June 30, 2008
OLD-TIMEYFYING THE WORLD, ONE KID AT A TIME
I babysat this afternoon for my neighbor's 7 year old daughter. While I was there, I taught her to knit. And the most wonderful words came out of her mouth: "This is more fun than playing with my Nintendo DS!" Ahhh, heavenly.
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Knitting does sound fun! I have always liked working with my hands, so I think I'd like it. Maybe now is my time to give it a try!
Posted by: Hope at June 30, 2008 11:33 AM (SgiEp)
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Some of my best memories are of my grandmother teaching me to crochet... knitting I never quite got. Very uneven tension. As a lefty, I attempted to translate her instructions rather unsuccessfully, but with some funny results. I tend to be a klutz. I eventually switched to right handed and became more successful. I even crocheted the lace for my wedding dress. I no longer do much with yarn, I switched to quilting instead. Each of these needle arts has a wonderful power to soothe, and to connect with yourself and others. You can see the progress of consistent effort, you can work along side others, and, you can connect younger people to a very old tradition. You can draw support from others, and you can provide it. You choose the level of "perfection" and creativity as well. Sometimes it's the process that's important, and sometimes it's the product. You choose.
Posted by: H Chambers at June 30, 2008 11:45 AM (DR+8O)
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ahhhh. . . . 'from the mouths of babes'!
Posted by: prophet at July 01, 2008 03:27 AM (+EInj)
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Thanks, I think I just snorted soda on my laptop.
My bff's nine-year-old son was soo excited to finish his first sc chain! And he's a little Wii addict.
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THIS TURNED MY LIFE UPSIDE DOWN FACE
I heard
this Wesley Clark clip on the radio today, and it was so stunning I actually turned to the radio with this face.
Schieffer: How can you say that John McCain is untested and untried? General?
Clark: Because in the matters of national security policy making, it's a matter of understanding risk. It's a matter of gauging your opponents, and it's a matter of being held accountable. John McCain's never done any of that in his official positions. I certainly honor his service as a prisoner of war. He was a hero to me and to hundreds of thousands and millions of others in Armed Forces as a prisoner of war. He has been a voice on the Senate Armed Services Committee, and he has traveled all over the world. But he hasn't held executive responsibility. That large squadron in Air- in the Navy that he commanded, it wasn't a wartime squadron. He hasn't been there and ordered the bombs to fall. He hasn't seen what it's like when diplomats come in and say, 'I don't know whether we're going to be able to get this point through or not. Do you want to take the risk? What about your reputation? How do we handle it publicly.' He hasn't made those calls, Bob.
Seriously. Upside down face.
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I am wondering whom Clark is trying to describe....according to him none, Obama isn't qualified either...nor Clinton...neither was Reagan...wait...Clark would be qualified....ahhh...I get it now...
Posted by: CaliValleyGirl at June 30, 2008 11:27 AM (irIko)
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Clark has a penchant for wearing turtlenecks under his sport coats.
That, to me, is a disqualifier for any office right there.
On the other hand, I think that this means Clark is out of the VP race and things are hinging on Tony McPeak.
The media didn't seem to mind when McPeak commented that McCain had gotten fat since his POW days.
Posted by: airforcewife at June 30, 2008 01:24 PM (mIbWn)
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Upside down face with a "What The WHAT?!" thrown
in...
Posted by: MarIndiana at June 30, 2008 05:18 PM (Sc9ll)
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If you read his whole interview, you'll see that Clark also says that also makes Obama unqualified in that sense to run as well, but that Mccain is running on the basis of his military experience, Obama isn't.
Posted by: jp at July 01, 2008 12:47 AM (mrnzz)
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jp -- But McCain's also been in Congress since 19dickity4 while Obama's been there for five minutes. If the crux is that he has no "executive responsibility," then explain how Obama has more.
Also, being in a leadership-type position among POWs, keeping morale up, etc, that counts for something in my book.
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June 29, 2008
ANGERED UP
Yesterday I found a clip of Dennis Miller going off on Obama. I went to YouTube and have been happily watching tons of Dennis Miller clips, including his appearance on
Politically Incorrect. I then stumbled upon
Penn Jillette's appearance on the same show. That one just twisted my gut into knots. I wanted to jump through the space-time continuum to argue against the moronic things that Nia Long was saying. They're talking about selling donor eggs from models, which apparently people wanted to buy so they could have beautiful children. (My thoughts: It's a waste of your money, but you have a right to waste your money.) It then became a debate on whether we should interfere at all in the reproductive process or if it's all part of God's plan. And Bill Maher says:
Here's a question then: Why does everyone have to spawn? Why can't the people who can't do that just take a hint?
To which Nia Long nods her head and says, "Right." Thankfully, my buddy Penn Jillette counters, saying that if science can help people, it should.
Do I even have to tell you what it does to my heart to hear someone say that if I can't reproduce, I should "take a hint"?
The debate later turns to making a law that people should not be allowed to get married until they're 26. A law. Seriously. The rationale is that people aren't mature enough to be married before that.
To quote AWTM, "Can I just tell you..."
I met my husband when he had just turned 19, and we got married a few months shy of his 22 birthday. By the time he was 24, he was already leading a platoon of men in combat in Iraq. Not mature enough? Please. He's got more maturity now at 27 than some 40 year olds I know.
The whole show was just a train wreck. I imagine Penn Jillette was just shaking his head after it was over, wondering how he ended up in a room of people who want to regulate who can donate eggs, what factors you can use to determine which eggs you want, how much science you can have in your life, and at what age you can get married. I can't believe he stayed as calm as he did.
Dang, that'll teach me to look for funny clips on YouTube. I'm a bundle of horrified nerves after that show!
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I watch Dennis all of the time on O'Reilly. I love him. He has such a way with words!
Posted by: Nicole at June 29, 2008 12:43 PM (sBJ2p)
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Of course, all the people on that show are promoting their own lifestyle - which they believe everyone should want to emulate.
The day I want to live like Bill Maher is the day God should have a giant gorilla toss me from the top of the Empire State Building. I mean, Maher doesn't even look like he showers.
