September 09, 2007
SNOTNOSE PUNK ATTIRE
AWTM's son got a little upset at kindergarten
the other day:
However, the other day upon picking Sir Rowland up from school, his teacher stopped me to tell me Sir Rowland was a little upset over one of the little girls t-shirts. It read. Girls are Smart, and in parenthesis said (boys are not). This upset Sir Rowland to no end. He was very upset, and made his teacher tell the little girl, that he a boy, was indeed smart.
One of my major pet peeves is t-shirts with suggestive and/or snotnosed punk sayings. What kind of person buys this crap for his child, let alone for one as young as a kindergartner? I think it's shameful enough when I see preteens wearing baloney like the "I may not be on time, but I'm worth the wait" shirt I saw a while back, or the kid in my neighborhood with the "Respect Me!" shirt. I was thankful to see an article at Slate a while back called Lolita's Closet: Unbearably Trampy Back-to-School Clothes. At least I'm not the only one who thinks that the teen shopping section is ripped right from the South Park "Stupid Spoiled Whore" script.
I know every parent on the planet, at one time or another, has uttered the words "my child will not wear that," but I seriously mean it. My child will not wear shirts with disgusting and degrading slogans. Period. Because I'm the mom, that's why.
MORE TO GROK:
My husband made a good point after hearing this story. He wonders how it would've gone over if a boy in the class were wearing a shirt that says that boys are smart and girls are not. Or, heaven forbid, insert a race or ethnicity. What would the teacher make of a "Puerto Ricans are dumb" shirt? Always curious about double standards...
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I completely agree. I have a daughter and a step-son so we are very aware of NOT degrading one or the other. The problem I have is when you see little girls with shorts/sweats on that says "Hottie" or something equally suggested on their butts. It is written right across their backside which then draws attention to a 12 year old bottom. It just grosses me out.
Posted by: sohos23 at September 09, 2007 06:06 AM (VrBqC)
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Kinda reminds me of the Southwest Airlines story that's been all over the news--the 23-year-old who was asked to cover up or get off of the plane. I was shocked when I seemed to be the only one thinking that what the airline did was fine.
Posted by: Nicole at September 09, 2007 07:25 AM (S/s4V)
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That type of attire has been around a long time. Not only did I not buy any for my kids - they never asked for or bought any for themselves.
I think the only tshirt I remember my son wearing - which I always thought was hilarious for some reason was "I Don't Play Well With Others" or something to that effect.
But by way of nasty degrading slogans... nope.
Posted by: Teresa at September 09, 2007 07:40 AM (rVIv9)
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Mine had a t-shirt that said, "Britney wants to be me", which I thought was hilarious because Brit-Brit is such a damn train wreck, and the shirt was being worn by my ever so cute and sweet blond third daughter.
I also think there was a "My sister did it!" shirt on my son, who also has one that says, "Ladies Man".
In any case, we're not really a t-shirt wearing family. I usually put my son in polos or the summer equivalent, and my girls generally wear non-t shirt materials and cuts. I'm not sure why.
Because we're weird, I'm sure.
I firmly believe that those stupid t-shirts (the "worth the wait" one and the "Out of Your League" one) are the reason I had so many attitude problems to deal with as a teacher.
And don't get me started on the ass writing. If you don't want people to come in the store, don't put out the open sign. Words to live by (attr. to Pastor Mike).
Posted by: airforcewife at September 09, 2007 08:36 AM (emgKQ)
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Yeah, I was indeed surprised this happenned at a private school. I sort of expect smartassery at public school, but a Christian school?
huh?
Oh and the sickening "bratz" trend continues with Halloween costumes, racier than those found in Fredericks this fall.
Indeed worth posting on, I just need to find the time!
Posted by: armywifetoddlermom at September 10, 2007 10:29 AM (VEnp4)
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August 26, 2007
RECOMMENDATIONS
I could use some movie and book recommendations. Here are some recent finds of mine, for what it's worth. Movies:
Stranger than Fiction and
Hot Fuzz. Books: Michael Crichton's
Airframe and Surowiecki's
The Wisdom of Crowds. What do you have for me?
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"Gates of the Alamo," an excellent historical novel, told as much from the Mexican as from the Texan side. "Troublesome Young Men," about the Brits (some of whom were acually women) who fought against appeasement during the late 1930s. "The Travels of a T-Shirt in the Global Economy," which puts some texture into the concept of globalization. "747" by the man who led the engineering development of this airplane.
Posted by: david foster at August 26, 2007 05:42 AM (gguM0)
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Harry Po ... um. Letsee. Have you read Jane Austen? If so, _Persuasion_ starring Ciaran Hinds and Amanda Root is a far lesser known than Emma Thompson's _Sense and Sensibility_ but almost as good, including Thompson's sister as Mary Musgrove. And if not, well, read her.

Otherwise, I need a little more background ... do you like history? Biography? Fiction? Sports? All of the above? Movies only on DVD or out in theaters?
Posted by: Anwyn at August 26, 2007 09:25 AM (dzxw9)
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Ha, Anwyn, any goodies will do. We don't normally shell out theater money, but I can always see it when it comes to video. And I'm up for any genre; there's always something out there worth learning about.
Posted by: Sarah at August 26, 2007 09:42 AM (TWet1)
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Anything by David McCullough, particularly his _John Adams_ or _Path Between the Seas_ (about the building of the Panama Canal), William Manchester's Churchill biography, _The Last Lion_, two huge volumes (his post-stroke health and eventual death prevented his completing the third, most unfortunately, so it is really Churchill's life before WWII), _Once_ (indy movie recently in theaters), _Miss Potter_, out on DVD, _Come Early Morning_, should be out on DVD, _No Reservations_, romantic light drama either in theaters now or only recently, _Team of Rivals_, a Lincoln bio/history of his administration members.
Seems like I should have more movies than that, but I have a bunch stacked up on Tivo that I have yet to watch. If you like to get TV shows on DVD, get _Firefly_ and _Veronica Mars_ if you haven't seen them--_Firefly_ only has 15 hours or so, so it's a quick watch, and VM has only three seasons.
Posted by: Anwyn at August 26, 2007 10:30 AM (dzxw9)
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Laura Lippman's What the Dead Know. Jennifer Niesslein's Practically Perfect: My life through self-help and back.
I just saw "The Sea Inside" and loved it.
Posted by: Non-Essential Equipment at August 26, 2007 11:18 AM (tXp+s)
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Anwyn, we're watching Firefly right now. My husband is LOVING it. He can't get the discs fast enough in the mail.
Posted by: Sarah at August 26, 2007 12:03 PM (TWet1)
Posted by: Anwyn at August 26, 2007 01:17 PM (dzxw9)
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Firefly is the shiznit! Remember to get "Serenity" afterwards, the movie that ties it all up.
I can recommend a good author, Orson Scott Card, but to list the books of his that I like would take its own blog post.
Oh! And take a look at "The Dangerous Book for Boys" chapter by chapter... it's great!
Posted by: Green at August 26, 2007 02:59 PM (VqW06)
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PS, are YOU liking Firefly as well?
Posted by: Anwyn at August 26, 2007 03:25 PM (dzxw9)
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Anwyn -- HA, yes, of course. I loved the one where Jayne was a folk hero. It's just so nice to see my husband get excited about something. Me, I'm full of passion for every little thing, but he's not like that.
