June 30, 2004
BREAKTHROUGH
Ali
threw a party when he heard of the handover:
Another friend approached me. This one was not religious but he was one of the conspiracy theory believers. He put his hands on my shoulders and said smiling, “I must admit that I’m beginning to believe in what you’ve been telling us for months and I’m beginning to have faith in America. I never thought that they will hand us sovereignty in time. These people have shown that they keep their promises.”
As Bremer said, "AÂ’ash Al-Iraq, AÂ’ash Al-Iraq, AÂ’ash Al-Iraq!"
(via Hud)
MORE TO GROK:
More thoughts on The Power of Scraps:
Historians will someday recognize June 28, 2004 as one of the most important days of our century. The United States, a nation of unopposable military might, invaded smaller, weaker Iraq and conquered it. We said we'd done it to rid the world of a murderous tyrant. Our detractors said we did it for oil, or for domestic political gain, or for any of a number of other contemptible reasons. We expunged the tyrant's government root and branch, then supervised Iraq's transition from the chaos of war back to a semblance of peace and order, despite many attempts to disrupt it. On June 28, we gave the Iraqi people freedom and autonomy, with a sincere promise of assistance should their embryonic republic encounter any difficulties it was still too young to handle.
We gave our blood and treasure to liberate Iraq from the villainy of Saddam Hussein. Then we gave our word that Iraq would be freed from our supervision as well. Then we stood by it. That is the significance of Paul Bremer's "scrap of paper."
(Via Bunker)
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It wasn't worth it. Americans have plenty of unmet needs right here at home to take of before we worry about 'liberating' countries that pose us no harm.
It may be a nice thing to do but then so would have been spending all that money creating jobs for US citizens.
Posted by: dc at June 30, 2004 03:31 PM (s6c4t)
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Thanks for the link, Sarah.
DC, when I hear people rant about "unmet needs," my immediate reaction is to tell them, "So if you can see them, what are you standing around whining for? Go meet them!" After that usually comes the punch on the nose.
"Government is not reason, it is not eloquence -- it is force!" -- George Washington. Force is good for meeting very few "unmet needs" -- but one of them is deposing vicious murdering tyrants and setting their victims free. So let government do with its force what force is best suited for, and tend to your preferred "unmet needs" with your
own blood and treasure.
Posted by: Francis W. Porretto at June 30, 2004 06:32 PM (MzH7h)
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Yikes, you have it exactly backwards.
This is our government. We pay taxes to our government for our common benefit. The government does not exist apart from the people; it does not exist to wreak havoc on tyrannies around the world. It exists to serve our needs.
If you want to expend your own blood and treasure fighting tyrannies around the world have at it. There are no gaurds at the border to keep you here. Just don't ask the rest of us to bail you out when you get a nosebleed.
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June 24, 2004
NATURE OR NURTURE?
In my attempts to understand the way people think, I started wondering about the nature/nurture split. It started with thoughts about another topic entirely, for much has been said about the biological vs. envioronmental influences in relation to homosexuality. I then started to wonder about how nature/nurture applies to politics.
We've all met siblings who have vastly different political leanings, despite being raised in the same household and having relatively similar life experiences. Even siblings who are still young -- those who haven't gone off on their own to encounter the world -- can have wildly different worldviews. One sibling works for the military and the other writes a dissertation on the virtues of Mandela and Khadaffi. How can this be?
Bunker's post was food for thought, which led me to The Motivations of Political Leftists and then to Why Are People Leftists?; these took me two days to read and digest. I then found a paragraph that echoed my questions: Leftists Are Born That Way, which is filled with interesting links that lead only to abstracts. I ended up with more questions than I have answers.
I know of people who were Leftists but abandoned their worldview; many of them were prompted by 9-11 to reevaluate their beliefs. But for many of us on both sides of the spectrum, 9-11 only confirmed what we already thought we knew, though it taught us monumentally different lessons. I personally have leaned Right for as long as I can remember, and I simply hid my more right-of-center views from my college friends. My worldview started to really solidify even before I cared at all about politics; it was fueled by the anti-Americanism I experienced in France and at the riots in Goteborg, and by an epiphany at a lecture by Dinesh D'Souza, among other things. Only later did I get into blogging and current events...and the military.
But where did it originate? Other people endured the hate and garbage in France, yet it didn't have the effect on them that it did on me. I must've already had the seeds of right-leaning ideas before I hit this point. But where did they come from?
I'd say both of my parents are fairly conservative, though we never talked about politics when I was growing up. I can't remember ever having a conversation about voting or foreign policy or anything of the sort. Did they somehow influence me in a subconscious way? Or was I born right of center and just viewed everything through that lens?
We talk about knee-jerk reactions, but isn't that just following your gut? The first blog I ever saw was U.S.S. Clueless and I immediately felt at home. Even before I had studied anything concrete about how the world works, I simply nodded my head in agreement and felt deep in my instincts that what Den Beste writes is true. No one had to teach me that; in fact, much of what we encounter in higher education these days should have persuaded me just the opposite. How was I not convinced?
I sure don't have the answers to these questions. I have always leaned a bit right of center; what about you? Do you think you were nurtured into your views or have you always felt this way? Did you have an epiphany or a gradually developing worldview?
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Hi Sarah,
Nice post! Here is my story -
Personally, I was raised a Democrat, and always voted straight Democratic ticket (except once or twice I voted for Scott Klug). Then came the world view blender commonly referred to as 9/11. I can't say that my world view changed instantly, because it didn't. However, it did cause me to start looking for information on the war, and the Internet was available. I mostly stayed with the major media (didn't know of blogs, - they were still pretty much unknown at the time). For a long time I was aware that the media doesn't portray the world clearly, but was able to get enough perspective from enough different sources to be able to develop at least some sense of what was really happening (preceding the battle of Afghanistan). Then I started noticing (around the end of the battle of Afghanistan) that I would see the same exact article posted at all the major media, and noticed that they were just reprints of AP articles, and finally found out about blogs (I think maybe from Austin Bay and/or Strategy Page). Which led me to Instapundit and from there was led to Eject! Eject! Eject!, (Courage) and U.S.S. Clueless. and like you felt like I had hit the mother lode of wisdom. These peoples ideas just resonated within me and made an extreme amount of sense to me. I'm not sure now if I will ever vote straight Democratic again.
Posted by: Ron - WI at June 24, 2004 09:52 AM (CwrQg)
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Ahh... the classic nature vs. nurture, a mainstay of psychological debate. I'll speak for myself: up until a few months ago, I avoided politics. "There are so many different sides, each with their own slant," I would think to myself, "that how can I possibly learn actual facts?" I finally took to heart the thought that politics will affect what I do in my career. From there, it was a slippery slope right down to the realization that politics affects
darn near everything. So here I am at your blog and various other places, trying to gain some sort of insight. The rest of my family was never very politically inclined, for reasons I actually haven't asked about yet (I should). The war in Iraq, however, has recently caused my father to gain an interest in politics.
From Bunker:
If any of you are leftists (not to be confused with sincere liberals) . . .
It's this sorta thing that makes me go...
wha-huh? I will come out and give words similar to what rfidtag expressed on Bunker's post: this business of Left/Right/Liberal/Conservative/etc. pidgeonholing ultimately counteracts rational discussion. When people organize themselves and band together under these labels and then attempt to talk about issues, it seems that the natural tendency is for folks to defend their groups. "After all," someone might hypothetically say, "you're Left and I'm Right, so we don't agree by default, or else we'd be in the same group!" This is simplistic and undermines the truth that opinions are malleable just like the world is malleable; we are not discrete little blocks in stacks. No, I don't expect these labels to go away; we are human, and humans naturally want to have information compartmentalized in their brains for convenient storage and retrieval. From this viewpoint, however, political labels are like stereotypes. They may derive from some form of truth, but they are incomplete. Even worse, those who feel loyalty to their label are more likely to dismiss opinions that don't fit their own "party line."