And your husband was more mature at 19 than Maher is now at however many years past male menopause he is now.
Posted by: airforcewife at June 29, 2008 12:58 PM (mIbWn)
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Personal opinion only. I think people of that ilk are better off if THEY never reproduce. Good people should have all the help they need. Have you ever heard that the USofA (maybe the world) is getting more conservative because the people who think more of the liberal dogma believe they should not cause anymore overpopulation? Fine with me!
Posted by: Ruth H at June 29, 2008 02:14 PM (Y4oAO)
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I fully agree, as a father of seven, one of them a Marine, and a retired soldier, our young grow up not because of appearance, but because of the family they came from. It is about foundation. I also wanted to tell you that Dennis Miller is as nice a man as you would hope is his. I had the pleasure of meeting him twice so far, and each time, he was absoultely a "regular guy".
Roger
Posted by: Roger at June 29, 2008 06:01 PM (6PCBb)
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I have to say, I do think a lot more people should think before they get married. But I think it would be more of a test-based than age-based thing.
And as for "taking the hint," I agree that science should help people. But I think that you need to be very clear what you sign on for. Every year, when Bobbi McCaughey gets on TV, asking for more "help," and says God wanted her to have 7 babies I'm a little floored. If you are going to take that particular tack, God only wanted her to have her first daughter. She interfered to have the second pregnancy and did not listen to her doctors, ending up with several disabled children.
People can get all the help they want. But they need to be educated. They need to have the resources to care for the outcome without having to go beg on Oprah every year. And I better shut up now before I go on a tangent.
Posted by: Non-Essential Equipment at June 30, 2008 05:51 AM (pPCPb)
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NEE: I see where you're coming from on that one, but there was no mention whatsoever during the clip about being able to financially care for the childen you're having. I mean, this was people who could afford $150,000 donor eggs from models. It was more of a "natural selection" type of argument, that people who can't get pregnant naturally are defective and should take the hint.
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June 28, 2008
THE HELLER CASE
I didn't hear this on the radio the other day, but it's worth
reading the whole thing before it becomes unavailable. Some excerpts:
RUSH: John Paul Stevens in his dissent on the DC gun ban bill today wrote that the majority, meaning Scalia and the gang, "would have us believe that over 200 years ago, the framers made a choice to limit the tools available to elected officials wishing to regulate civilian uses of weapons." Folks, that is scary. I know Justice Stevens has been around for a long time, but that kind of interpretation -- there is no way, I don't care how convoluted a way that you read the Second Amendment, there is nothing in it to indicate that the Framers intended to grant the federal government, elected officials, the right to police people.
I too was shocked to hear that statement. It seems like a really jacked-up and backwards way of looking at the Second Amendment. The Framers never envisioned a day when elected officials got to decide whether people could own guns.
And it just gets worse.
Here Jeffrey Toobin, legal expert, CNN, talking to Heidi Collins at CNN. Listen to this question. Memo to Jonathan Klein running CNN: Do you understand how incompetent some of the people you have on your network are? Listen to this question. Heidi Collins to Jeffrey Toobin: "Specifically, Jeffrey, that's really what it's about, isn't it, the Constitution trumping policy?" The Constitution trumping policy? The Constitution trumping policy? (interruption) Yes, of course it is, but for this to be a question to a legal scholar? Here's the answer.
TOOBIN: This is just a big, big event in American constitutional history because the Second Amendment has been a true mystery.
RUSH: No.
TOOBIN: No one really knew for decades what it meant --
RUSH: Yes, they did.
TOOBIN: -- in practical terms.
RUSH: Yes, they did.
TOOBIN: Now the Supreme Court, by and large just 5-4, has said that there is a constitutional right to own a handgun inside the home.
RUSH: Stop the tape here a second. The only reason, Mr. Toobin, anybody ever debated this is because people like you, liberals years and years ago tried to tell us it didn't mean that, and you've been passing laws throughout these local municipalities and states chipping away at the Second Amendment because you don't like it. Nobody had any question about this 'til you liberals got involved, tried to obfuscate it and confuse everybody about it. And now we have to get to the point where the Constitution, which is plainly clear in this case, has to be affirmed by the US Supreme Court?
I too am shocked to hear someone talk about "the Constitution trumping policy." All policy is derived from the Constitution. The Constitution always trumps.
Rush goes on. I mean, he was just on fire that day.
RUSH: One of the problems that we're having here in our culture with all of this is the bastardization of the meaning of the word "right," as in, to have a right. For example, look what the left is saying today. We don't have a right to own guns. I mean, that would be their preference, that there be no Second Amendment. Just get four or five justices to wipe it out. We have no right, even though the Constitution specifically says we do. Yet, they further the notion that we all have a "right" to health care. We do not have a right to health care! That we all have a "right" to a home. We do not have a right to a home! That we all have a "right" to go to college. We do not have a right to go to college, because those are not rights! That we have a "right" to be free of the pollution of oil. That is not a right.
That's good squishy.
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June 27, 2008
MY INNER DANTE HICKS
I havenÂ’t been writing about how IÂ’m doing because 1) most of the time IÂ’m doing fine and 2) I feel self-conscious about the hint I've gotten that I need to get over myself. But writing is my way of processing things, so today I could use that therapy.
When I was pregnant, I ordered more contact lenses. I hadnÂ’t been in to pick them up yet. So while I was on my way over there, I was rehearsing in my mind what IÂ’d say. I got a feel for the words before I got to the shop. But when I got up to the counter and the girl asked me why I wanted a refund, the words wouldnÂ’t come out. They were replaced by a lump in the back of my throat.
Just say it. You can do it. Just say, “I ordered these while I was pregnant, but since I lost the pregnancy, my consolation prize is gonna be lasik surgery. Ha ha ha.” Just say it. Ha ha ha.
I think the girl sensed that something was wrong, because she said, “I’ll just check the box for ‘bought too many boxes.’” Yep, one box, that’s too many. Then I felt awkward for making the situation awkward and thought I’d better explain before she thinks I’m a freak. But still the words wouldn’t come.