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Posted by: David Boxenhorn at August 27, 2007 04:45 AM (LKLcc)
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We need to go to the crap town where *I'm* a hero.
Posted by: Anwyn at August 27, 2007 06:40 AM (dzxw9)
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What? No Brad Thor on your reading list?
Posted by: airforcewife at August 27, 2007 08:23 AM (emgKQ)
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Sarah -
For you and your husband, try Doris Kearns Goodwin's "Team of Rivals: The political genius of Abraham Lincoln". She has a Pulitzer prize. Her book describes how Lincoln put everyone of his significant rivals on his cabinet. See it
here
Posted by: Tim at August 27, 2007 06:31 PM (Nki/C)
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I just finished "Eat Pray Love" by Elizabeth Gilbert. I don't really know how to describe it other than to say I just loved it. I can send it to you if you'd like
Posted by: Angie at August 27, 2007 06:41 PM (4DpOk)
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July 27, 2007
LOOKS LIKE I'LL BE STAYING HOME FOR A WHILE
If you were wondering what kind of anti-war movies are store for us, wonder no longer. There are plenty to choose from! You could see
such gems as
“In the Valley of Elah,” a drama inspired by the Davis murder, written and directed by Paul Haggis, whose “Crash” won the Academy Award for best picture in 2006. The film stars Tommy Lee Jones as a retired veteran who defies Army bureaucrats and local officials in a search for his son’s killers. In one of the movie’s defining images, the American flag is flown upside down in the heartland, the signal of extreme distress.
Other coming films also use the damaged Iraq veteran to raise questions about a continuing war. In “Grace Is Gone,” directed by James C. Strouse and due in October from the Weinstein Company, John Cusack and two daughters struggle with the loss of a wife and mother who is killed on duty. Kimberly Peirce’s “Stop-Loss,” set for release in March by Paramount, meanwhile, casts Ryan Phillippe as a veteran who defies an order that would send him back to Iraq.
Or how about
Brian De Palma’s “Redacted,” focusing on an Army squad that persecutes an Iraqi family, is to be released in December by Magnolia Pictures.
Oh boy, I just can't wait. You remember how much I loved Crash, right? This should be even better.
Excuse me, I just threw up in my mouth a little.
(via RWN)
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I like reading your stuff. You crack me up. Wisdom and wit.
Posted by: hegyeg at July 27, 2007 06:49 AM (8mMXS)
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"Crash" beat the dead horse until bones showed, but it was a great tool to use in my sociology class. If I'd seen it anywhere else (i.e. if I actually thought I was watching it for entertainment) I probably wouldn't have liked it much. Seems that a lot of people today need to have the point driven, hammered, screwed, and superglued home for them to get it at all.
I too will be skipping a lot of movies this summer.
Posted by: Green at July 29, 2007 07:47 PM (VqW06)
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The content of these films reflects the reality of the war. I don't think even the most creative screen writer could come up with a pro-iraq-war plot, unless you just want purely fictional propaganda. I mean, we're talking about a never-ending war with no purpose that's being lost and destroying America's economy and moral standing at the same time. There aint gonna be no Saving Private Ryan's with this debacle.
Posted by: Will at August 07, 2007 10:49 AM (0Yps+)
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July 18, 2007
THEY WARMED OUR GLOBE!
Who knew that I was accidentally saving the planet? I wanted to have one baby and have instead had zero. Hooray for me! Via
Steyn:
So how far are the ecochondriacs prepared to take things? In London last week, the Optimum Population Trust called for Britons to have "one child less" because the United Kingdom's "high birth rate is a major factor in the current level of climate change, which can only be combated if families voluntarily limit the number of children they have."
Thank heavens Steyn goes on to point out that the birthrate is not even at replacement rate in the UK, but whatever. Less babies means less global warming. Actually, it probably just means less environmentalists, because the only nimrods who will consider this are the hardcore greens.
I know, let's just all get in a big gay pile, à la South Park, and prevent the future from ever happening! Then there won't be global warming for sure! Derp!
And I love the word "ecochondriacs."
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"Less babies means less global warming. Actually, it probably just means less environmentalists..."
Same thing
Posted by: tim at July 18, 2007 09:30 AM (nno0f)
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ecochondriacs (that IS great, by the way) make me want to have more babies than the four we've already inflicted on the world.
I mean, really. How on EARTH can we take over the world with a mere four children? That's not even a hockey team!
Posted by: airforcewife at July 18, 2007 09:42 AM (Nrq7o)
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Airforcewife - You go girl. Only one more for a Bball team, woohoo!
Posted by: papertiger at July 18, 2007 08:48 PM (mqoa4)
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July 16, 2007
NUTJOBS ON A BOAT? SIGN ME UP
My husband and I found out we're not "cruise people" when he got back from Iraq. We hated it, and we don't really plan to do it again. But there's something so darned alluring about those right-wing nutjob cruises, you know, the ones with D'Souza and Steyn and Davis freaking Hanson. Now
that I might like to do someday.
So I had a good chuckle at Venomous Kate's fisking of a reporter who "infiltrated" the nutjob cruise. I felt this reporter's pain on our cruise, where our dinner partners were much more interested in discussing the evils of our tablemate's pharmaceutical job than the evils my husband had just fought in Iraq. Poor thing didn't fit in, but at least her shipmates were nice to her; ours just accused us of lying.
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The family and I took a cruise along Greece and Italy after I got back from Iraq the first time.
There was a ship allowing servicemembers coming back from Iraq to book for half-price, and about 75% of those onboard were military families. I almost took it. But then I realized at that time the last thing I wanted to do was be on a ship full of guys with military haircuts who would be talking on and on about Iraq! (guys can't help it, me included).
So I booked us on a ship full of Italians instead, and had the time of my life. Hardly anyone spoke English, and that's just the way I wanted it. The upper decks were full of topless sunbathers. A true getaway from the normal grind.
Posted by: John Rohan at July 17, 2007 04:52 AM (BfPzY)
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July 05, 2007
ODIOUS MAN
I kept wanting to watch the movie
United 93, and my husband kept coming up with excuses why he didn't feel like seeing it. He wanted to watch something funny, he didn't feel like a movie tonight, there wasn't enough time before bed. Finally I flat-out asked him why he obviously didn't want to see the movie. He replied that he just didn't want to see anything made by Oliver Stone. Ah-ha. Mix up, honey, Stone didn't make this one; he made the other one. Problem solved, and we watched the movie a few days ago.
I don't blame him. I read the book Case Closed a few weeks ago, and all I could think of the whole time was that I spent money in the theater to see JFK when I was 13, and I actually thought it was true. I was just an idiot kid, and it was all up there on the big screen, for pete's sake, so how was I to know that Stone based that load of crap on "evidence" that had been debunked years earlier? The man is just dishonest to the core. I can't believe I wasted any brain cells thinking there was a JFK conspiracy.
So I love it that, even though Stone can twist and turn a story into anything but the truth, Mahmoud Ahmadinejad still won't let him make a documentary about him. Because
"It is right that this person is considered part of the opposition in the U.S., but opposition in the U.S. is a part of the Great Satan," Mehdi Kalhor, media adviser to the president told the Fars news agency.
Even folks who hate the US are still considered enemies with respect to jihad. Nice. It's a shame that lesson will likely go right over everyone's heads.
Looks like Oliver Stone will have to find some other story to twist up into bullcrap.
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Actually, Oliver Stone's World Trade Center was NOTHING like JFK.