If one were to ask me whether I'm Left, Right or Center, I wouldn't be able to answer. I'm new to this, and I'm going about the process of determining what those labels mean. At the very least, I should learn about the labels to figure out what is implied when they are used as insults... and they
are used as convenient one-word insults by many people very often. Yet, even after I familiarize myself with the terms, I don't think I would use such words to describe my thoughts as a "package." At the least, I'd strive to avoid it. The only road to really figuring someone out is the long road: discussing a wide variety of issues in a non-threatening way. I feel that I would fall in unexpected places on a number of issues that come up in today's political world. After a long talk with me, some person might try to say that I'm (for entirely
random garbage example) "two smidgens to the left of mid-Right" or perhaps a "slightly conservative Anarcho-Neo-Libertarian." But geez, why bother with such nonsense? And then they'd expect me to act the part, and their eyebrows would raise up the next time I gave an "unexpected" opinion. Sometimes,
simplify does not mean what it seems.
Posted by: cjstevens at June 24, 2004 10:26 AM (fDuiT)
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cj, as far as labels go, I'm right there with you on that. In fact, the classic term "liberal" better fits those we now call "conservative", and vice versa.
Most of us don't fit either one well, which is why I use Left/Right to describe those on the edges. The rest of us are tweeners, trying to sort through the blather and make rational judgements. My world view is built from experiences in many different places, and interactions with many different people. I can't say whether I'm left or right, but people tell me I'm **RIGHT** and then are amazed when I say something that doesn't fit their perspective of how I should think on a given topic.
Groups require you to think as they do, or you are somehow less than you should be. An example is the pro-life/pro-choice battle. The options they offer is all or nothing on both sides. A radical can be of any stripe. I want to be a radical in the view of both left and right.
Posted by: Mike at June 24, 2004 01:45 PM (MqNKC)
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I was always interested in politics. I grew up during the Reagan years and was upset that my dad voted for him. Sadly, minorities, such as Hispanics are taught in the community that it is the democrats that are on your side. In my twenties, I vowed never to vote republican. I considered them white men. I was upset that our Founding Fathers were white men. Though I believed that the government should solve all our problems, I could never fully support the notion of pro-choice. I considered myself a feminist, but I couldn't cross that line. Perhaps, it was my Catholic faith that prevented that acceptance.
Anyway, I didn't vote for President Bush. I have never voted Republican. What changed it for me was that I started to pay attention, especially after September 11. What shocked me was the moral equivalency liberals began to spew, that America deseved it. As a writer, I started to blatantly see the manipulation of words and meanings by leftist liberals who now control the democratic party. Their misinformation about facts puts this country and puts the future of my family at risk. And that I will not stand for. It was because of them that I left the democratic party. As my family could attest, only I could become a republican, because I was to stauchly against them as a party. So for all those liberals out there, young and idealistic to believe if America was gone all would be well, I say, there is still hope for you to wake up and join the fight to preserve the only way of life you've ever known.
Posted by: Moor at June 24, 2004 05:09 PM (xvwyL)
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Where to begin? Well to start I am a registered INDEPENDENT in the state of NJ. Unlike Bill O'Rielley, (I should call him "O'Lielley", like Franken does, but that would be "shrill"), anyway My world view is not and never has been static. I try to gather as much information there is, then read a little of what both the liberals and conservatives have to say. After reading some opinions I begin to form my own, some times I agree with a liberal opinion. I sometimes agree with a conservative opinion. There are even times when on a particular topic (property taxes for instance) I have agreements with both liberals and conservatives. I think that to maintain a static world view is suffocating. As I learn new things my view will change sometimes subtly, occasionaly radicly. For the longest time after I became a civilian again, I was rather an isolationist, Reagan's paling around with assorted central american thugs, and Pinochet helped me reach that conclusion. Somalia, and Mogadishu convinced me I was right, but then we went ahead into Kosovo, and Bosnia and we actually managed to do something good. 9-11 returned me to the view that we need to be "leaders" in this world. I never have been a pacifist, and I think that radical wahabbism needs to be confronted, I just do not agree with the current method, but that is what makes this nation so great we can disagree, but in the end we usually do reach some middle ground and do what needs to be done.
Posted by: Bubba Bo Bob Brain at June 24, 2004 10:30 PM (4pVZJ)
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What changed it for me was that I started to pay attention, especially after September 11. What shocked me was the moral equivalency liberals began to spew, that America deseved it.
Well, it's interesting to hear Pat Robertson and Jerry Falwell described as 'liberals'....didn't they also 'spew moral equivalency', as you so eloquently put it? Or is it only moral equivalency if democrats do it? How about Rush Limbaugh's comparison of Abu Ghraib to 'a praternity prank', 'a Britney Spears concert', 'blowing of steam'? Has that prompted you to leave the Republican party? Or do you agree with their moral relativism in this case?
Posted by: Coriolanus at June 25, 2004 12:28 PM (SbtTU)
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I got a little long winded, so my comments are here...
Paraducks
The short answer is I think there's a little of left and right in all of us.
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June 23, 2004
BADGE
Dennis Prager (via
Amritas) divides Americans into two groups:
Those who are ashamed of America for being hated and those who wear this hatred as a badge of honor.
For weeks now I've been trying to understand those who disagree with me, and for weeks Amritas has been trying to get me to see that which Den Beste has said before: "It is more important what you stand for than who you stand with." I know this deep down, but my recent feelings of sadness and pessimism have been hard to shake. But tonight I finally understand what it means to be hated.
Sometimes being hated is the right thing. Sometimes being hated is not so much a reflection of you as it is a reflection of those who hate you. And sometimes being hated is something you should wear as a badge of honor.
I grok that now. Thanks for not giving up on me, Marc.
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I'm glad you grok it now. I know it is harder when you have friends and probably family who are so against your views and feelings. I have a son who is so very liberal that it bewilders me. He is extremely intelligent and successful and soooooo liberal. The good news is that we just have to agree to disagree and love each other anyway. No hate is involved so I don't have that problem. But in local politics within a little organization I am in, and I'm talking about a group that is totally inconsequential to the way the world turns, things have gotten so out of hand that I do feel hated by some of them and am almost ready to return the favor. Not a happy situation. But they are people I do not love, some of them I do not even like, so it doesn't matter to me what they think. If they don't matter they can hate me if they want, as the old saying goes, its no skin off my back. But at your age it would have mattered, my age tells me just don't sweat it. Enough said.
Posted by: Ruth H at June 23, 2004 07:56 PM (KWhLf)
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Grokking means seeing all sides. Not just one and it's imagined opposite.
Where does anger come from?
Posted by: Warbaby at June 24, 2004 02:13 AM (3YyqC)
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Hey Sarah,
"A few days went by with no sign of a verdict from the principal. Actually, it was a nice break from the chaos and it gave me time to reflect over all that was happening. I have to admit being called a racist, a bastard, and being threatened hurt. I had seen first-hand just how angry and blind the left could be."
Here's a kid who knows exactly how you feel. What you were feeling is pretty normal. Anger and hatred directed at you, for any reason, hurts. Whether it's because of the color of your skin or your politics.
Just consider what you stand for and whether, as den Beste said, what you stand for. It doesn't remove the hurt, but it helps.
Kal
Posted by: Kalroy at June 24, 2004 02:14 AM (VU2TV)
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"Sometimes being hated is the right thing. Sometimes being hated is not so much a reflection of you as it is a reflection of those who hate you. And sometimes being hated is something you should wear as a badge of honor."