Most of the time IÂ’m fine, until I have to say the words out loud.
I went to a support group meeting on post the other night, a child loss group. I havenÂ’t been sleeping well since my mom left, and if it worked for Tyler Durden, I thought maybe it might work for me. The ladies in the group were really nice and made me feel entirely welcomed, but I think in some ways it made me feel worse. These are ladies who birthed severely premature babies, but babies nonetheless. They had faces and names and lived for a week on machines. They had funerals and were buried in gowns that people I knit with had made and donated. I just felt stupid mourning the little gummy bear that I lost.
I am JoeÂ’s heaping tablespoon of Perspective.
So most of the time, IÂ’m fine. But every once in a while I get not fine, like when I do something that I wouldnÂ’t be doing if I were pregnant, like mowing the yardÂ…or drinking wine. And I try to resist those feelings inside of me. I try to suppress my inner Dante Hicks, try not to feel like IÂ’m not even supposed to be here, try not to live in this alternate reality where IÂ’m pregnant and happy and shouldnÂ’t be mowing. But itÂ’s hard, because thatÂ’s the parallel universe I want to be living in.
I donÂ’t want to be getting lasik, even though IÂ’ve waited two years to do it.
Maybe I'll just start a fight club.
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First, never ever apologize for your feelings or writing about them. Forget the nasties that troll around telling you how you should handle your feelings and your blog.
Second, a loss is a loss even though they were at different stages. Yours is no less significant.
Everything is relative to the lives we live and our circumstances. There are no rules that say you can't do 'x' unless 'y' happens.
Hang in there...there will come a point that it will be better. Take the steps you need to get there and don't let it get you down if it comes with a step or two back.
Sending prayers and good wishes your way.
Posted by: Susan at June 27, 2008 07:11 AM (4aKG6)
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First rule of Fight ClubÂ…
Listen to Susan, sheÂ’s got a lot of wisdom.
Posted by: tim at June 27, 2008 07:22 AM (nno0f)
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Never apologize for how you feel. Ever. It's just how it is. Losses are hard to process, sometimes you have good and bad days. Never measure yours against another's. Each pain in unique, just like the individuals we lost and who we're mourning for.
Posted by: Mare at June 27, 2008 09:08 AM (APbbU)
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Sarah, what is with the comments on the orig post you linked to? Whack.
I wouldn't worry too much over people who tell you to get over yourself. Especially on your personal blog. Seems a bit forward to tell a person that. And nonsensical.
While it brings a smile, calling your baby a gummy bear does nothing to make your loss any less worthy of mourning.
I really like the way Susan worded it about taking the steps to get to a better place, but allowing yourself the occasional steps back without being too hard on yourself.
Definitely a great thing to strive for.
Good thoughts and loved the laugh over at spousebuzz. I remember thinking to myself how unwelcoming we are to our guests comparatively. Glad I wasn't the only one.
Posted by: wifeunit at June 27, 2008 10:42 AM (J+xCo)
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I feel you with the crying thing.
I lost a baby at 4 weeks just over a month ago. Hardly even a pregnancy really. If I had waited one more day to take the test I wouldn't even have been really sure that I was pregnant.
I cried, then thought I got over it. Went to the doctor for a totally unrelated matter. Walked in thinking about how I should tell him about it while I was there, totally fine, not upset at all. I went to tell him about it and burst into tears. I didn't even see them coming!
So, hang in there. And as for the apologies for writing about your feelings...you have been helping me. So don't let those negative comments stop you from writing what YOU want on YOUR blog. If they don't like it they don't have to come here.
Stephanie
Posted by: stephanie at June 27, 2008 11:56 AM (UOBc4)
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Sarah,
what you have to get over is feeling that ANYONE else has the right to tell you how to feel. (So here I am telling you how to feel) If writing your thoughts on your blog helps, do it! None of us are obligated to read this. Most of us do it because he have come to like and respect you and we wish you the best. Your little gummy bear had all your hopes and aspirations any mother gives her baby. And I for one thank God he didn't have to go through any intensive care before he died. Sounds cruel I know, but that is another thing I have never had to face and am glad for it and I'm glad you didn't have to face it either. BUT, that doesn't make your loss any less hard to take or any less wrenching for you.
Write all you want, we can handle it.
Posted by: Ruth H at June 27, 2008 11:56 AM (4eLhB)
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Something I was told when I was going through grief was this: Grief is ALWAYS 100%. You don't ever 75% grieve for someone.
I will also say if that group makes you feel worse, find another one. Might there be one for people who have been through miscarriages? Do you know anyone you could ask?
Posted by: Val at June 27, 2008 01:11 PM (6RyTP)
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Do not get over it...
a gummy bear it was not. It was a baby.
In your heart, and mind he or she was the FUTURE.
Your future with this baby....that is worth mourning over.
Posted by: awtm at June 27, 2008 06:53 PM (Vd+VZ)
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I agree: It doesn't matter when someone loses a baby--the result is the same. It doesn't matter if your baby was hooked up to machines or only visible on a sonogram. It was the potential, the future, of this new life that you were robbed of. You have every right to mourn or be sad about that being taken from you. Don't let anybody make you feel bad about that, including yourself.
Posted by: Ann M. at June 28, 2008 05:34 AM (HFUBt)
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Ditto to all of the good and kind words posted
here. Your blog,write about what's on our mind,
that's the Sarah we love.
Posted by: MaryIndiana at June 28, 2008 09:59 AM (Sc9ll)
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Sarah- It's ok to be not fine. I think that sometimes we tell ourselves that we have to hold it all together... for your readers, for the store clerk, for yourself even... but in reality, why? I am person who is always trying to keep it together... and if I think about it, I don't really know why. Perhaps I am afraid of the repercussions of not doing so... which in my case, would mean that maybe others would think I was nuts, or pity me. I owe it to myself to just let go sometimes, and so do you : ) Also, even though my situation is totally different... I get you with the parallel universe... It is very difficult to live with one reality when you want so badly to have another.