No conspiracy theories, in fact no mention of politics of any kind (which actually disappointed a lot of his fans).
It was just a tale of heroism of the few policemen who were pulled out of the rubble alive, and the men that found them. A very patrotic film.
I highly recommend it. A little slow at times though. United 93 had better pacing to it.
Posted by: John Rohan at July 17, 2007 04:22 AM (BfPzY)
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July 04, 2007
TODAY, AND EVERY DAY
Neal Boortz hates the 4th of July.
Trust me, you don't want me to work on the 4th of July. I'll just go into one of my insensitive rants about how Americans .. most Americans anyway .. no longer have any real love of freedom. Security is the word today, not independence. Oh, to be sure ... we want to be free to chose where we work (as long as we don't have to negotiate our own salary), where we live, where we worship and what's for dinner. Beyond that ... all too many of us want to government to step in and relieve us of the responsibilities and consequences of choice.
Reading assignment? Sure .. I have one for you. Go buy the book "1776" and read it. Read how American patriots in 1776 marched across frozen ground without shoes --- leaving a trail of blood --- just to fight for independence from Great Britain. Today? See how many people you can find today who would make that sacrifice for freedom.
Will get the book. And will think about what freedom really means today.
But 4th of July for patriots is like Valentine's Day for soulmates: superfluous.
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I have a love/hate relationship with Neil Boortz. But he's right on the mark here. What is seriously lacking in today's world is the concept of personal responsibility.
Posted by: Non-essential Equipment at July 04, 2007 06:41 AM (RQd8z)
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I think the best thing about Neil Boortz is the love/hate relationship

I like that he challenges me to really think about why I believe something to be true.
Posted by: Sarah at July 04, 2007 10:45 AM (vrR+j)
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"Security is the word today, not independence"...he's overstating his case. There are plenty of people taking risks in America today.
How many people started businesses last year?...from small neighborhood affairs to venture-backed startups? In most cases, they are chosing risk over security.
How many people choose to work at jobs that are important, but can be physically dangerous? Offshore oil platform workers, firefighters, EMS helicopter pilots, lots more.
How many people joined the military or chose to remain in the military, while knowing fully what is going on in Iraq, Afghanistan?
How about all the people pursuing long-shot career dreams, in music, in sports, in acting, in writing?
I share the concern about excessive emphasis on security, but there are plenty of people in this country who value freedom and accompishment and are willing to take risks.
Thanks to your husband and yourself for your service, Sarah, and happy 4th of July to all.
Posted by: david foster at July 04, 2007 12:17 PM (gguM0)
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June 29, 2007
1,2,3 WHAT ARE WE FIGHTING FOR?
In keeping with yesterday's theme, what do Rosie O'Donnell and jihadists have in common? They both dress their kids up like insurgents.
Quiz: Which one is Rosie's kid and which one is the Palestinian?

Would you be able to tell if the skin tones were the same?
The Palestinians mean it when they dress their kids up like this. I have no idea what Rosie was thinking. Supposedly she's anti-war, but the fact she dressed her kid up with bullets suggests that maybe there is something she'd be willing to let her kids fight for. Obviously it's not the United States, though.
(found via One-Sided Exposition)
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Several years ago, I saw a picture of some Spanish female protestors wearing almost no clothes except for (presumably) fake suicide belts and carrying signs that said "No War!" And I was reminded of Leonard Cohen's lines:
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I know that you have suffered, lad
But suffer this awhile:
Whatever makes a soldier sad
Will make a killer smile
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I don't know precisely what Cohen had in mind when he wrote these lines, which are not recent. But there are a large number of people who object to the rational and measured use of force by legitimate states ("soldiers") while approving or at least justifying the use of violence by terrorists ("killers").
Posted by: david foster at June 29, 2007 04:29 AM (gguM0)
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I swear everytime I see the picture of Rosi's kid, I keep thinking its a live version of one of the puppets from the TEAM AMERICA movie!
Posted by: TIM C at June 29, 2007 05:16 AM (SAiJg)
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This is from a woman who is supposedly anti-gun. I recall a few years ago she went off on her show on Tom Selleck about guns and the NRA which he was, I believe, an honoree Pres. at the time.
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Tim C.,
Yes, yes! LOL
Posted by: tim at June 29, 2007 07:40 AM (nno0f)
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Her bodyguards carry guns too...
http://www.wnd.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=15370
I'm anti-gun, except when it comes to protecting ME!!!!
Posted by: Sarah at June 29, 2007 08:58 AM (vrR+j)
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If I were her kid, I'd be a little worried... "mommy wants me to blow myself up to show the world we're anti-war"... Heh.
Posted by: Teresa at June 29, 2007 02:10 PM (gsbs5)
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Isn't that an ACU digital pattern she's wearing?
Not a big deal to me. My mom is anti-war but she didn't stop me from playing war with toy guns, sticks brandished as bows, clubs and swords, toy soldiers, drawing battles, etc..
Posted by: Eric Chen at June 30, 2007 08:25 PM (pvOSb)
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June 28, 2007
THE BEATLES
What do
Lileks,
Annika, and I have in common? We don't really get The Beatles.
I discovered The White Album when I was 12, and then heard everything else. That's doing it quite backwards, to say the very least. And I was a fan back then, from age 12 to about 15, buying cassette tapes and hanging out in freaking head shops downtown looking for memorabilia. But somehow a weird resurgence of Beatlemania hit my high school in 1995 and the Fab Four completely jumped the shark when the annoyingly popular girls from my school were camping out on the sidewalk outside Best Buy all night to buy the Anthology album. And got interviewed for the newspaper for it. I kinda dusted my hands off and thought, "Well, OK, that was fun while it lasted." I stopped listening to the most popular band of all time because they got popular. Heh.
But now, even though I'm old enough to not pick my music based on what's cool, I still can't listen to The Beatles anymore. I just don't feel the music. When I was 13, songs like "Mean Mr. Mustard" were cool because they were weird for the sake of being weird. Now they just feel weird.
I still very much enjoy the song "I Will." That's about it. I've come to think Quentin is right: I'm an Elvis fan, and you can't be both.
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i just admitted to a friend that i really don't care for either the beatles OR elvis. there are a few individual songs i like, but that's about it.
and no, i'm not a knitter, unfortunately. i have knitted in the past, but i really don't have time for it now. i enjoy it and will probably take it up again at some point. seems like it would be really fun to knit in a group, but i'm, at best, an amateur.
so... yeah. i guess i do just hang out in yarn shops for fun...
Posted by: Sis B at June 28, 2007 03:29 AM (6qNPu)
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I hear ya' but if you said Led Zep, oh it would be game on.
Please don't post dates of your high school years, it make some of feel old.
Posted by: tim at June 28, 2007 03:43 AM (nno0f)
Posted by: Sabbrielle at June 28, 2007 05:58 PM (nMpWu)
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The Ramones gets you props but "proud" of listening to America and Moody Blues? I think you can be "happy" choosing them over MC Hammer but "proud" I can't quite grok.
Posted by: laurence haughton at June 29, 2007 12:02 PM (6ICu7)
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I grew up listening to the Beach Boys because my dad was a hardcore fan. It's funny because I still like to pop in the "Best of Summer" every now and then I genuinely enjoy the music. I have to have upbeat music...The Beatles are legendary but a little depressing for me.