Looks like someone agrees with you . . .
"I didn't quit, I never thought of resigning and I stood up to it and beat it back . . . The whole battle was a badge of honor. I don't see it as a stain, because [the impeachment process] was illegitimate."
—Bill Clinton
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May 24, 2004
ACCOMPLISH
I have been trying to grok florian.
I have no idea what kind of person florian is -- man, woman, old, young -- but I know florian doesn't live in the same America I live in. I also know that we don't have any common ground, and you all know how important that is to me. I can't figure out what florian intends to accomplish here.
I'm not trying to be snarky at all; I seriously am curious why florian keeps reading my blog. I obviously care more about the American military than any other in-group I belong to, so posting links about turncoats is not going to make me re-evaluate how much I value our loyal and selfless servicemembers. Moreover, I obviously know that there are a few bad apples in the barrel, but I am absolutely certain that most servicemembers are not targeting civilians, as florian has tried to get me to admit. Every time florian comments, I tend to sigh and shake my head. I don't for one second consider re-thinking my position.
Which leads me to wonder about the in-between: I have basically given up on any hope for grey area. I see the world in black and white these days. There are good guys and bad guys; there are rights and wrongs. Researching, reading blogs, and trying to grok every day for the past eight months has been a double-edged sword: the more I learn about the world, the less likely I am to compromise on what I believe. When I am faced with looney imams, kids with AKs, and auctions of Jewish body parts on LGF every day, I am way less likely to give any credence to someone's argument that radical Islam is not the enemy. And, when faced with soldiers who organize charitable organizations, beg to return to Iraq despite the four-inch bullet hole in the forearm, and turn in their idiot buddies who torture prisoners, I am not at all likely to happily sit by and let florian sully everything they stand for. The more I read and learn, the less likely I am to be wishy-washy on my positions.
I do want to continue to grow as a person, and I do want to hear if someone disagrees with me on some details of my thoughts. But I don't learn anything from comments that are completely polar from my worldview. I could consider conceding some middle ground, but I'll never switch over to the other side. That, to me, seems to be what florian wants to accomplish.
I'm very curious, florian: why do you read my blog?
MORE TO GROK:
Florian responds in the comments, and then I respond above.
And is that really Steven Den Beste? I'm honored if it is.
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Hi Sarah,
don't despair over the nutcases.....imagine mainstream American response to the Cannes Film Festival groveling before that gross pig Micael Moore....our observation here is that the "blame America first" crowd while although extremely verbal, continues to dwindle none the less. The reason is that they don't pass the smell test. Most reasonable Americans believe (rightly so I think) that most of our officials and soldiers will act in a reasonable way....i.e. reasonable people agree that the U.S. was "sucker punched" on 9-11 rather than subjugated to some wild conspiracy. Let the HAF crowd continue to make fools of themselves and the rest of us will be content by merely being proven right. Keep up the great work with your Blog Sarah....you are providing a great service!!!
Jim
APMS, AROTC, University of Southern California
Posted by: jim barclay at May 24, 2004 06:13 PM (0e6si)
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As I read a couple of florian's comments, I wondered the same thing. The address is UK, not that it really matters. Florian simply seems to be looking for affirmation by trolling.
Posted by: Mike at May 24, 2004 08:28 PM (NZ4lg)
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I don't doubt that you are unable to comprehend florians visits. You are quite a bit different as a person.
florian has been trying to get a rise out of you. He/she/it is not attempting to understand, or persuade, but rather to provoke a confrontation and an arguement. This serves not as an attempt to change your world view, but just as a vehicle for the arguement itself, as that is the goal. Attention, rather than understanding and growth, provocation rather than consideration.
You do not approach this medium with that outlook, you are looking to understand through reason.
Posted by: John at May 25, 2004 01:45 AM (crTpS)
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You say you care about the US military, but I don’t think so. You think you do, but there is something else underneath it. If you did, you wouldn’t trash our soldiers by calling them “turncoats” when they decide it is their duty to tell the truth about the war. You would listen to them, the Zinnis, the Ritters, the Tagubas, the Masseys. Instead you disgrace the service of generals, of men and women who put their safety and security at risk by listening to their conscience. You say you don’t remember the Cold War, but I do, and there is a kind of a Stalinism in your ability to immediately cut down fellow soldiers and colleagues who stray from the party line.
You say you care about Israel, but I don’t think so. If you did, you would honor the “never again” spirit in the actions of these soldiers. They understand the lesson of the Holocaust -- that soldiers and civilians must never blindly follow immoral orders or support immoral policies. Staff Sgt. Massey told his CO he felt they were committing genocide --murdering civilians, desecrating bodies. His CO called him a wimp. You probably would too.
Why do I read your site?
Partly fascination. At your site people call others “conspiracy theorists” and “nutcases” even though they themselves believed in the nutty “Saddam Behind 9-11, Ready To Use WMD” conspiracy theory. At your site I see the pathology of a woman who uses the word “vaginitis” to mean cowardice, who says the life of a child holding a US passport is worth more than one who doesn’t.
Partly to monitor the war cheerleaders’ websites, the collapse of the war effort in the drop off of comments, the doublethink. To read the open diary of a war cheerleader and see the effect of, for instance, the torture policy revelation -- in your case, spontaneous crying and a recourse to Ben Gay and puppies. Then after a few days the return to the denial mode -- the “just a few idiots did it” argument.
Partly info: The great links you disagree with -- the vet turning old war posters into antiwar posters, the thoughtful antiwar writers. Strangely, you donÂ’t target extremists -- maybe because you donÂ’t see yourself as one -- but reasonable dissidence, and then I learn about them too. Thanks.
No, I wouldn’t dream of making you “switch over to the other side” -- as your admitted black-and-white worldview sees it. I do check if any light can crack through it. (By the way, a black-and-white worldview is something you share with radical Islam. They say we become what we hate.)
Posted by: florian at May 26, 2004 05:27 PM (qva6a)
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"...the vet turning old war posters into antiwar posters..."
That would be Micah Wright, wouldn't it? Who claimed to have been in the Rangers and to have been in combat in Panama etc.?
And who was exposed recently as never having served in the military at all?
It made the WaPo:
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A60120-2004May1.html
And once he knew the jig was up, he confessed.
Posted by: Steven Den Beste at May 29, 2004 03:34 AM (CJBEv)
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May 14, 2004
UNDERDOG
I watched Rocky last night.
When my ESL students and I would do our American Values unit, one of the values I always had to explain at length was "the underdog". Rocky, Rudy, the 1980 US hockey team, these are all modern-day American heroes and folk legends. It's something we as an ESL class spent some time discussing because, to my knowledge, no other culture values the underdog like we do.
When the statue of Saddam came down last March, I was cheering the underdog. But watching Rocky last night triggered an analogy: we Americans are so familiar with the concept of bootstrapping that we sometimes have a hard time understanding why Iraq doesn't drink a glass of raw eggs and get to work. Iraq's Apollo Creed is Islamic Fundamentalism; the US arranged the fight but we can't understand why Iraq won't get in the ring. Having been raised on Rocky, Rudy, and Mighty Ducks, we easily forget that others don't have that tradition.
Who but an American would ever write
I fervently hope that someday, perhaps decades from now, Iraq will have a really top-notch soccer team. I hope that one day, they will get to the final round of the World Cup, and when they do, I hope it is Team USA they play for the championship.
I hope that the Americans play a tough, aggressive, masterful game, that they use all of the speed and skill and power at their command. And then I want to sit there watching TV as an old man, and watch the faces on the Iraqi people when the game is over, because I want to see that the most relieved and joyous they can conceive of being, is the day that tiny Iraq got out on that soccer field and kicked our ass.