Posted by: Hope at June 28, 2008 10:32 AM (SgiEp)
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I agree w/everyone else 100%.
You feel however you need to & write about it with wild abandon. If someone doesn't like it, send 'em my way--I have a lot of pent up aggression right now that I'd like to work out.
Let me take this comment down the second path of your post by telling you -- giving this gift to yourself will change your life. Don't underestimate the joy found in seeing an alarm clock in the morning without your contacts or glasses.
I know pales in comparison to your heart's true desire, but I also know you deserve to do something this special for yourself. I had my eyes lasered while Hubs was deployed and it was an amazingly good decision. This will be good for you too.
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June 26, 2008
WELL PLAYED
I just wanted to say that if you haven't seen Ania Egland's response to that stupid MoveOn ad where the mom won't "give" John McCain her son, make sure you
go check it out.
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WOW. Well done Mrs. England.
Posted by: MaryIndiana at June 26, 2008 01:50 PM (Sc9ll)
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For to whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required. (Luke 12:4
It is this simple lesson that the moveon types seem incapable of grasping. My brother and sister soldiers and their families have given much to the peopld of this nation...whether they deserve it or not. And the morons like the woman who won't "give" John McCain her baby seem to believe they are somehow entitled to the liberties purchased by the soldiers of the nation. They, like Ms. Moveon Lady, believe they should have it all given to them but have nothing required of them.
It is a simple concept....the Bible expresses is as it appears above...today folks abbreviate the same idea as There is no such thing as a free lunch.
Well Lady...this IS (for the moment) a free country (purchased by the actions and sacrifice of a lot of folks willing to do what it took to obtain it) and you may not "give" little Alex to the nation. And when your ilk reach critical mass in this country you or your offspring will find yourselves "giving" your babies to Allah.
Evil has something you lack: An action plan to achieve its objectives.
Doubt me? Go read a little history. Chamberlain didn't believe it (Peace in our time) That little denial gave us Hitler. The USA didn't believe it on Dec 10, 1941 (the day before the attack on Pearl Harbor for those of you who don't/won't remember history). Try to imagine this. TOTAL: 2,403 KIA, 1,178 WIA. That is in ONE day. I'm sorry...perhaps more aptly described as LESS THAN 2 HOURS. Along with the following.
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Battleships
USS Arizona (BB-39) - total loss when a bomb hit her magazine.
USS Oklahoma (BB-37) - Total loss when she capsized and sunk in the harbor.
USS California (BB-44) - Sunk at her berth. Later raised and repaired.
USS West Virginia (BB-4
- Sunk at her berth. Later raised and repaired.
USS Nevada - (BB-36) Beached to prevent sinking. Later repaired.
USS Pennsylvania (BB-3
- Light damage.
USS Maryland (BB-46) - Light damage.
USS Tennessee (BB-43) Light damage.
USS Utah (AG-16) - (former battleship used as a target) - Sunk.
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Cruisers
USS New Orleans (CA-32) - Light Damage..
USS San Francisco (CA3
- Light Damage.
USS Detroit (CL-
- Light Damage.
USS Raleigh (CL-7) - Heavily damaged but repaired.
USS Helena (CL-50) - Light Damage.
USS Honolulu (CL-4
- Light Damage..
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Destroyers
USS Downes (DD-375) - Destroyed. Parts salvaged.
USS Cassin - (DD-37 2) Destroyed. Parts salvaged.
USS Shaw (DD-373) - Very heavy damage.
USS Helm (DD-38
- Light Damage.
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Minelayer
USS Ogala (CM-4) - Sunk but later raised and repaired.
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Seaplane Tender
USS Curtiss (AV-4) - Severely damaged but later repaired.
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Repair Ship
USS Vestal (AR-4) - Severely damaged but later repaired.
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Harbor Tug
USS Sotoyomo (YT-9) - Sunk but later raised and repaired.
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Aircraft
188 Aircraft destroyed (92 USN and 92 U.S. Army Air Corps.)
But that's OK...Mrs. Moveon Lady. At least you will have your video on YouTube after Achmed has beheaded Alex. Watch it until you feel better.
Posted by: Tim Fitzgerald at June 26, 2008 05:52 PM (Nki/C)
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Um, Tim? The day before the attack on Pearl Harbor was Dec 6th, 1941. Otherwise, pretty good.
As for Ania, it does seem those who have not grown up in this country appreciate our freedoms more.
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Tammi
has been thinking in the micro about something I often think about in the macro.
Makes me wonder....what makes people feel so strongly about capital punishment? Why do some cling desperately to the sanctity of life while others draw that line so firmly in the sand and say "If you cross this, you no longer deserve to live"?
I don't believe it's something that comes with age. Or that it's a learned belief. Mama and Daddy were liberals. Mama still is. I've been a conservative for as long as I've been aware of politics. Oh, they never talked about this stuff in front of us kids, in fact it was only in the past 10 or so years that I learned about my parents political leanings. No. No influence there at all.
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I woke up this morning wondering where does that come from? WHY do I feel so strongly about this? And why do others, those that go and picket executions for people they don't even know, believe just as strongly that they do NOT deserve to die? That there is nothing that one human being can do to another that warrants the loss of life?
I have wondered this and blogged about it before, about where we get our value systems and whether it's nature or nurture:
But where did it originate? Other people endured the hate and garbage in France, yet it didn't have the effect on them that it did on me. I must've already had the seeds of right-leaning ideas before I hit this point. But where did they come from?
I'd say both of my parents are fairly conservative, though we never talked about politics when I was growing up. I can't remember ever having a conversation about voting or foreign policy or anything of the sort. Did they somehow influence me in a subconscious way? Or was I born right of center and just viewed everything through that lens?
We talk about knee-jerk reactions, but isn't that just following your gut? The first blog I ever saw was U.S.S. Clueless and I immediately felt at home. Even before I had studied anything concrete about how the world works, I simply nodded my head in agreement and felt deep in my instincts that what Den Beste writes is true. No one had to teach me that; in fact, much of what we encounter in higher education these days should have persuaded me just the opposite. How was I not convinced?