Posted by: Nicole at June 30, 2007 05:12 PM (vYQMs)
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June 25, 2007
USEFUL IDIOT
Dear Cameron Diaz,
The next time you're in a country to "participate in a television show that celebrates Peru's culture," make sure you learn a little about the culture before you show up. Like learning that your Chairman Mao purse might tick the locals off, you know, since the Shining Path spent a decade killing Peruvians. And when you apologize with "The bag was a purchase I made as a tourist in China and I did not realize the potentially hurtful nature of the slogan printed on it," you reveal just what a dumbass you are. If you can't understand the hurtful nature of Mao Zedong, you really need to get a clue.
Sincerely,
Sarah
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Gee do you know written Chinese, I know damned well I don't and I also know if told the characters were say an expression of good luck, I would tend to take the seller of the goods @ face value, but then again you are so frigging superior to the rest of us.
Posted by: BubbaBoBobBrain at June 25, 2007 07:22 PM (BR9zA)
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I don't imagine Cameron Diaz was walking around China alone, without some sort of interpreter, but let's assume for a moment she was. Let's assume she saw the pretty red star and just thought the bag was cute. If that's the case, her statement to the media should've been "I had no idea when I bought this bag that it was related to Mao Zedong. I am horrified that I made such a mistake and will be throwing the bag away." That's the only acceptable response when you find out you accidentally bought a bag that honors a guy whose policies cost millions of lives. Instead her message was this: "Sorry I offended you, Peru. I'll put the bag away until I get back to L.A., where it's considered cool." That's heinous.
Yes, I am indeed superior to a person who knowingly owns a Mao Zedong bag.
Posted by: Sarah at June 26, 2007 02:32 AM (vrR+j)
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She is an idiot on all fronts. Let us not forget her frequent reminders to be conservative with energy, only to be driven in limos, and flown all over the place for premiers in jets.
I am glad I do not live in LA, if that is considered cool.
Let us all remember that her stylist probably dressed her. My guess is the stylist has been fired.
Because brilliant film actresses who are best known for having used bodily substance as her gel, cannot be bothered to dress themselves.
Posted by: armywifetoddlermom at June 26, 2007 09:58 AM (PpMPm)
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maybe next time she visits Israel, she will sport a nazi emblazoned bag?
Posted by: armywifetoddlermom at June 26, 2007 10:11 AM (PpMPm)
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Sometimes I wish I had armywifetoddlermom's gift of sharp retort.
She totally nailed that one.
Posted by: airforcewife at June 27, 2007 11:27 AM (0dU3f)
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WORKER BEES
When I have a knitting class scheduled, I have to call in to the store in the morning to find out if anyone has signed up. I am always amazed at how put-out the cashiers seem when I call. I am always cheerful and it only takes them a second to look it up. But I always get gruff, one-word grunts from these sullen people. Is there anyone in my class today? "Hang on. Nope. Click." Do they not know how rude they sound?
I work for Michaels. I make about $50 per month, which is so low it makes me laugh. I can spend that in supplies for the class. But I love teaching people to knit, and Michaels gives me that opportunity. So I do everything I can to make people happy in the store. I take people's email and phone numbers and go home to find information for them. I type up patterns for them. Currently I am helping an elderly lady change her lace pattern to a larger size. Not easy. And she already knows how to knit, so I get nothing out of it. I don't get paid to do it, and she'll never take a class from me. But I want her to have a good experience in the store. That's part of my job, right? They didn't hire me to be stingy and grumpy.
I taught my mother-in-law to knit when she visited, but she was having trouble with a stitch once she got back home. We were unable to figure out the problem over the phone, so she decided to drive up to her local Hobby Lobby to ask for a little help. She brought her needles and yarn and just wanted someone to watch her to see what she was doing wrong. They refused to help, saying it was against store policy to spend time helping customers on individual projects. Have you ever heard anything so ridiculous? My mother-in-law put the yarn back on the shelf that she was intending to buy and left. They could've taken ten seconds to help her purl and then would've made $15 in sales. Instead they got nothing.
I don't understand most workers. Yeah, it may just be your crappy minimum wage job to answer the phone, but your grunts and gripes aren't even worth eight dollars. Take some stinkin' pride in what you do instead of doing the bare minimum, and think about something larger than yourself for five minutes. You represent a company, and they don't owe you a paycheck for mediocrity.
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When there is a pattern of obnoxiousness in a business, the fault usually lies largely with management. It is management's responsibility to hire the right people, set the right climate, and get rid of those who don't measure up.
There are many employees who will do their best whatever the circumstances, and others who will do a lousy job in pretty much any situation. But there are also a large number whose behavior and attitudes are strongly influenced by the leadership--or lack of same--that they get.
I believe it was Hal Rosenbluth (founder & CEO of Rosenbluth Travel) who observed that the attitudes displayed by employees to customers often reflect the way that they themselves are treated by management.
Specifically in retail, there are far too many store managers who busy themselves with paperwork and don't spend enought time out on the floor helping and observing. There seem to be real industry patterns in this. Grocery stores, for example, seem to generally have hands-on management and pretty good customer service. Chain book stores are generally pretty bad, as are drug stores.
Posted by: david foster at June 25, 2007 06:40 AM (gguM0)
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Bad management or not, it is self-destructive to carry & display a bad attitude in even the most menial of jobs. For instance, a young woman takes a generic counter job at a generic fast food joint. She does that job cheerfully and efficiently for about two weeks, and then she's not there anymore. Fired? No; a customer was a manager who happened to have a substantially nicer job opening at his establishment, and was favorably impressed and .... well, she was gone.
Every day in a customer service job is potentially a job interview for a better job. Not to mention, your whole day goes better if you at least pretend to be enjoying it - your 'act' bounces off your customers back onto you, and isn't an act anymore, and it WILL infect you.
Posted by: Glenmore at June 25, 2007 08:40 AM (TYZsn)
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Glenmore...I completely agree with you about the indidual responsibility of the employee. But where there are whole packs of people with bad attitudes at a place, something is wrong at a higher level.
One factor that I think is involved in attitude problems is the insane focus on "self-esteem" on the part of schools and many parents. The constant inculcation of the message "you are wonderful" seems to often lead to the conclusion "nobody else matters." Another (related) problem is the emphasis on credentials and "skills" to the exclusion of metaskills and attitudes. The case you mention is an excellent example of the importance of attitude.
Posted by: david foster at June 25, 2007 09:02 AM (gguM0)
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David, I couldn't have said it better.
Unfortunately, my manager is a douche. In a recent promotion of mine, I was lifting heavy items with some of the people in my department, and my manager pulled me aside. He said, "Forget all this 'lead by example' crap. Why should the home run hitter be doing the bat boy's job?"
He went on to tell me that I should be standing around making project lists for others - not actually participating in the projects myself.
Anyway, long story short: bad employees are ultimately the result of a bad manager. My guess, Sarah, is that Michaels doesn't have very strong managers.
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Thank you, David. Loved it.
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THEY HATE US
At the risk of repeating myself for a third day and using again the phrase Aristotelian gods, here is a
prime example of lefties looking down their noses at us country bumpkin Republicans and saying that they know so much better than we do what's good for us:
Even with the low poll numbers, liberals still feel stymied in conveying just how bad this administration is. It's been the ultimate frustration to consider the people who don't see Bush's malevolence: In 2004, rural America cited national security as their number one reason for voting for Bush. But people in the major cities, where there's actually a chance of being victimized by terrorism, people voted against Bush. Frustrating. In the cities, where most people are utterly at two with nature, people cited Bush's raping of the environment as a major reason to vote against him. In rural America, where people fish and hunt and generally do things outside, they voted for Bush. Sooooo frustrating. On Sutton Place and in Harvard-Westlake, where kids go to college after high school, they vote against Bush. In rural America, from where the majority of tragically killed kids in Iraq soldiers come, they vote for Bush.