Can the love for the underdog be taught? Can it be transfered to Iraqi society? Maybe our Air Force could drop copies of Rocky and Rudy on Iraqi cities so they can start studying. Someday I want to watch a movie about the Iraqi underdog who got to the top not because Allah was willing but because he worked his ass off. That's my hope for the future.
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Your comment recalled this song (which almost seems to describe OIF?) -Tym
When criminals in this world appear
And break the laws that they should fear
And frighten all who see or hear
The cry goes up both far and near
For Underdog! Underdog! Underdog! Underdog!
Speed of lightning, roar of thunder
Fighting all who rob or plunder
Underdog. Underdog!
When in this world the headlines read
Of those whose hearts are filled with greed
Who rob and steal from those who need
To right this wrong with blinding speed
Goes Underdog! Underdog! Underdog! Underdog!
Speed of lightning, roar of thunder
Fighting all who rob or plunder
Underdog. Underdog!
Posted by: Tym at May 14, 2004 12:22 PM (jKm1z)
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I had a post a while back about movies Iraqi's should watch - didn't think of the underdog theme, which would be perfect.
Nerdstar says there are tons of dvds - legit and pirated - over there. It would still be cool to have movie theaters and discussions and such over there.
Posted by: Beth at May 14, 2004 06:47 PM (e9V3+)
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May 13, 2004
FREEDOM
I found this on Castle Argghhh's post
Wahabism Delenda Est. It really got to me.

Not all of us can run out and join the fight (though after watching the Nick Berg video, that's the only thing on my mind). Instead we have to fight for freedom at home. Deskmerc once said, "While our troops go out to defend our country, it is incumbent upon us to make the country worth defending." I have kept that on my sidebar to remind myself of my duty, but it's easy to get sidetracked and forget. Castle Argghhh reminded me today.
Our duty is to make the country worth defending. That means prosecuting those who humiliate prisoners, and they will surely be dealt with. But it also means not turning a blind eye to what is going on in this world. It means each and every one of us -- we who grok -- have a duty to try to help others grok. Consider it a sort of political evangelicism; we need to spread The Truth.
When someone equates Abu Ghraib and Nick Berg, we need to set the record straight. Pointing at someone's penis and sawing someone's head off do not a balanced scale make. When someone mistakenly says that both sides in this war on terror want peace, we need to remind them that radical Muslims are not working for peace by a long shot. Hippies want peace on earth; Muslims want death to Americans and Jews. When someone says that war is not the answer, we need to ask them what the f-ing question is.
It is our duty to ask ourselves "What have I done today for freedom?"
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This post is a perfect example of why your site is my first stop each day.
Posted by: Mike at May 13, 2004 08:10 AM (kbqMz)
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"When someone says that war is not the answer, we need to ask them what the f-ing question is."
I like that, and will use it.
Posted by: John at May 13, 2004 08:34 AM (crTpS)
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Oh, and your comments won't save my info.
Posted by: John at May 13, 2004 08:35 AM (crTpS)
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John,
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Posted by: Amritas at May 13, 2004 09:00 AM (VvnzE)
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I struggle every day with the question "What can I do?". I feel so useless most of the time. Then I just click on your site, and others like yours, and am reminded that I can help. I have a voice. Thank you for reminding me.
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May 09, 2004
APOLOGY
Why is Joe Lieberman
the only one who groks?
Er, not the only one. Some Iraqis grok too.
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There was only one Democrat in the field this year I could have voted for: Lieberman. They dumped him quickly and without remorse. "Party of the working man"? A bigger lie has never been told.
Posted by: Mike at May 09, 2004 07:35 AM (kbqMz)
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May 07, 2004
GROK
Tonight my cell phone rang in my pocket right as I was driving through the gate leaving our post. Since I thought it might be the husband, I really wanted to answer it, but since it's illegal to drive and talk on a cell phone in Germany, the gate was not the smartest place to answer the phone.
Turns out it wasn't the husband, but a great surprise nonetheless: Tim.
And look what he found for me...

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May 02, 2004
WOW
Nighthawk emailed me a link to an
article about the Spirit of America fundraiser:
The column describing Spirit of America's effort to raise $100,000 for the TV stations appeared in this space 14 days ago. Since then, the following has happened:
Jim Hake, Spirit of America's entrepreneur founder, says they have received $1.52 million. Some 7,000 donations have come from every state, and one from . . . France.
Amazing stuff.
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April 26, 2004
SUFFER
I started to formulate a post while talking to Tim over the weekend, and it just came together on the exercise bike. I've managed to nail down more firmly why I feel I have a hard time fitting in, why I relate so well with my students but not as well with other wives.
Soldiers signed up for this; wives didn't.
I realize this will take some generalizing here, but bear with me. Soldiers know what they're getting into when they raise their right hand. They know the risks and agree to take them. Wives, on the other hand, seem to have a sense of "why me" when they fall in love with someone who has chosen to take that oath. There's some crossover of categories -- conscientious objectors, anyone? -- but for the most part, soldiers are willing participants in the war on terror and wives are dragged along kicking and screaming.
The majority of wives I know either suffer in silence or express their bitterness at any appropriate moment. None are hooah the way I am. They look forward to the day their husbands leave this mess behind and get a regular job, and though they feel a vague sense of pride that their husbands are doing a noble job, they would welcome him home in a heartbeat and flip the Middle East the finger if they could. They seem to think that since they never took an oath, they are exempt from any obligations to portray Army Values and to selflessly support the mission.
I don't think I've met anyone yet who feels the way I do (except for Tim, but he raised his right hand a while back.)
I don't suffer. Sure, I miss planting kisses in my husband's dimples, but I don't feel the bitterness many wives feel over the separation. I don't feel angry at the President for forcing us to go through this, nor do I feel like I've been cheated out of 14 months of my life. I don't have any illusions that his return next April will signify the end of our family's involvement with all things Muslim, nor do I plan to inform him that I have personally decided he's leaving the Army when he gets back, as some wives will.
My husband is contributing something to this world in a way that many wives just don't seem to grok. I think that's why I feel more comfortable with soldiers than wives, because there's common ground in the idea that soldiers are supposed to soldier. I'm having a hard time seeing that understanding in the wives I know.
On Saturday, Tim asked me how I cope with the deployment. To be honest, I do most of it alone. But when I need empathy in a rough patch, I turn to Tim or Mike or Carla. When I need someone to be sympathetic and get my mind off of it, I turn to Marc. When I'm down, I turn to the blogosphere for support.
I turn to you guys to help me cope. Thank you.
MORE TO GROK:
Amritas adds some insight.
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Sarah, you are not alone. Well, maybe since I'm in Giessen in you are, but I feel the same way you do. My husband and I were married for a year when he brought the subject of joining the Army up. He had dropped out of high school, couldn't hold a job and was going nowhere. He felt that the Army could help him become a man and provide for his family. Well, it's almost 10 years later and gues what? The Army did turn him into a pretty good man and has allowed him to provide for his family. At the moment, I think I am more pro-Army than he is. When he made the decision to enlist (and the numerous re-enlistments), the decision was mutual. I sometimes even talked him into staying IN. So, in a way, I feel as if I have raised my hand also. I couldn't be prouder of him or the Army.
Posted by: Lani at April 26, 2004 05:09 AM (rZmE1)
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"They also serve" has lost some of its meaning. I grew up in a military family. It was then a real community. We were poor. Everyone in the military was poor except those who came from well-to-do families. So everyone shared. When we lived in Europe, it was soon after the end of WWII, and I was in France when the Berlin Wall went up. Americans felt kinship only among themselves.