I don't have any answers for Tammi. As for capital punishment, I said it before and I'll say it again.
I'm reminded again of the absolute horror my Swedish friend felt when she saw me clapping and cheering the day Timothy McVeigh was executed. But I feel the same now about Saddam as I did back then: If someone called me today and said they're short a hangman and could I come give 'em a hand, I'd say, "Give me a second to put my shoes on."
There are a few people out there that I'd have no problem putting my shoes on for. And when we're talking about child rapers, I'll just grab my flip-flops cuz it's faster.
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When I made my comment about that murderer fryin' you should have seen the faces around me. I sorta kinda forgot I was sitting with a bunch of folks that do NOT think anything like me politically. Oh well...we're all allowed our thoughts.
And I'm with you, there are a few folks that I'd flip the switch for in a heartbeat. And *I'd* be goin' barefoot!
Posted by: Tammi at June 26, 2008 08:21 AM (nUiTf)
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Capital punishment has been on my mind (again) since reading this story yesterday.
By MARK SHERMAN, Associated Press Writer
Wed Jun 25, 7:40 PM ET
WASHINGTON - The Supreme Court declared Wednesday that executions are too severe a punishment for raping children, despite the "years of long anguish" for victims, in a ruling that restricts the death penalty to murder and crimes against the state.
My views are pretty extreme, but seriously since there are so many freaking bleeding hearts out there...can one of them please volunteer to reimburse my share of the tax dollars spent caring for these people.
It takes almost 20 years to execute someone after all appeals are exhausted versus life in prison (25 years average). I wonder how much those 5 years cost?
Posted by: Vonn at June 26, 2008 08:42 AM (gNLi0)
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Since the Supreme Court went with an "eye for an eye" type of approach, how about we just send all rapists to jail with no pants? And no special security for the people that mess with kids...
Posted by: Jacki at June 27, 2008 08:59 AM (f2vqq)
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There's something to be said about having a decent and civil society, as the scotus decision in the Kennedy case even mentioned.
But I believe there are certain things that no decent and civil society should tolerate. I also believe that no decent and civil society should put more resources into caring for perpetrators than for victims.
As much as I would rather have the state be a very inefficient instrument of death and detainment, nevertheless we have backed ourselves into this corner. By not giving freer reins to individuals to seek redress, we leave the responsibility to the state. Vigilante justice may not be ideal, yet it's reputation has also been subject to a lot of misinformation.
There needs to be a better balance of individual versus corporate justice. Right now I think the scales may be leaning a little too heavily towards relying on the state and removing the power from the people. It leads down the draconian path that England has taken. Not good.
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June 25, 2008
HEH
Like jokes in dead languages?
This made me giggle.
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June 24, 2008
I HEART BJORN LOMBORG
I too find myself mesmerized by Bjorn Lomborg and giddy every time I see him on TV. He must just have some quality that makes straight men and housewives hang on his every word. Heh.
His interview in The Spectator: 'Global Warming Is Not Our Most Urgent Priority'
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MORE KNITTING
I ran out of white-white, so I decided to try one that was more Americana looking, and I think I like it the best. We're gonna have some patriotic preemies around here!
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looks like part of the Ralph Lauren collection - very stylish!
By the way - your preemie hat collection is the coolest. I think you're great!
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Cute! I'm not patient enough for intarsia!
Posted by: Tania at June 24, 2008 12:28 PM (KfVPZ)
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I think they're marvelous!
Posted by: Susan at June 24, 2008 12:49 PM (bwlsC)
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That is wonderful! Beautifully done ... you are a genius :-)
Posted by: Barb at June 26, 2008 12:48 PM (iaV9O)
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Oh oh oh - Sis B needs one of these!!! You go girl!
Love your blog BTW.
awig ~ Army Wife in Germany (who is is moving to VA in 3 weeks)
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June 22, 2008
MAKING ME SMILE
I bought the ingredients before I knew I was pregnant, but hadn't gotten around to making it yet. Then I was pregnant and couldn't but now I can. So I'm doing two things tonight that I couldn't do two weeks ago: drinking wine and eating
Chuck Z's tuna casserole.
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I made that recipe a while back... it was good!
I never thought of his as a recipe blog
Posted by: susan at June 22, 2008 02:35 PM (edTDc)
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IS HONESTY THE BEST POLICY?
I've been thinking about
Heidi a lot lately, about how she never blogs about feeling bitter or jealous, or about feeling lonely that people's lives have moved on while hers hasn't. She must feel this way at times, but she doesn't express it publicly. I emailed her and urged her to write about it, because I thought it would help her.
I think I'm retracting that advice.
Writing about how I felt lonely over the weekend I miscarried has backfired a little, I think. I meant every word I said, and it felt good to write about it and get it out. I felt such loneliness that, even having my mother there, even if 75 people had called me and I'd gotten 20 bouquets of flowers, it still wouldn't have been enough to fill the emptiness.
And it was hard because it was Scheduled Sadness. It didn't spring up on me unexpectedly; I had to make a conscious choice to make it happen. And so I scheduled my day for sadness, and sat at home waiting for sadness to arrive. I sat all day and clicked around on blogs, and no one was posting...because they were out living their lives and being happy, while I sat with my thoughts, waiting for sadness.
In some ways, this time was harder than the first. And the support was so overwhelming the first time that it was hard not to make this time look underwhelming. Everyone did too good of a job comforting me last December.
But my blog post, the feelings I thought were important to write, made some people feel bad, which has made me feel worse than the original loneliness. It actually makes me feel worse than losing the baby.
Which is kind of stupid, but that's my personality. I worry more about how other people will react than I worry about how I feel. Sometimes I get over that and blog about my honest thoughts, but it makes me feel like absolute crap when I learn that something I blogged hurt people's feelings.
It makes me not want to be a blogger anymore.
And even though there are lots of comments about how people understand and have been through the same, if I hurt just one person, I feel like a failure.
I thought that writing honestly and openly was a good thing, but I am not always prepared to deal with the consequences of doing so.