And if that's not enough, let's throw a big heaping tablespoon of malice in with the condescention. Malice and condescention pie, yummy.
You could argue that even the world's worst fascist dictators at least meant well. They honestly thought were doing good things for their countries by suppressing blacks/eliminating Jews/eradicating free enterprise/repressing individual thought/killing off rivals/invading neighbors, etc. Only the Saudi royal family is driven by the same motives as Bush, but they were already entrenched. Bush set a new precedent. He came into office with the attitude of "I'm so tired of the public good. What about my good? What about my rich friends' good?"
This is how they see conservative values, folks. We're worse than fascist dictators. We really don't believe in things like supply-side economics; we just make policy like that up because we want to screw as many people as we can. We want to help rich white guys and blow up the levees around black guys. Bwahahaha.
The comments section would be funny if I didn't know it was true. They really think we don't care about the troops, hate Mexicans, look to our "pastors" for voting advice, seek to destroy the Constitution, and that AM radio is the same thing as Hitler's Beer Halls.
I really don't understand how human beings' brains can be hardwired so differently.
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It's almost funny, isn't it?
But honestly, it's on both sides. You got folks on the right openly calling people who are pro-choice baby killers and "godless." Those who don't have an issue with legal civil unions are against the sanctity of marriage. And don't forget that those who are unsure whether the mission in Iraq is worth it are unpatriotic or against the Troops!
Going to extremes is just one way of appealing to the lowest common denominator, a way of trying to polarize issues even more than they already are. And the tactic is as old as time.
But still, it's really sad, isn't it? You'd hope that we could, as Republicans, Democrats, Conservatives, Liberals, whatever, talk about things on a higher level.
Posted by: Non-Essential Equipment at June 25, 2007 07:47 AM (GkEyJ)
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At first I thought the Mehlman article was written in an ironic tone. Unbelievable...
Posted by: CaliValleyGirl at June 25, 2007 07:57 AM (deur4)
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Tell you what Sarah, it isn't that I think I am smarter than you, just more experienced, you did not live through Watergate, so you are really sort of blind to the criminal cabal our government has become. Someday you might see it the way those of us older than you do, or maybe not, either way you need to lose the innocence and develope some cynicism, towards ALL GOVERNMENT, not just the parts you disagree with.
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June 22, 2007
BRIDGE ON THE RIVER WHY
Tonight we watched
The Bridge on the River Kwai. Never have I seen such
glowing reviews for a movie I disliked so much. None of the characters were even remotely honorable. Heck, none of the characters even
existed; for a movie that was supposedly based on historical events, it sure played loose with the facts. 16,000 Allied POWs
died building that stupid bridge, and the movie didn't show a single one. Oh, did I say POW camp? I meant Happy Camp, where Japanese and British got along swimmingly. What a load of crap. If I were one of those real-life POWs who surreptitiously tried to sabotage the construction and survived the war only to find a movie made ten years later in which I collaborated with the Japanese and built them a purty lil' bridge, I'd be pretty f-in' steamed. And to sit through a movie where the main message is that all soldiers are mad, war is pointless, and bad guys and good guys are all the same deep down? I'd be out of my mind.
You remember how Neil was looking into publishing a book based on his Armor Geddon blog? You know why he didn't publish it? Because no one was buying what he was selling. They wanted more "internal conflict." They wanted him to struggle with his role in the war and the world. They didn't want to hear that the only regret soldiers like Neil have is that they weren't able to kill more bad guys.
War does not make all men go mad and lose their sense of right and wrong. But apparently making a movie in which they do will get you a 95% approval rating.
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Actually, I just got the same comment on an essay anthology I was shopping about your more non-traditional military wives. Unless it included all war-protesting, serious marital conflict spouses (and cheating! Can't forget lots of cheating!), it just wasn't "meaty" enough.
We own "Bridge on the River Kwai" along with every other military movie known to man. Whenever my husband decides we're putting one of those in, I feel it my civic duty to retaliate with "Clueless" or "Harold and Maude" the next night.
Posted by: Non-Essential Equipment at June 22, 2007 09:27 PM (OofZ4)
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I have never liked that movie. There are actually few war movies I do like. But that one as you noticed has always been considered REALLY GOOD. Not by me and I am of the generation in which it came out. Maybe it's just not a girl thing, but your points are well made. I never liked that TV show that made POW's in Germany SO MUCH FUN either. I've even blocked it's name for the time being. No senior moments here.(G)
Posted by: Ruth H at June 23, 2007 12:58 PM (Okavv)
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Well dayum - I was wondering about Neil and his book. That is truly a loss for many. No wonder Buzzell had such an easy time of getting his book published but then I never read his. He just seemed too conflicted for me and I'm not trying to diminish his experience. Neil's experience explains alot I guess.
Posted by: toni at June 23, 2007 06:15 PM (M5jIa)
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"...war is pointless..."
Funny you should mention that. Just last night some cable network clowns reviewing "Rescue Dawn" made that exact same assertion, praising the movie for showing us that war is futile. Like so many spoiled kids, they have never had to fight for their freedom, much less their lives, and it's so much fun to condescend to their betters.
Posted by: pst314 at June 24, 2007 07:01 AM (lCxSZ)
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What the hell!? Red Six was one of the most
interesting blogs that I had ever read. Need
we remind people that he was awarded the
Silver Star?
WRONG. Just wrong. Wait a few years Neil. Your
time will come. I said it to you before and I
will say it again,money for nothin'!
Posted by: MaryIndiana at June 24, 2007 08:09 PM (iAdwS)
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The redeeming quality of Bridge on the River Kwai is the brit commander's love of his soldiers.
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June 21, 2007
WE CAN DANCE IF WE WANT TO
Via
Photon Courier, an article about the effect of
protecting children too much:
Children are so cocooned by their parents that they rarely venture far from home and have little concept of space, volume and how the world actually works, David Willetts, the shadow education secretary, said yesterday.
The area in which children were allowed to range freely by their parents was a ninth of what it was a generation ago, he said.
CaliValleyGirl and I have discussed this at length and how we hope to address it when we have our future children. And boy do I think it's tricky today.
Remember when Lileks wrote about the new Winnie the Pooh character?
This year the new Pooh series will introduce a six-year old girl in Christopher’s stead. I’m sure she’s spunky and adventurous and kind and empowered, and I’m just as sure my daughter will find her boring, because kids can smell pedantic condescending twaddle nine mile off. (It’s one of the reasons many girls love Arthur – his little sister is sixty-five pounds of smart, devious, narcissistic, naughty sass.) Here’s the part that makes me truly sad:
The little girl wears a bike helmet.
Because you could fall down in the 100 Acre Woods and hurt yourself.
I swear, theyÂ’re going to put airbags on BarbieÂ’s Pegasus next, and require thick corks on the point of all unicorn horns.
That's how ubiquitous safety has become: cartoon characters need helmets.
