and I'll never know. But it's bad news when you're on page 140 of a 760 page book and every page feels like a chore.
Has anyone else read this book? Is it worth it? There are whole companion books dedicated to this monster; doesn't it seem like any book that you need two other books and several websites to understand is a bit ridiculous? When the Wikipedia entry starts "The main narrative thread (insofar as there is one)", that's not a good sign. Nor is the fact that the book was suggested for a Pulitzer and rejected by the board because it was "unreadable."
And I thought I'd type out a passage for you to mull over when I googled it and found that Photon Courier has written about the same passage. Because it's his favorite. The one that was practically my breaking point. Sigh. I know he's read my blog once before; maybe he can urge me to keep going in the book.
I will point out that he cut the passage way down though. Perhaps even he was daunted by a 16 line sentence.
At what point do you cut your losses with a book and move on? Or do you keep trudging through and hope that the end of the book brings enlightenment or at least satisfaction in knowing you didn't give up?
I don't like to quit books. But I also don't like dreading picking it up.
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Your wish is my command...here I am. I do think it's a great book (and the reason I cut the passage down was mainly because I was too lazy to type the whole thing.)
But I don't see any need to finish this, or any other book, if you're not enjoying it. 140 pages is probably a fair test as to whether you're going to like it or not.
Posted by: David Foster at August 20, 2006 08:58 AM (/Z304)
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Sarah--
I agree with David. I vividly remember when I turned 25 and I suddenly realized that life is short--and there is no way I'll be able to read all the books I want to! Don't waste your time on a book you don't love or that doesn't challenge you.
Posted by: Lara--the English Teacher at August 20, 2006 10:14 AM (wLffD)
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Here's another GR excerpt, and one which I think is highly relevant to some of our current issues, as I explain in the post:
Journalism's Nuremberg
Posted by: david foster at August 20, 2006 11:05 AM (/Z304)
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Sarah,
I have to agree with Lara. Books are for either education and reference (in which case a certain amount of trudging through sludge is acceptable) or for enjoyment (in which case "life is short".) If a reading for fun book isn't, trade it at a used book store for something better. Maybe someone else will enjoy it more than you. Keep looking for things what you will enjoy. One of life's reading pleasures is finding a previously unknown to you book by an author that you enjoy. As you can tell from my name, my favorite genre if obvious.
Posted by: ScifiJim at August 20, 2006 12:59 PM (SYh5A)
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Sarah,
Try reading _The Crying Of Lot 49_ or the stories collected under the title _Slow Learner_. The BIG BOOK is a poor introduction to Pynchon.
Posted by: Herb at August 20, 2006 01:35 PM (yl7FB)
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Reading things that do not interest or entertain
you should have stopped being an option once you
got that degree. Stop the madness and toss it
aside. Sorry,140 pages is more than a fair try.
If the author can't reel you in and make you
want to know what's next,they aren't very good.
I'm not terribly hard to please,either. I love
to read and will happily dive into any genre.
The last book I tossed aside was "Infinite Jest"
back in 1996,by the way. I just didn't care
enough to finish the thing. Some people love it
and more power to them. JUST don't feel guilty.
Please.
Posted by: MaryIndiana at August 20, 2006 06:47 PM (YwdKL)
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Yeah, I do a similar thing. I read about books on Amazon, then ask the local library to order them for me. When I get them, I read a few pages and think "Hey, they really gave this piece of junk five stars? Why!?! Maybe it becomes clear later." So I have stopped reading FIVE diffent books this week. One for each night. And yes, I do feel guilty, because I brought them down from Belgium and the Netherlands. Live and learn. I need to read the first few pages myself before taking some unknown reviewer's comments to heart.
Posted by: Oda Mae at August 20, 2006 08:38 PM (YgLuj)
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I almost took a class at university here, until I read the course description very well: "In 1997, exactly 25 years after the publication of Thomas Pynchon's 'masterpiece' Gravity's Rainbow, Mason & Dixon, a historical rewrite of the life of James Mason and Jeremiah Dixon, hit the bookstores. This course will be devoted to a very close reading (in the best of academic worlds, I would assume that the book has been read 'at least once' before the start of the semester) of this long-awaited novel by one of the most enigmatic, notorious and fascinating authors writing in America today. In the course, we will follow the slow, traumatic drawing of the Mason & Dixon line across the body of the American continent. The work on this 'line' brings together a bunch of illustrious people (Benjamin Franklin, a psychedelic musician sporting blue sunglasses; George Washington, inhaling; Vaucasson's duck, alive and in love with a French chef; Capt. Zhang, a Feng Shui master running from a Jesuit monk) and a number of curious concepts (a secret Jesuit telegraph system making extended use of balloons and satellites, a 'hollow earth,' 'eleven lost days,' a werebeaver and smoke-rings in the form of möbius-strips). Topics dealt with in the course range from questions about narrative structure, narrative voice (the narrator, Wicks Cherrycoke is a minor character from Gravity's Rainbow who seems to have made it into this new novel by virtue of some sort of 'transpagination'), historiographic metafiction, cultural studies and traumatology to questions about coffee, hemp, ghosts, and lost loves."
As a history major this would have really really tested me. And I decided to pass...(Also, I love how the book should be read "at least once" before starting the class.)
A few years ago I started the whole "not finishing a book thing". The first time it's hard, but afterwards it gets easier. If the literary world is a smorgasbord, I don't want to get stuffed up on the "100 year old eggs" just 'cos they are character building...take me to the prime rib and the eclairs!
Posted by: CaliValleyGirl at August 20, 2006 11:41 PM (8nHbe)
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Postmodernist dog feces. "it is a book not set aside lightly, it should be hurled with great force". May as well read Slaughterhouse 5, which will at least have places that you have been.
Posted by: Jason at August 21, 2006 06:08 AM (Lrs90)
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Assuage your guilt by donating those unfinished books to your public library. Not only will others get the benefit, and the lilbrary get a book it may not have been able to afford but you can always go check it out if you really MUST finish it.
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Posted by: wiser_now at August 25, 2006 03:00 PM (M0aqG)
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P.S....and if you donate it to the library; it's tax deductible (get a receipt).
I, too, hated to give up on a book. But I've found over the years that some books aren't worth the time. So, give it up and don't feel guilty. The time you save can be used reading something really worthwhile!!!
Posted by: Pamela at August 28, 2006 03:20 PM (b28Se)
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