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What if you helped one person feel less alone in their own loneliness?
There are people in the same situation who don't discuss it with anyone. You're better off expressing it.
If I were you, I wouldn't worry too much about making people feel bad. I'd think about the quiet people who are feeling better.
Posted by: Amanda at June 22, 2008 08:51 AM (IwSIO)
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Good advice above.
Be concerned what is helping you past this sadness by writing and do not worry about the others.
Hope your heart and soul heal soon!
Posted by: Mel at June 22, 2008 11:36 AM (MZIbB)
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I've thought about this same issue too sometimes. Sometimes I go back later and take down the post. Sometimes I leave it. Maybe there is such a thing as being too honest. But for me, your posts were raw, and real. You never know what someone will take from what you write. And not to dismiss other people's feelings in the least but you do your best to be inclusive and from what I've read you make clear your love and admiration for your friends. Make someone feel bad inadvertently is a bad feeling. And I do get it. But I'm pretty sure they wouldn't want you to stop blogging over it.
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June 21, 2008
YEP, ANOTHER "FEELINGS" POST
I forgot our wedding anniversary.
Or, more specifically, I forgot how long it takes stuff to get mailed to Iraq. And I missed my window.
Now, my husband? He blows it every holiday. Christmas, birthday, anniversary: I usually get a story. A story about why he couldn't get me the present he was going to get me. I am used to it; it's part of my husband's charm. Now it's just a running joke.
But this year he came through. He ordered something from Amazon, and it arrived plenty early. And wrapped! Amazing.
And I had nothing for him.
And then the day of our anniversary came, and I didn't even have hope and love to share with him. I had bad news and sadness.
He should've gotten a lovey-dovey anniversary post, like Mrs Hubs wrote. So I'll try now.
My husband is so absolutely exactly like me that it's scary. Specifically, we both grieve the same way. And he's been a big help, sending me sarcastic one-line emails that express our frustration and sorrow while helping put a smile on my face. For example, the email he sent when I told him his MBA diploma finally arrived in the mail.
Good thing the diploma didn't die in the mail causing me to have to start my degree all over again. You never know these days.
He's just the right amount of sarcastic and irreverent for me. But he also wrote a long, emotional letter too, about watching the other soldiers share the stuff their kids had sent them for Father's Day.
He's just perfect, and I feel so bad that he's so far from home right now.
But you know, he and I are also exactly alike in one other way. He said the other day that, even if our family is only ever me, him, and the pup, that's good enough for him. I feel the same way. I feel so absolutely lucky and awed every day that I found him. And he's enough to keep my heart happy for the rest of my life.
Husband, I'm sorry you got gyped out of an anniversary.
I love you.
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I am WAY more the 'guy' in my relationship when it comes to annivesaries & birthday type things.
More than once I've found a card tucked in my car or bag and thought, "Holy cripes! I forgot...note to self: stop to get card on way home."
You and your husband are two very well matched people. I like you both--which is rare, as I do not like people as a general rule. I'm glad you have each other--I'm betting you just being you & there is always enough for the Mr.
{{Hugs}}
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Rachel Lucas
says it so I don't have to.
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KNIT UPDATE
Last Saturday was world-wide Knit In Public Day. AWTM caught sight of some ladies
participating. I was supposed to join in with a friend here in town, but, well, last Saturday turned out to be a little busy.
I plan to celebrate Knit In Public Day (Observed).
Here's what I've been working on. I have been commissioned to make a blanket for a dear reader, and Charlie has taken a shine to it. Any time I leave the room, he curls up with it. Happy Baby Shower; hope you like dog hair!
Also, I've only made one, so I need to get a move on. The 4th is coming up, and preemies need to be swathed in red, white, and blue.
I have also been working on super-secret projects for a couple of you barefoot and pregnant bloggers. You know who you are. And no, I won't say what you're getting. But the best thing about getting to know people via blogging is that you learn all these little tidbits about them that come in handy later, like when you want to make something special that only they will truly grok.
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Maybe you should knit a replica blanket for Charlie? He looks like he REALLY likes it!
Those hats are TOO CUTE. Someday I want to be able to knit like that!
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Charlie can have a baby blanket I knit when I first learned. It isn't so much rectangle....more like trapezoid. I wanted to participate in Knit in Public Day but it's too damn hot here! Happy knitting!
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June 20, 2008
HUGE BALLS. HUGE.
Wow. Just...wow.
When I wrote my 100 Things post, I got a comment from some douche who said that it was the most self-centered thing he'd ever read. The comment is long gone since it was back on Blogspot, but I always thought that was hilarious; isn't the whole point of a 100 Things post to talk about yourself? I thought that was the dumbest comment anyone could leave on someone's blog.
Boy, today that one got topped.
Just to make sure everyone sees the heartfelt comment Sally left today:
I think you need to get over yourself and give your friends a break. There are alot others out there that have these kind of problems. Yes it's sad but how much more do your friends want to hear about it. This is all you blog about anymore. Time to move on and consider others for awhile.
Poor Sally is tired of reading about my miscarriage. Since she pays good money to come here and read quality content, I'd better change my blog to make it more what she wants to read. Oh no, wait, she pays jack squat to read this site, so maybe she doesn't get a say in it.
But apparently I need to consider you guys, my readers. You don't want to hear about dead babies and heartache; you come here to find political commentary that you can find hundreds of other places. I should've spent my time researching current events and writing about that instead of sitting on the toilet bleeding for a week. Gosh, how rude I've been in not thinking of you, my readers and what you want me to say.
Because lord knows you couldn't find commentary on Obama and McCain anywhere else for the past week. How boorish of me to be wrapped up in my dead baby and all. A thousand apologies.
I mean, seriously, are you kidding me with this, Sally? If you don't like my blog content, click fucking elsewhere. Don't leave a snide-ass comment about how you don't like what I have to say.
You're the one who needs to get over yourself, lady.
And learn to spell basic words, like "a lot."
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I wish you had been honest and told her what you reeely, reely thought! ;D
Sometimes I wish we could put those peoples faces on so everyone would know who they are.