On my last day of fifth grade, my mom let me ride my bike to school. Some of my friends who lived closer to the school got to ride their bikes often, but we lived in a neighborhood that was further away and so I was a bus-riding kid. (Oh, and every day my brother and I walked down the street to the bus stop and waited alone.) But finally my mom said I was old enough to earn the right to ride my bike to school. I just google mapped it, and it seems I rode roughly two miles. And I felt SO COOL. I was one of the big kids now. I was independent. I had Done Something Awesome. And without a helmet.
My mom and I talked about that not too long ago. She says looking back she can't believe all the parents let their kids ride bikes to school. And she's not sure she'd let me do it today. Even she has a hard time remembering when cartoon characters didn't need helmets.
I needed to ride that bike to school. Heck, I still remember it. As a crowning achievement, as a milestone, as a step on the way to Growing Up. The thing that scares me is wondering if I will be able to let my kids take those steps too.
"A study by the Children's Society found 43 per cent of [British] adults thought children should not be allowed out with their friends until they were 14 or over." And apparently there's a debate in England over whether kids should be allowed to climb trees.
I fell out of a tree once. I also broke my front tooth playing tag once. I broke a kid's finger playing flag football in school. And once I fell in a ravine and couldn't get out, which was perhaps one of the scariest moments of my childhood. And I didn't tell my parents about it because I didn't want to lose my freedom to go play near the ravine.
I don't have kids yet. I nearly had a heart attack when brand new Charlie puppy ran out into the street in front of a car, so I know that I am going to battle overprotection. But it's a battle I'm going to have to have with myself if I want my kids to at least grow up with the independence I had, much less what my parents had.
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It's such a hard, hard subject to figure out. I thank the good lord we live on base, because those times we have lived off base I did not allow my children to have the freedom they do now. My youngest daughter was allowed to go to the park alone starting at age 5. I would not let my second daughter go to the park alone off base, and she's 9.
And often people off base will look at me like they are considering calling Child Protective Services for the things we allow our children to do. The parenting peer pressure is enormous.
I think one big difference that I had growing up (and I'm 3 years older than you) is that everyone in the neighborhood where I lived was a part of our upbringing - I got yelled at by more than one friend's parent for doing stupid things, and they would report my transgressions to my parents despite every plea I made. Now, so many people just ignore what is going on around them. And no wonder, really, with so many parents being hypersensitive about their children's behavior and making excuses for their spoiled brattedness.
Just for the record and for anyone who lives near me - please do not hesitate to correct my kids if you see them doing something wrong. PLEASE. I'll send you a fruit basket in thanks.
Posted by: airforcewife at June 21, 2007 06:43 AM (0dU3f)
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I don't know whether to laugh or cry over that bike helmet thing. I mean, it's like someone took a silly SNL sketch way too seriously.
My kid is 2 so a lot of this doesn't apply just yet. I'd like to think that he'd have the same freedom I did to take off on his bike and then come home when the street lights came on. But he probably won't, mostly because the other Moms' won't let their kids.
My question is, though, how much of this is really necessary? I mean, it's not like there weren't dangers out there before. Hell, there may have even been more danger between homemade bike ramps and those burning hot, dangerously slick slides that could shoot you a good 5 feet off the bottom. And yes, there have always been flashers and pervs around.
I also wonder, in the end, if we aren't doing more harm to our children by trying so hard to protect them.
Posted by: Non-Essential Equipment at June 21, 2007 06:50 AM (ouGp8)
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I think there are two types of danger:
1) children harming themselves
2) other people harming children
There is a problem with the former, that some parents want to protect their children from every boo-boo, but then in the long run the children are more susceptible to big boo-boos, because they never learn how to avoid dangerous situations, because they can't recognize them as dangerous.
The latter is the thing that many parents nowadays really have to worry about. A car hitting their child, or their child being purposely harmed by someone else. My parents gave us a lot of freedom to harm ourselves, but raised us in an area where they didn't really have to worry about other people harming us.
But I would be very wary of allowing my children the same freedoms we had on a small island, in this big city.
Posted by: CaliValleyGirl at June 21, 2007 09:18 AM (deur4)
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I guess it's not clear to me that there are more harms out there today than before.
I grew up around the time that Adam Walsh was kidnapped. And then after, there was a rash of other kidnappings -- one attempted fairly close to our house. Did my parents stop letting me go outside? No. They talked with me about how I was to never, ever accept a ride/candy/etc. from strangers.
I'm beginning to believe it's just a different mindset today more than anything else.
Posted by: Non-Essential Equipment at June 21, 2007 11:08 AM (MmG3L)
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It's hard to allow your kids to do things that you know are so potentially dangerous. After you become a mom, hearing the freak accident stories really affects you. Well, it did me, at least, and the news is plastered with scariness. A kid drowns in two inches of water in a bucket while the mother is hanging laundry nearby, a child chokes on the venetian blind cord while the mother thinks the kid is sleeping in the crib, a kid gets run over by a family member because of the limited visibility of those satan-created SUVs, a kid is strangled on the slide by his hoodie while the mom sits in plain view.... All of these things happen to mothers like me (and someday, you)! Not the I-don't-know-or-care-where-my-kid-is-I'm-smoking-crack mom, but the ones that take precautions and ARE paying attention. That makes it even worse! The worry and the guilt are enough to kill you!
I don't know about letting kids do anything anymore.
My parents let me do *whatever* and I grew up in the 70's & 80's in a pretty major city. I rode my bike all over, without a helmet, all day and into the night. When I was 5 or 6, I was staying home alone at night if they wanted to go out, "Don't answer the phone and don't touch the stove. Watch TV and go to sleep. We'll kiss you when we get home." I didn't have brothers or sisters. There were no cell phones, and barely 911.... And I am still here.
Oh, but I will tell you another thing! My oldest fell off of a retaining wall and broke her arm. Her uncle was washing the car outside 100 feet from where she fell.... The looks you get from people when you have a four-year-old with a cast? Holy shit. You might as well wear a sign around your neck that declares you completely unfit for motherhood! Glares, stares, nasty looks. It's ridiculous.
I WANT to be the mom that isn't so over-protective....
And then you see and hear what KIDS are doing these days.... At ages that are shockingly young? Sex in school, drugs.... My 5 year old wants a cell phone and an i-pod. What the hell for? "PSHAAA, Mom! To, like, CALL my FRIENDS and, like, LISTEN to music!?!" To which I raise an eyebrow and say, "Uhm, EXCUSE ME?" Then the little girl comes back and sheepishly kicks her toe into the ground and mumbles, "I was just kidding." Sure you were. Little windows into what's really happening in the school yard.
If it were just playing hide-n-seek or climbing trees? Maybe!
Posted by: Wochenend mit bier at June 21, 2007 04:35 PM (7xqZi)
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Having fallen off my bike and smacked my blessedly helmeted head on concrete in a situation that would otherwise have resulted in at best a concussion and at worst paralysis, I must say I am a strong advocate of bike helmets.
Much like seatbelt anecdotes. I think safety is more important than looking cool.
Posted by: Sabbrielle at June 21, 2007 10:22 PM (nMpWu)
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OK...I tried to leave a HUGungeous comment here yesterday, and it was not allowed. I didn't even swear in it...
However, it did spur an entire post, in my head. Now if I can type it out, so it does not sound like the oooompa band in my head.
I do know, it will make people mad....
and I hate to do it....
I am expecting onc I get it up, I will get hate mail, like you get.
nice.