Much of that has been lost with the decent pay and two-income families which are now the norm. I saw this during my career, and I would guess it is even worse now (I don't like using that word--different?). Options are much greater now for many quality of life issues. And I have to say, my generation spoiled yours. You don't have that "my career" mentality.
Other wives miss having their family next door to watch the kids. They want to stay in the town they grew up in. You've grown beyond that.
When you are "the Colonel's wife", you'll get them all in line!
Posted by: Mike at April 26, 2004 09:01 AM (cFRpq)
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Amen Sister!
Not many wives feel the way you do.
I am one though.
Posted by: Ellie at April 26, 2004 11:12 AM (JQ67/)
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You're a "soldier" in your right--thank you.
Posted by: david at April 26, 2004 12:57 PM (1+76a)
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Sarah, you and the other wives who grok are my heroes. I think I've told you this before but we have so many heroes right now, here in the US and all over where families are stationed. And while I feel compassion for anyone who has someone stationed in harm's way I feel great admiration, respect and love for those of you who stand and wait with respect for your spouse, with understanding, love and pride.
Posted by: Ruth H at April 26, 2004 02:13 PM (TBNk6)
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With all due respect, maybe you aren't listening to the right wives! There are many just like you in our community. Most do not have a blogpage to express themselves so eloquently. Some do not speak out because they don't want to upset spouses or suggest another spouse's (their friend's) complaints are not legitimate. Some do not speak so that other wives aren't cut off from expressing themselves within the spouse group rather than voicing complaints to their deployed significant others.
Everyone needs a sounding post. I can assure you that most of the client-spouses I see feel like they support the Army by supporting their husbands. And, in their defense, many have been cast aside after suffering through a year of deployment by husbands who have returned with a calloused cynical attitude or a girlfriend. I think you might be oversimplifying? We can discuss over a beer if you like.
It's wonderful that you have such a good attitude right now. But I can also identify with spouses who have been through five or six of these deployments and are raising two to four kids as essentially solo parents. I do not blame them for, in low times, putting their feelings out there and asking for sympathy.
My husband only comes home once a month for a long weekend. I am happy for the time with him and dread the fact that he will deploy in March, when everyone else will be returning. AS a former military member, I can also understand the excitement he feels that he will be able to use his training and leadership skills in a significant way. I also feel somewhat guilty that I get to see him when others in our group miss their husbands so much. You should be flattered that the wives feel like you are someone they can open up to and express their frustration and anger. That must be difficult for you at times. But don't feel like ALL spouses are like that. You come across as an exceptionally nonjudgmental empathetic person. As with all good things, I guess there is a downside and you're seeing it! Glad you had a great Saturday with Tim.
Posted by: Oda Mae at April 26, 2004 06:06 PM (IgwHZ)
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Sarah, thanks for posting this. I am an Army Reserve wife and we just finished a 14 month mobilization/deployment. I observed many of the same things you did as a reservist's spouse, and I experienced some of it myself. My husband's decision whether to retire or not is ultimately up to him. I have made no demands and while I expect him to take my feelings into consideration, the mobilization has taught me to appreciate what a fine man I married, and to be more flexible. I was angrier with myself going in to the mobilization, because deep down I knew I would have to make some career sacrifices and I was not ready for those. I struggled to keep the career going full time, but eventually, to my detriment and unfortunately to my employer's detriment, my performance was not up to par and I made a major career change.
Adjusting is really hard to do. Remaining continually angry over things we have little control over does not make the adjustments any easier as a military spouse.
I appreciate your posts and I have enjoyed the comments to this one.
Posted by: Lynn at April 27, 2004 03:10 PM (puWe2)
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MOSQUE
I finished reading Bernard Lewis'
What Went Wrong? on the train, and one thing really caught my attention. I'm no expert on the history or nuances of Islam, but Lewis is, and I trust his analysis when he says
Christians sometimes speak of "The Synagogue" and "The Mosque" to denote the religious institutions of the Jewish and Muslim faiths. But these are inappropriate terms, the projection of Christian notions onto non-Christian religions. For the Jew or the Muslim, the synagogue or the mosque is a building, a place of worship and study, no more. Until modern times and the spread of Christian norms and influence, neither ever had, for its own worshippers, the institutional sense of the Christian term.
When the Marines bombed the mosque in Fallujah, Charles Johnson said
The wire services are already reporting that 40 “worshippers” were killed at one mosque in Fallujah. But the simple fact, borne out by hundreds of posts here at LGF, is that mosques in places like Fallujah are not simply “places of worship;” they are centers of incitement, and hiding places/staging areas for murderers.
Before reading Lewis' book, I thought Muslims were disgusting, hiding their weapons in places of worship. I figured they knew their religion was so intricately tied to jihad that it didn't really matter if they defiled their mosques. Now I wonder if maybe it's just our Christian upbringing that makes us unable to grok how a place of worship could be full of RPGs. If to Muslims a mosque is simply a building, then it's no wonder we see photos like these:


And now I feel even less sorrow at bombing that Fallujah mosque.
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April 20, 2004
GROK
Sam is
dealing with a troll, and he had some very insightful remarks:
Not to forget; that no single Iraqi accept and like to see the occupation of his country by a foreign troops. We all would like to see an end to the occupation but not by the way of chaos, looting, robbery, blood shed, abduction, killing innocent people, terrorist attacks, destruction of power stations and of oil and water pipes, dirty power seeking militias, force using to impose their own way of life on women and men, assassinations of university professors and doctors and intellectuals, and so on and so forth. A scale is of a complete havoc and destruction. This is not resistance at all. What happened in Falluja and by Sadr are part of what I listed above. Thugs are seeking power or money or pushed by terrorist of Wahabi origin to commit their crimes.
Those who clap and shout slogans to Sadr on last Friday are the same people who did the same and more slogans for Saddam! Those who kill in Falluja are the same people who did the crimes of mass graves and tortures and Halbja chemical attacks by Saddam. Those who negotiate for them the Sunni Group and mediate for the release of hostages are the one who cried and regret the fall of the most tyrant regime on earth.
Yes we have been liberated from that regime with the help of the coalition troops and the USA admitted that it is an occupying force. GWB and his aides and Ministers etc, always said that they like to help to build a free, democratic Iraq with open and strong economy. This sound very good for us and we would like to see it started as soon as possible. We know that it is delayed for a little while but the reasons are very well know? It is the others who do not like to see it started and we are always said that it should start sooner rather than latter. See who kidnap and kills the contractors and bomb the oil pipes and the water pipes? It is the above groups who do not like to see security and reconstruction as well as the regional countries.
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That's a common problem on every military base in the world. Word travels extremely fast in a fenced in community. Now
shhhh... ;o)
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April 16, 2004
STUDENTS
Can I just say again how much I love my students? Yesterday I got accused of not being pro-American enough in class. Me. Not pro-American enough. Hysterical. I spoke somewhat cynically about how our justice system doesn't always work as well in practice as it should in theory, and one of my students jumped on me for being too critical. As he and I "argued" back and forth, I realized we were basically saying the same thing, and when he concluded with "Well, I don't care because the United States is still the best country ever", I had to smile and realize that he was simply hurt that I had spoken ill of something he values so much. And believe me, I know how that feels.
It's just so nice to stand in front of a class that groks the same things I do. When I say the word media, I hear boos in the back row. When I said that images of 9/11 cause a strong reaction in many Americans, one soldier (an immigrant American) mumbled, "Yeah, they make us want to get the mo@#&%kers." When I ask them to write about an incident in their life that makes them who they are today, the majority of them wrote about joining the Army and how it changed their life; they had been drug dealers, gangsters, and battered wives who have found personal strength and meaning in military values. They're my students and I adore all of them.