Posted by: Ruth H at June 20, 2008 06:39 PM (zvU1D)
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Sarah,
I just dropped by and found out about your loss. I'm so sorry. I don't know if it helps you to know or not, but a strange woman you don't know and will probably never meet is crying over her keyboard again feeling brokenhearted for you. Don't let idiots like Sally get to you. Some people are incapable of compassion. There's obviously something shockingly wrong with her, something missing in her psyche, that allows her to make such horrid, selfish comments.Sally is a pathetic excuse for a human being. You have good reason to be outraged by her comments, but try and remember she not a friend or even an acquaintance. She's just an anonymous, pathetic twit.
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Poor Sally...she's had such a perfect, blessed life that she can't comprehend others' suffering and loss.
Either that, or she has issues she can't face in herself. Either way, I offer her my prayers.
And Sarah, you definitely have my prayers. You are a wonderful person to share what you have gone through to help others understand. And understand, too, that you are not alone. For each person who can't 'get it', there are others who do, far too well. God bless.
Posted by: Mrs. Who at June 20, 2008 07:09 PM (KgqKI)
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Woooo Sarah! You tell 'em. Well done.
Co-sign to everyone else's comments about how it's
your blog,write about what you want.
Posted by: MaryIndiana at June 20, 2008 07:16 PM (Sc9ll)
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I have to say, this pisses me off! I have been reading your blog for quite a while now, and my favorite part of your work is how incredibly genuine you are. But, in reality, it doesn't matter what my favorite part of your blog is, nor does it matter what Sally desires to read. Although I am a new blogger myself, I already get this freeing kind of feeling when I post. I can write about anything I want! And so can you Sarah... F that B : )
PS. I was praying for you every step of the way with the baby. I too cried when I saw that you had miscarried. I am still praying : )
Posted by: Hope at June 20, 2008 07:39 PM (SgiEp)
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What a bitch. And this is a blog for you. it's your outlet. She can go fuck herself for such an idiotic thing to say.
Posted by: Sara at June 20, 2008 08:10 PM (lANFI)
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Totally unbelievable.
It is obvious from your writing that you are a steely strong, compassionate, passionate, amazing person. And, as someone else has mentioned, your authenticity and fearless truth-telling is what brings people back here (it's why I kept poking my head in!).
My mother would have had some things to say to Sally accompanied by her favorite hand gesture.
Keep being real--whether it's about politics, the military, marriage, or this tremendous blow you've been dealt. Sally is one tiny voice in the crowd.
Posted by: Val at June 20, 2008 08:15 PM (6RyTP)
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Sally sucks. Write on, Sarah!
Posted by: kristie at June 21, 2008 03:42 AM (GAf+S)
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Aside from the fact that this is YOUR blog and that you don't have to consider ANYBODY else when you post here if you don't want to...why is she speaking for your friends? What kind of friend tells you to get over a miserable, emotional experience, and go back to entertaining THEM?
I'd hate to see what she says to her family if that's the way she treats her 'friends'
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She does have a lot of fucking nerve. Screw Sally.
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So apparently there's
a new Obama ad by MoveOn where a woman holding a new baby tells John McCain that he can't "have" her child for his 100 years in Iraq.
Oh, puh-lease.
You know what, John McCain? We don't have a baby yet, but when we do, you can definitely have him or her. That is, if our child wants to join the military; you and I don't get much say in coercing the kid, neither to get in or stay out. But I have no problem with it. And I'm pretty sure you can have Erin's Tucker too. He's already got the camo thing nailed.
So the selfish blond lady can keep her baby at home. We've got at least two others you can "have."
What a dumb ad.
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You can have mine, too. And me. And my husband (who was Army) and my bro-in-law who's active duty already. So we're at 8 for my immediate. OH, yeah, and my S-I-L kids who are in JROTC, so there's 10.
Shove that baby up your ass. LOL
Posted by: Allison at June 20, 2008 05:58 AM (OH0du)
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Dumb, dumb, dumb ad.
My favorite comment over at the link you had is:
"Don't be misled by the name, lady: the 3rd Infantry Division is not made up of infants."
Posted by: Susan at June 20, 2008 06:03 AM (edTDc)
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And don't forget my son, who thinks your husband is wonderful because he drove a tank, and two of my three daughters (one of whom I'd happily send now, as she is 16 and needs a reality check and a good drill sergeant).
The other daughter wants to be a nun, but she altar served for two years in a military chapel - does that count?
Shoot, I think Ike the Dog would even volunteer if he could, just because it makes him uneasy when AFG leaves and he would probably feel much better if he could "protect" the man.
And by the way, John McCain is already 2046 years old. I doubt he'll still be spry enough to break into Baby Alex's bedroom in 18 years and snatch him away in the dead of night - much less 100 years from now. And if a top of his form Baby Alex can't defend himself from a physically disabled Methusalite who can't lift his arms above his shoulders, this mom has other issues to worry about.
Posted by: airforcewife at June 20, 2008 06:23 AM (mIbWn)
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What an dumb ad? Granted, I don't want to lose any of my family members to some idiot in Iraq while they are stationed there, but I am extrememly proud to come from a military family and to have my oldest child volunteer for it.
He didn't do it for the college money or because he had to, he did it because he is a proud American. He loves what he does and wants to make a career of it and I support him 150%.
Screw the chick with her baby, its people like her that would lay down and allow America to be trampled on. Would she prefer the ad be in Spanish, German or Arabic?
Posted by: Vonn at June 20, 2008 08:35 AM (gNLi0)
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"Screw the chick with her baby..."
Ah Vonn, I think she already has been.
I'm just saying.
Agree with y'all & can't say it any better.
Posted by: tim at June 20, 2008 09:05 AM (nno0f)
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I hate dumb advertisements. You could take mine as well! (If I had one to give)
Posted by: darla at June 20, 2008 11:03 AM (tIKcE)
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What this lady doesn't understand is...there are people in this world who would love nothing more than to take that baby now. Just ask the parents in Beslan or Darfur or anywhere else that extremism is allowed to go unchecked. Moron.