Posted by: armywifetoddlermom at June 22, 2007 11:22 AM (PpMPm)
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Son's nearly four, so far I don't have to deal with letting him outside by himself because he's still too young not to wander into the street in front of a car.
It's going to be hard for me when he gets older.
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June 18, 2007
HEH
Mark Steyn:
There are immigration laws on the books right now, aren't there? Why not try enforcing them? The same people who say that government is a mighty power for good that can extinguish every cigarette butt and detoxify every cheeseburger and even change the very climate of the planet back to some Edenic state so that the water that falleth from heaven will land as ice and snow, and polar bears on distant continents will frolic as they did in days of yore, the very same people say: Building a border fence? Enforcing deportation orders? Can't be done, old boy. Pie-in-the-sky.
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THAT'S AN EXPENSIVE FRIENDSHIP
My very first blog post was actually an email to Steven den Beste about a lecture I overheard at our on-post college. The professor was spending an awful lot of time bashing the US instead of teaching the subject matter. One of the things I overheard
was:
he was lecturing about how, despite what any sources say to the contrary, the American government does not give any humanitarian aid to foreign nations. He said that all American aid comes with strings attached, unlike aid from other countries like Sweden, Switzerland, and Germany. He said that the US does not donate any money in the world for purely humanitarian causes. I couldn't help but be shocked by this statement, considering that he was lecturing to 16 American soldiers and family members. I thought it was rather gutsy of him to make such statements.
Four years later, this statement doesn't bother me as much as it did that day. I have come to understand that aid without strings is pretty stupid, and there's no reason to fault our country for wanting something in return for our help. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. By all means, string away! I think we could use more strings attached to the things we do (both at home and abroad).
However, I still think we give a heckuva lot of aid out that gets us very little in return. This is a perfect example.

That's a picture of construction being done on a bridge between Afghanistan and Tajikistan.
By summer 2007, a U.S. Army Corps of Engineers team hopes to open a $43 million, more than 2,200-foot steel-span bridge that will link the two sides.
The bridge — which will span the Oxus River, famously crossed by Alexander the Great during his conquests — will provide a valuable trade route straight from Tajikistan to the ports of Pakistan, allowing overland movement of essential goods and hopefully, economic development in Afghanistan, Tajikistan and other Central Asian nations that avail themselves of the trade route.
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Currently, the only way to cross the river is via a ferry that costs $15 per person, a stiff price for Afghans, whose average annual income is $800.
Project staff could not provide figures as to how much each side — Afghan or Tajik — would benefit economically from the bridge. But both sides of the bank already appear to be steeling themselves for a boom — new hotels have popped up on either side and residents and government officials from both nations say they’re optimistic.
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Walls, who in addition to serving as project manager is also a resident engineer and the contracting officerÂ’s representative, said he also hopes the completed project will send a message to those who use it.
“The people of Afghanistan and the people of Tajikistan see we’re building something constructive,” he said. “It shows America as doing something to help the country.”
The United States gets absolutely nothing of economic value from Tajikistan. They don't have oil. Their main export is cotton, grown at the expense of their environment and the Aral Sea because of stupid Soviet planning. And Afghanistan means nothing to us save the terrorism aspect.
There's only one conclusion: We spent $43 million dollars to win the hearts and minds.
Seriously, I'd love for this professor to explain to me the selfish reasons behind fronting the money for this bridge. Halliburton didn't make any profit, and there's not a drop of oil crossing the bridge. We simply paid $43 million dollars so people in that region would like us and maybe think twice before joining al Qaeda. That's it.
The next time someone tells you that the US never does anything for humanitarian reasons, remember this bridge. Nothing in the world is a free lunch -- not even in Sweden, despite what this prof says -- but building a $43 million bridge just so people in the area will like you comes pretty damned close.
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That bridge (and non-hostile Tajiks on the other side of it) could be quite useful if we need to re-supply our forces in Afghanistan without going through Pakistan (or Iran). Or, God forbid, extricate them from an overwhelming offensive from one or both of those countries.
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June 03, 2007
INJUSTICE
Our best friend from college is Indian. He got a computer science degree and then got a work visa from his employer. And unfortunately, to my understanding of the system, his work visa is tied to the job he applied for, so he hasn't been able to be promoted once in the past five years. He's waiting patiently in line for his green card so he can advance in his job and become a bigger asset for his employer.
He's also one of the smartest and most informed people we know. He's the guy my husband calls when he wants to talk politics or foreign affairs. And if he has to get in the same line as Mexican fruit pickers, I will be royally disgusted with my country.
(this article also via Hud, who calls it the nail in Bush's coffin)
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As I read it, this works greatly to your friend's benefit. He wouldn't have qualified for one of the superstar visas, surely, but now his English proficiency, work history, and skills will earn him points. So he won't have to sully himself in line with Mexican fruit pickers for long.
Posted by: Pericles at June 03, 2007 02:53 PM (eKf5G)
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June 01, 2007
ALPHA MALES
Found
this article via today's
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As America comes to terms with our diminished omnipotence in the wake of 9/11, the Iraq War and President Bush's international unpopularity, we're growing weary of Teflon-coated John Wayne stereotypes of masculinity.
Says you, maybe. As for me, I stand by my original assessment of what is hot. And for me, it's definitely still alpha males.
John Wayne is not a stereotype; he's an archetype.
And a hot one at that.
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I just read your HOT post. I just about died laughing. I definitely gotta agree with you. After long periods of separation from the husband, almost every guy has the potential to be HOT. I love it when my husband send me pics of him with his guns and gear and a cigar hanging out of his mouth. That is definitely HOT.
Posted by: Butterfly Wife at June 01, 2007 08:33 AM (RX8Nf)
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Gotta love an alpha male...
We could start playing military wife, my Husband is more Alpha than yours!!
Posted by: armywifetoddlermom at June 01, 2007 08:39 AM (6nWEM)
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I SO agree with you! Dh was in the Army when we were dating, and Good Gravy did he look good in a pair of BDUs! What is it about BDUs that makes a man's butt look SO good? Give me a man swinging a hammer or shooting a gun any day of the week over some fancy-pants GQ guy.
Posted by: bunchkin at June 01, 2007 09:16 AM (KAM6m)
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bunchkin - "swinging a hammer" . . . you too? You think that pic of Chuck Z. (from my position . . . on the way) looks HOT swinging that hammer?!? I thought I was the only one! Well maybe his wife thinks he looks HOT there too.

LOL! What can I say.
And yes, my husband knows about what I think. he shakes his head and rolls his eyes (or at least I imagine he does).
Posted by: Butterfly Wife at June 01, 2007 09:38 AM (RX8Nf)
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We now have this running joke in our house because I just discovered John Cena. Apparently he's now my "wrestler boyfriend." And my husband was mortified last night when I didn't rush to agree with him when he said he could easily kick Sylvester Stallone's butt. He's mad I thought it might actually be a real fight! Ha.
Posted by: Sarah at June 01, 2007 10:14 AM (vrR+j)
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I recently met a friend of Slyvester Stallone...I guess the dude is like my height, or shorter!!
I might be able to kick his ass.
Posted by: armywifetoddlermom at June 01, 2007 12:44 PM (6nWEM)
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Ahhh.....Alpha Males......
Oh, I'm sorry did you say something after that. My mind just started wandering.....
;-)
Posted by: Tammi at June 01, 2007 01:35 PM (wbVY2)
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John Wayne will always be my "it"! Always.