If I could teach writing classes for soldiers forever, I would.
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April 15, 2004
TOUCHING
I hadn't checked my email account in a few days, and what I found brought tears to my eyes. Some
Milblogs contributors are
fighting to see who can donate the most to Spirit of America. Then Greyhawk jumped in and promised part of his tax refund, and also pointed out that our wounded servicemembers in Landstuhl Regional Medical Center here in Germany are in desperate need of toiletries and essentials since they've been medevac-ed.
Soldiers' Angels fired back a response:
We have sent 100 backpacks to Landstuhl filled with needed items ie socks, clothing, cd players, hygeine items att phone card
we have also sent over 100 boxes of needed items. We also are sending the backpacks to the combat hospitals in Mosul and Tikrit and EVEYONE has been used.
West Point class of 55 is donating we are trying to send more and they need it. A big call for slippers and tennis shoes, our guys are mostly coming in with no boots.
The need is great there and Soldiers' Angels would be honored to work with you in providing for the wounded.
It really touches my heart to know that so many people are donating and reaching out to our servicemembers. Now I need to go earmark some of that tax-free money the husband's been making for Castle Argghhh's contest...
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I just had a thought, I'll email this to Michele of ASM as well, is there one website that lists ALL of the support efforts going on - I mean, all these giving campaigns, whether for troops or for Iraqi's or whatever. It would be amazing and powerful to see a more complete list of all the things people and troops are doing.
Posted by: Beth at April 15, 2004 05:04 PM (+Q/Xw)
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I just visited a wounded soldier at Landshtule. It has changed my life. He reccieved a backpack and they are great, but it was the last one for the day. They need so much more!!! Hope folks keep donations coming as they can help so much. However besides money, action is also despereatly needed. Go visit the hospital nearest you, and take some goodies with you for the waiting room. Go hold a soilders hand, give him a magazine, comic book, small toy, anything to help pass the time, and say thank you. Also needed are wallets. You can't buy one at this hospital, and many arrive without them as they get lost or stolen in the chaos. Thanks for putting out the word. Keep up the good work!
Posted by: Heather at April 15, 2004 05:48 PM (yTFw1)
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Well, I don't think I'll trump anyone else's competitive donation (money is tight this month), but I was happy to donate.
And great blog, by the way!
Posted by: Kimberly at April 16, 2004 12:36 PM (hkGvr)
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Visiting the wounded soldiers and marines in Landstuhl Medical Center on God Friday the 09th April 2004
I have wondered me many times what could I do more for the soldiers and now the marines in Iraq. So I have had the idea one day to go to the Landstuhl Medical Center, in Landstuhl. Together with good friends from me we went to Landstuhl and for to say to all heroes “Thank you very much for fighting the war” and “Get well soon”, to all young American men and women who are putting their lives at risk in Iraq day for day for more as a year and now longer and nobody knows how long they have to do this. Our hours in Landstuhl have been a wonderful thing. The manager from the Landstuhl Fisher House has picked up us at the Gate 3 in front of the hospital at 2 pm. She has given us a wonderful warm hearted welcome. She is a great lady. After a short talk with her at the Fisher House, we went together with a group fight attendants from the AA-Airlines to the Hospital. They have brought to the wounded and the hospital a lot of girl scouts cookies. This was for us the first visit in a military hospital. We have had 15 empty backpacks with us, which we have given the Fisher House for the wounded patients. This is something that they need so much to carry their belongings in it. I have read to go by Air Force further, all patients need backpacks or sport bags but not shopping bags. So we are glad that we could give something to make the trip to the US for the wounded soldiers and marines easier. From Kristi from Florida, we have had with us a very large Easter basket too. She has sent it to me for to give it to a special hero. We have had luck, a SPC from Waterbury from the Connecticut Army National Guard, injured in a non-hostile incident in Iraq was in a barracks in Landstuhl. One of the officers told us that he will bring the basket to him on Easter. I will say to them, thank you very much for doing this and bring to injured soldiers a wonderful Easter basket. To lie down in a hospital far away from home and alone on a holiday is not so easy, for nobody! So we have thought we will bring 15 Easter bugs and 4 small Easter baskets with us with candies and chocolate to give it to wounded, injured or sick soldiers or marines, so we know that someone is thinking of them on Easter.For us all it was a great honour to went together with the manager from the Fisher House to the wounded marines and soldiers and to give them the magnificent and useful backpacks, which have been dispatched to Landstuhl through Soldier`s Angels Foundation, Keystone Soldiers and United Spinal Assoc. The backpacks we are given to the soldiers and marines have had a lot of good things in it - all things they need so much: Hooded Sweat Shirt, Military Brown T-Shirt, Black Sweat Pants Package of Boxers and Socks, 120 minute ATT calling card, CD Player (w/extra batteries), 1 Stick Deodorant, 1 (1.5 oz.) shave gel , 1 (2 oz.) bottle of Shampoo and Body Bath, 2 Disposable Razors, 1 (4" handle) toothbrush, with bristle cover, 1 (.85 oz.) tube of toothpaste and more goodies.
I must tell you that the eyes from the marine have told me that they both were very surprised, to see the backpack and to see that people are thinking on them. And as they saw what the backpack contents, they could not believe it. But the greatest thing near all the things they need so much was the CD player, this was the best of all! It was a great thing to meet them and to see that they saw that people are looking for them. We have seen marines and soldiers lying in their beds, full of pain and with eyes filled with tears, who could not make any movement without pain. By every Hero we have visited we have seen that they appreciate our visit by them, sometimes they looked at first a little bit surprised, to see that Germans visit them and that our German group said to them “Thank you very much for the great job they all have done for us all” This was a great thing, to give them handshakes and this brought us tears in the eyes. And they told us always again and again, thank so much for doing this for us. Someone has taken his T-shirt directly out of the backback and Irene has helped him to do it over his wounded arm. Another marine told us how he was wounded in Iraq. It is always the same bad story you read day by day in the news…as he was speaking, you could see that his body was there, lying in the bed and in his thought he was fighting and wounded again. At first he has spoken normally, and step by step when he told us his story he was imaging the fight again so that he now begins to speak faster and faster and his eyes have seen the terrible pictures again. We think that all marines and soldiers were really pleased to have had a visitor. We have visited or spoken with about more as 15 marines and soldiers, in the hospital and in the Fisher House. A few have had serious medical problems I think a lot of them told me that they are going further to Walter Reed or Bethesta or to Texas for more medical care. I told them that they can give me an e-mail if they want that our group can do something for them here in Landstuhl or in Washington DC. The most of the wounded were alone there and their love ones are in the States, but a few family members have taken the opportunity to stay in the Fisher House and so they have the opportunity to look the whole day for their wounded family member. The Fisher House is a great thing. We all have seen that all the nurses, doctors, and all the other staff and the women and men from the Fisher House do a great job.
Wilhelmine Aufmkolk, Germany
JosephineFS@aol.com
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Our second visit in Landstuhl Medical Center on 06 May 2004.
I am glad that I have found new friends, who are going with me to Landstuhl Medical Center to visit our all wounded Heroes. Carolyn an American and Cristina a Spanish nurse and I we went through the hospital to say the wounded troops, “Thank you very much for all the good things they have done” and give them all greetings from the Soldiers Angels Foundation, and the KONTAKT Wiesbaden e. V. a German/American Friendship Club. We had with us a small gift for 20 Heroes, 1 T-Shirt, 1 underpants, 1 socks with a nice “Get Well Soon” card. And we have taken the e-mail cards and letters which we have received from the States with us too. Thank you very much to all the wonderful people from the States send e-mail greetings and cards for the wounded in Landstuhl. Our visit in Landstuhl Medical Center began with a short visit in the Fisher House, to look if the filled backpacks from the Soldiers Angels Foundation http://www.soldiersangels.org, are arrived. But they were not there so we must wait further until the 40 backpacks arrived.