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I was going to post that ad from You Tube because it annoyed me so much! I saw a story on "Baby Alex" on Fox and just wanted to throw up...FYI to Baby Alex's mother: We have a VOLUNTEER military so that your kid won't have to fight. Bleck!
Posted by: Nicole at June 20, 2008 01:26 PM (sBJ2p)
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Dear crazy ad lady,
If your son is irrational and crazy like you, we probably don't want him.
SSG Sig
US Army National Guard
Posted by: Sig at June 20, 2008 01:33 PM (7uphd)
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Yeah, I saw the crazy lady ad, I was pretty much sickened over the thing.... I mean I have a teen who is fastly approaching 18 and her dad is in Tradoc now and bottom line, she knows what her options are, she is considering it, and well....while it scares me as a mother, I will support her regardless and if my other two decide to take that route, I will support them as well.....
Crazy lady can keep her baby....
ASW
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fortunately, the mother doesn't have much of a say in what her kid decides to do at 18... unless of course he is a mindless, p-whipped little thug who has no sense of honor, commitment, duty, pride and self-sacrifice... in that case, he can just stay home with mommy. uck.
ps. the thing that really pisses me off about that ad? it implies that somehow mothers of those in [military] service to their country don't love their children as much as the bimbo blond in the ad. I said bimbo. and I meant it.
Posted by: Some Soldier's Mom at June 20, 2008 08:12 PM (1t9I+)
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I saw that ad. First thing I thought was, "Actually it's not really your choice, lady. It's his choice, when he turns 18."
Crazy, selfish people.
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June 19, 2008
BRUISED ORANGE
I've been quoting John Prine a lot these days, haven't I?
You can gaze out the window get mad and get madder,
throw your hands in the air, say "What does it matter?"
but it don't do no good to get angry,
so help me I know
For a heart stained in anger grows weak and grows bitter.
You become your own prisoner as you watch yourself sit there
wrapped up in a trap of your very own
chain of sorrow.
Last miscarriage, I was angry. This time I just feel numb. And defeated. Reality is starting to sink in, and I'm sad. My husband said it best: Now we're just that much further from meeting our son or daughter, the child whose name we picked out during the Clinton administration and who won't be born until well into the next administration. So much time, wasted.
I feel like the last year and a half has been an hourglass, and I keep watching the sand slip through but there's nothing I can do to stop it.
I am Joe's ticking biological clock.
Last week when I dropped my mother off at the airport, I felt sad that she might not get to spend enough time with her grandchild. This week, I choked up because there is no grandchild anymore. What a difference a week makes.
Another week I can't put back into the hourglass.
And you carry those bruises
to remind you wherever you go.
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Sending mental support your way.
Posted by: Darla at June 19, 2008 01:22 PM (tIKcE)
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I'm sending big hugs via the internets. Feel 'em?
If we had a dollar for every grain of sand that has slipped out of the hourglass we call life, we be gadzillionaires.
I'm hoping for that spark of renewed hope to set up shop deep in your chest. If you need me to, I'll rub a couple of sticks together.
Posted by: Guard Wife at June 19, 2008 01:41 PM (ccp31)
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The journey to our Olivia was filled with tears, heartbreak, poking, prodding, guessing, wondering and agony. We wanted to be a family so badly and there was a little person somewhere who needed one...whether it was biological or otherwise. We took the road of uncertainty and reached out to our daughter through adoption. There's no one to say we'll never have biological kids, but we have the most perfect kiddo for our family. I'll be honest, I'm one who has trouble subscribing to "it all happens for a reason." While it may, I can't always get on board with it. It wasn't divine intervention our paperwork was held up, it was the slackness of an administrator, but the end result was the little girl with the big brown eyes and crooked smile who stole my heart.
My daughter doesn't carry the name we picked out during the Clinton administration because my niece does since she was born first. Same story with other names and friends, family members, etc. Iraq came and went. But it happened for us and it will with you. I'm sure of it.
I don't know the purpose of my comment. I know it's senseless rambling. I've never met you, but my heart breaks for you. I've written comments before and deleted them because I wasn't sure if it was right nor not. I've been in your shoes...I was a mother without a child. Now I'm the best mom I can be with a 3-1/2 year old who tells me I'm her "bestest friend in da whole wide world." That is worth every ounce of heartbreak and twist and turn I encountered along the way.
You're in the prayers of a lot of people, including mine.
Posted by: Susan at June 19, 2008 04:44 PM (bwlsC)
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Every once in a while, I read something that makes my heart stop. Usually it's not a big-time story. Often it's a science story. Instapundit had this one today, which brought wonderment and awe to my morning:
Bacteria make major evolutionary shift in the lab
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Posted by: Pixy Misa at June 19, 2008 05:26 AM (2yngH)
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Sarah,
I've submitted a post over at Brutally Honest,
http://www.brutallyhonest.org/, using this. I'm a guest bloogger there, (how that happened I'll never know).
Just wanted you to know, I'm not that tech savy as far as the Trackback and all that, just wanted to give ya' credit where it's due.Gave you a H/T for whatever that's worth.
BTW, I'm The Godless Heathen over there.
Posted by: tim at June 19, 2008 07:55 AM (nno0f)
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WHY BLOGS ARE AMAZING
This, to me, is one of the most interesting aspects of blogs.
Obama said that we arrested and tried those responsible for the 1993 WTC bombing. He also compared the Boumediene decision with the Nuremburg trials.
Powerline explains why what Obama said is not factual. It takes a trial lawyer familiar with Nuremburg to point out where Obama is wrong. I am not a trial lawyer; I am glad people like the men at Powerline donate their time to explain these details.
But people like Obama can go on TV and say whatever they want, and most voters don't visit Powerline to get the full story.
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My law school is 4th tier, but DANG, even *I* knew Obama was blowing smoke before I read the article.
I'm left wondering: 1) Does Obama actually know the score & he just assumes no one else will? or 2) is it actually possible that a Har-vahd man could graduate and still be so clueless...your guess is as good as mine, but I'm going with #2.
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