Day for day more injured U.S. soldiers arrived from Iraq to Landstuhl Regional Medical Center. The hospital has been a fixture on America's military landscape for more than five decades now, serving as midway point for wounded troops returning home for more treatment. It is the greatest US military hospital in Europe. You see how the guys are stretched out in their beds sometimes with third in one room. And if you see in their faces you must not see their body, you can see in their face the whole experiences they all have made. The most of them we have visited were wounded servicemen and women have been wounded in action in Fallujah, the flashpoint in Iraq's Sunni triangle. Often their insurgents launched from the mortars and shrapnel hit their legs. We visited soldiers who are lying in their beds and they were full of pain so they could not move their body. So we have lied down the gift on the end of their beds. I was so sad to see this that so much very young man was wounded. But I found that a lot of wounded soldiers and marines were in a good mood others were sad, some were afraid but their trust against their self was great. A lot of them wore hospital clothes and it looks that they had not other things to wear. So our small gift was something what they could use. You see very young men, directly from the school going to the military, after a short time they were ready to fight the war. Often we heard that they were only a short time in Iraq and after 1 month or 3 months in battle they were wounded on their legs and other parts from their body. We have met two wounded who are going back to Iraq directly or in a few days. Others wounded soldiers and marines were going further to Walter Reed or Bethesda for more medical treatment. For a lot of the wounded troops is Landstuhl Medical Center is this not the end from any medical treatment. We went from room to room and we said thank you for the great job they have done and gave them greetings from the Soldiers Angels Foundation and from the KONTAKT Wiesbaden e. V. German/American Friendships Club http://www.wiesbaden.army.mil/PAO/KONTAKT/Kontakt.htm . On one floor the staff asked us if we have an appointment with anyone and we told her that we are coming to say “Hello” and would like to give the wounded a small gift. So she told us it was not allowed to go further on this ward. But a very young wounded in a wheel chair saw us and I would like to give him something but it was not allowed. So after a small talk with the staff there and we went back but I have given him fast his gift and his eyes would be very great and I could see in his face a great thank you for doing this. A young man from Texas told us as we asked him if we can do more for him, "chocolate", was his answer. So we have determined that we have something forgotten. We have made bags with something they all need, to go back home, but we have something forgotten for them self. Carolyn was so nice that she told him that she will bring him chocolate tomorrow. A wounded told us that he was for 20 years on active duty stationed here in Germany and he was now 1 month in Iraq as it was happened. Terrible thing and he do not know how long he has to stay now in any hospital.
But they all were glad that someone were looking for them and bring something that they need. Sometimes they were a little bit astonished to see us. As a German I will say it is not a question if our government was for or against the war. It is important that anyone see that anything is to do and do it. So I am glad that I have found so much wonderful people, who are give me the opportunity to support the soldiers in Iraq and now since a few weeks in Afghanistan and the wounded in the US hospitals, Walter Reed and Brooke Texas and special here in Landstuhl Germany. I will not miss this. This is a great job I think. And I am glad that I can give something back to the Americans, who have given as enough care packages after the WWW II and much more over the years.
We visited a soldier in the TV-room and he told us that he can go home in a few days and that he was glad for this. Another patient was walking over the floor with crutches as we appealed him and hand over him his gift, he was very astonished about this, but he rejoice it very much. Another story is a wounded soldier in a wheel chair drove past to us as we were talking with another wounded. He was very fast driving past, wore black sunglasses and was off! After more as an hour we met him again near the cafeteria. I have addressed him and told him that I would like to give him a small gift. He looked at me very astonished, but as he saw that I will say only thank you to him and will give him greetings from the Soldiers Angels and the KONTAKT Wiesbaden he is not longer so inhibited. As we so told and Cristina and Carolyn are coming to us too, a smile is coming over his face. He told us that he is from the 25th stationed in Hawaii and he was 3 months in Iraq before it was happened. And what was happened, you knew it of you have seen him in his eyes. His face was white and you saw in his face all the terrible experiences with his body he has made and his story was written in his face. To lose a leg, as a young man, in his best years is not so easy. In this few minutes in which it was happened has changed his life for every time. We asked him if he would like to have a coffee with us, and he said, yes. So we had a coffee with him and we have told about so much things. This was a great experience for me to see how he could smile again. Nearby the cafeteria we meet a young man he told us he has to go back to Iraq today. And his mood was great. Carolyn told to him and he asked her to walk with him together to the bus stop. She told us that he was so happy that someone went with him to the bus and he was not alone in this moment. These hours in Landstuhl were a great experience for us all. For a few staffs we have had a nice cook books in German and English with us to cook German kitchen and we saw that they enjoyed it that someone has thought on they too. We have seen again the lacks of backpacks and the normal things we all need everyday. So we think we can fill small backpacks for about 15€ (1 Euro is at the moment 1,20 $). We need about for this 1 T-Shirt 3 Euro, 1 pair socks 1 Euro, 1 underpants 1 Euro, 1 small backpack 5 Euro, for hygiene article 5 Euro and we can fill the backpacks by ourselves here in Germany. For me it is always a great thing to see how we can make the wounded troops laughing. And I am glad that I can work together with the Soldier`s Angels.
Wilhelmine Aufmkolk, Germany
JosephineFS@aol.com
A member from KONTAKT Wiesbaden e.V., German/American Friendship Club
and Soldiers Angels Foundation
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April 12, 2004
GROKKER
I met an
American tonight.
I saw trouble coming a mile away during my German class while we were going over discussion questions for the genitive case. Question #8 was Wer ist der populärste Politiker Ihres Landes? (Who is your country's most popular politician?) Of course the Conflicted Reservist was first to insist that it is Kerry, bringing up the "fact" that Kerry is a Vietnam hero and Bush was AWOL. And then an amazing thing happened.
There's a woman in our class from Italy. I believe she's married to a soldier, so I'm sure she's legally an American, but she proved herself a grokker tonight. She put the Reservist in his place faster than I could bat an eye. She turned to him and rattled off facts about Kerry's Vietnam record -- his Purple Hearts, his relationship with Fonda, his throwing away "his" medals -- that brought a look of utter confusion to the Reservist's face. It was immediately apparent that for all his grandstanding and prattling on and on about Kerry, he actually knows nothing of Kerry's background. Another soldier listened to my classmate's rant in disbelief; "no way" was the expression used.
I learned two things from that exchange tonight: I'm not as alone as I sometimes feel, and most people don't know the first thing about current events.
And that Italian woman is now my favorite classmate. As she turned back to her German worksheets in disgust, she said, "You need to do some research before you start talking."
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Sounds like she'd be a good addition to our Friday night meetings!
Posted by: Oda Mae at April 12, 2004 06:04 PM (B5XDK)
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I would have paid good money to see the look on his face after she was finished with him

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I'd bet that after class - quite a few people were using the good ol' internet to find out some facts about sKerry (as Boortz calls him ha!).
Posted by: Shannon at April 12, 2004 07:17 PM (en3Op)
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Right on Sarah. Give that woman an A+ !
Posted by: david at April 13, 2004 09:13 AM (s7Ho8)
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Italians - of a certain stripe, at least - are among the Europeans most likely to understand the often extreme partisanship of US politics.
In a certain light, Berlusconi is Bush - the center-right patriot, self-made businessman, derided by his opponents as an idiot, adored by his supporters for his plain talking and man of the people credentials.
The Kerry figure would have to be Prodi - the EU-phile, unashamed of embarrassing his country for short-term political gain, with a shady and opportunistic past, and happy to mouth platitudes and present an innocuous public face.
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April 10, 2004
CITIZENSHIP
Many times when I visit blogs, someone will say "read this" and I skip on by. If the name Mark Steyn or Victor Davis Hanson catches my eye, I'll linger, but often in my hurried mornings I'll miss out on an article because the blogger has not stressed how important it is.
I'm adding this old piece (from 2002) called The Civic Education America Needs to my crucial reading list. (I'm also printing it and sending it to the Best Friend and the Husband.) Bunker dug it up and wrote about the citizenship grades he also received in school. I struggled to find a paragraph that would characterize this important piece:
Restoring civic education—from the daily practice of its rituals to real mastery of the elements of Americanism—will not be easy, but such a shared sense of values is critical in such a vast nation that is otherwise not defined by a shared religion, common race, or dominant ethnic affiliation. After September 11, most Americans, in their slogans, flags, and posters, yearned for greater accord: “United We Stand” and “One from Many,” read some of the ad hoc banners. We are coming to realize that we cannot survive as a nation under today’s pernicious conventional wisdom of division and separatist cultural protocols—ideas based on misconceptions and outright untruths about the American past. Even the most jaded among us is beginning to sense that al-Qaida hates Asian, Hispanic, black, and white Americans alike—our women as much as, or more than, our men; Catholics, atheists, Protestants, agnostics, Jews, Buddhists, and Sikhs as infidels all. Our enemies see us as one united people even where we ourselves do not. And we are slowly re-learning the age-old lessons of war, that the spiritual is far more important than the material: that all the F-16s in the world will not guarantee us victory unless our pilots who fly them, mechanics who service them, and taxpayers who pay for them feel that they are shooting, repairing, and working for the preservation of their own common civilization that must not fall prey to barbarism.
In the America I live in, citizenship is important. Belonging to the greater whole that is the United States is important. Working together to set aside our differences and build a more perfect union is important. Being an American is important.
I'm taking a break from the computer today to go read my students' essays. Many of them wrote about what it meant to them to join the Army; that's just the pick-me-up I need today.
MORE TO GROK:
Apparently the America I live in doesn't include Hawaii, where Amritas points out the proposal to create a new ethnic-Hawaiian school district:
The curriculum portrays the United States as a colonial oppressor of the Hawaiian people, and is designed to train children to become skillful advocates for race-based political sovereignty.
God help us all.
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Sadly, everywhere you look the old states are falling apart, and I believe that the movements behind these things are one of the most idiotic movements in history. Take Britain, for instance. One could certainly argue that Wales and Scotland had a much worse relationship with England than Hawaii did with America. But look what Britain became. Now all the independence movements are threatening to tear that apart. Britain's loony immigrations policies at the moment but exacerbate the problem.
What we seem to be seeing, instead of a movement toward union, is a movement to split up into smaller states, usually defined by ethnicity. This, to me, is dangerous retrogression--after all, that was exactly the situation in most parts of Europe during the Middle Ages. And we all know how lovely they were.
I once foolishly thought that the civil rights movement was an attempt to overcome racial barriers and make the dream of "something larger" even more real. And that would have been something beautiful. Regrettably, I think, for the most part, that the opposite has occurred.
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*some of the most
Sorry, it's early on this side of the pond.
Posted by: Jeremiah at April 10, 2004 08:11 AM (uRPKT)
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I was a strong believer in the Civil Rights movement in the '60s. Personally, I now feel betrayed. Most of the people in this country believed in equality, and were willing to go the distance to achieve it. Unfortunately, there were too many people making a buck off discrimination to ever let it die. Jesse and Al and Maxine and Louis come quickly to mind.
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As Tibet is to China, Hawaii is to the USA.
Posted by: florian at April 11, 2004 07:01 AM (vNloz)
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Florian: you are an idiot, and not a useful one at that. Try doing a little homework before you make a complete fool of yourself. The vast majority of people who actually live in Hawaii (I'm one) are happy and proud to be Americans. In 1959 there was a referrendum in which the the people of Hawaii overwhelmingly voted for statehood.
Your digusting moral equivalence of the USA and Red China is beneath contempt, as I suspect, you are too.
Posted by: Infidel at April 11, 2004 06:50 PM (BRHmA)
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Thanks for the VDH article. I printed it and am sending it to my brother-in-law's sister. She teaches third grade and is already poisoning these young minds with the leftist agenda. ARGH! During the 2000 election, she was telling them how evil Bush was and great Gore was, made me want to puke. Shouldn't she be teaching them that one of the most wonderful things about our country is the God given right to educate yourself and form your own opinion?
At yesterday's Easter dinner when talk turned to politics, I cleared the table. I was totally outnumbered and didn't even want to go there. When I asked her if it was safe to go back in, she replied, "You're not a BUSH supporter, are you?" When I nodded my head, she said, "Oh my God," as if I had leporsy or something.
Love your blog Sarah. I check on you every day and pray for you and your husband.
P.S. I live on the flight path of Selfridge AFB. I pray for our soldiers every time they fly over. God Bless America.
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Sarah - thanks for pointing me to the VDH essay on Citizenship. He is such a wonderful writer - when you see him on Fox (the only place I've ever seen Victor interviewed) his demeanor is of a kind, thoughtful and laid back intellectual. Also would like to thank you for putting up the link for Books for Soldiers (for some reason though you can't click to link to the website - just an fyi). I printed out and saved the essay cause I'd like to include it as reading material for some of my care packages to the troops.
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I don't really consider myself a cryer, but something about this week has put my emotions on edge. Last night I cried out of frustration. This morning I cry out of respect:
But asked if he ever wondered about the decisions of generals and policymakers, he said, “I support them. I’ve got faith in them. If they’re telling us we’ve got to stay here, it’s for a good reason. Good will prevail. Ma’am, if the nation needs us to stay and fight, we’ll stay and fight.”
This soldier, staying for an extra four months of duty with 1AD, groks.
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April 08, 2004
LASER BEAM
I have a nervous stomach today, but it helps me keep things in perspective and keep my
laser beam focused to read warbloggers.
It helps to hear Bill Whittle say this:
Then be silent and introspective, for today our men and women are dying for the one idea worth dying for. And take from their sacrifice not defeat and sadness, but a solemn and sacred appreciation that three or four nations throughout an entire world that quivers in fear of these savages has the guts and the courage and the will to finish this job and bring freedom and security to a people that may not yet have earned it.
It helps to hear Zeyad say this:
No one knows where it is all heading. If this uprising is not crushed immediately and those militia not captured then there is no hope at all. If you even consider negotiations or appeasement, then we are all doomed.
It helps me to hear from my husband's best friend that he's jealous of those who get to take it to the enemy. His enthusiasm and confidence is catching.
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April 01, 2004
REAL
NotDeskmerc has an inspired post today about what happens to you when the war on terror touches your life. Amritas
once said that blogging has made the abstract real: soldiers are now real people, like my husband or Smash or Hook. They're real people who miss their families, excitedly take photos of camels, and wear 100 extra pounds of gear in 130 degree weather. They're real.
Please take a moment to go read NotDeskmerc's post. It's the story of a real soldier.
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Real people who get to tell their own stories, not filtered by some journalist or writer who may have their own line to push.
When you understand that it's real people, it makes it all that much better and worse.
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Probably the coolest aspect of my blog is that people who hate Bush and are against what we're doing in Iraq nevertheless not only keep up with Nerdstar, they send her cards and packages. Because it is about real people.
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TEENS
Not all teens are
morons. I just read via Tim about
two who grok: 15-year-old Jessica Brasda and 19-year-old John Moreno.
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