Posted by: Maggie at June 02, 2007 08:49 AM (Q8ndf)
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All this estrogen and I am in Iraq . . .
Posted by: Badger 6 at June 03, 2007 09:00 AM (rlynI)
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I always said the five "C"s that women find irresistable are confidence, competence, courage, compassion, and comedy. As a man if you have these five traits, there's not a woman alive that you can't charm.
Posted by: Michael at June 10, 2007 08:37 AM (vubLE)
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I need a cold shower now, thankyouverymuch.
Posted by: HomefrontSix at June 13, 2007 10:54 AM (4Es1w)
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May 31, 2007
THE PROOF IS IN THE DONUTS
CaliValleyGirl
said she often wants to run off and start her own country. Here's
another reason to join her:
Presidential hopeful Hillary Rodham Clinton outlined a broad economic vision Tuesday, saying it's time to replace an "on your own" society with one based on shared responsibility and prosperity.
The Democratic senator said what the Bush administration touts as an ownership society really is an "on your own" society that has widened the gap between rich and poor.
"I prefer a 'we're all in it together' society," she said. "I believe our government can once again work for all Americans. It can promote the great American tradition of opportunity for all and special privileges for none."
That means pairing growth with fairness, she said, to ensure that the middle-class succeeds in the global economy, not just corporate CEOs.
"There is no greater force for economic growth than free markets. But markets work best with rules that promote our values, protect our workers and give all people a chance to succeed," she said. "Fairness doesn't just happen. It requires the right government policies.
Great googily moogily. That's an extremely scary worldview.
Of course "fairness doesn't just happen," because what people like Clinton want is fairness of result. And that requires that the government rig the system so that overachievers can't get rich and dumb people don't get poor. What's "fair" about the United States is that anyone who works hard can get rich, or at least move up the economic scale. Just ask the Combodian donut makers, who own upwards of 90% of donut shops in California. They came to this country, invested in a business where they could be successful, and work their tails off:
“It’s not easy work at all. As a family we are working seven days a week, the store is open 24 hours, and we have no family time. It’s tiring,” said a 26-year-old Chinese American who requested anonymity.
No one offered to make things more fair for these people. They came to the US and worked, instead of expecting the government to help them live. And they did it "on their own." I know several people from countries like Poland and Bulgaria who came to the US with the money in their pockets and worked like the dickens to earn every cent they have. If they can do it, anyone can. On their own.
They tried the "'we're all in it together' society" before; it was called the U.S.S.R. And it failed miserably because not everyone wants to work as hard as a Cambodian donut cutter. Is Hilary Clinton really silly-brained enough to think that this is the direction the US should take?
Hey, Cali, if we start this new country, I want the Cambodians to come with us.
Donuts rule.
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I never understood those weirdo cults before. Like the Branch Davidians in Waco, TX. However, although I don't agree with them I can understand the desire to just branch off, because you want to get off the wildly out of control train before it derails.
Posted by: CaliValleyGirl at May 31, 2007 02:04 PM (deur4)
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Great oogily moogily. Still giggling. Thanks for that.
Posted by: Oda Mae at May 31, 2007 08:54 PM (wK887)
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As long as there's someone who can cook good Mexican food, I'd like to apply for citizenship in that country, too.
Can I be Secretary of State? In college I was voted "Most Likely to Cause an International Incident", and it might be a way for me to fulfill that.
Posted by: airforcewife at June 01, 2007 03:03 AM (0dU3f)
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Instead of "running away" how about making sure this socialist pig doesn't get elected.
Posted by: tim at June 01, 2007 03:40 AM (nno0f)
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May 18, 2007
LOSING TOUCH
My husband and I have been discussing parenting constantly since we decided to start a family. Our philosophy is that our job as parents is to turn babies into adults. Our child will be a child for about 1/5th of his life, so the real goal is to mold him into a good adult. Thus we constantly discuss which ways we think we can best achieve this goal.
One thing that does worry me is handing the kid over to a school. I know enough Neal Boortz and John Stossel to be completely disillusioned with public schools. But we also don't want to homeschool, so we generally discuss ways we can supplement our future child's education.
This story about elementary school kids using calculators is just sad. I think technology is great, but it's also taken us far away from the fundamentals. I remember getting a pizza one night and the cash register girl accidentally typed in $200 instead of $20. She couldn't for the life of her figure out how much change to give us without the cash register doing it for her; she had to hunt around for a calculator to do the math. Of course, at my job in college I also saw one girl count on her fingers how many hours her 12-8 work shift was. Sigh.
It's not only a problem with math though. Spell Check has killed our ability to bother looking words up. I had another blogger ask me how I could stand Movable Type since it doesn't have spell check, but if I'm unsure about a word, it only takes ten seconds to open m-w.com and look it up. That's way better than Back In The Olden Days when I actually had to do my homework sitting with a dictionary and a thesaurus. When I was teaching college English, I was just happy if students' papers didn't look like they'd text messaged them to me! Yeah, LOL is not appropriate for a college paper, folks.
We have so much power at our fingertips these days -- to be able to find cosines, definitions, and historical figures with a touch of a button -- but as wonderful as this technology is, I can't help but think sometimes that we're losing our grasp on basic smarts.
Of course, this is coming from the girl who patted herself on the back repeatedly a few weeks ago because she used the Pythagorean Theorem instead of a tape measure to figure out how big her knitting project would be. Look at me, I'm a flippin' math genius.
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I agree. I am always looking up words on m-w.com. even when I am reading online I will highlight a word and paste into the search feature. even if I know the word and know that the writer is using it inappropriately, I look it up anyway.
Posted by: Butterfly Wife at May 18, 2007 03:10 PM (RX8Nf)
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Yeah, I know the feeling, Sarah. What bums me out even more ius that kids use calculators and haven't a clue why it does the things it does, in form or function. Not only are they doing things with technology they don't understand, but they don't even understand the technology itself.
Posted by: deskmerc at May 18, 2007 06:02 PM (obWV/)
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Thanks Sarah. I have gone over and over this, and although some would tell me that homeschooling is the way to go, it just isn't for our family.
And the spelling thing...ugh! It's funny, because I don't even trust spellcheck. When I go back and proofread things I write for school, I catch errors I've made that spellcheck doesn't catch.
It just infuriates me how much our kids aren't learning in school anymore. Do you know that my mother-in-law told me the other night that history isn't even being taught anymore? ::Sigh::
Posted by: Robin at May 18, 2007 06:09 PM (XTKEz)
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Have you ever given a cashier some change to make your change round up to ... say a quarter? and they have already typed in what you gave them... and they get a glassy look... and you have to explain to them you gave them two pennies to make your 23 cents a quarter. weird.
Posted by: jake silver at May 19, 2007 10:57 AM (7wSqR)
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Here's a good one...we went out to dinner with the hubby's parents last Tuesday. As we were leaving the restaurant, my father-in-law went back into the restaurant to ask for change for a $20. The girl actually asked him, "so you want five $5 bills?"
He told us about that, and we just lost it. It's so sad!
Posted by: Robin at May 20, 2007 05:27 PM (XTKEz)
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Sara,
From someone working in the schools, I can say that if you go visit different schools, you will find one that is good. They are out there. These days, teachers feel so much pressure for No Child Left Behind that it is hard to teach art, music, etc. History is taught in the schools I work in though. Wait until you try to find a preschool! That is the hard part. Do you want Montessori, Reggio, child-centered, academic...a lot of options! I definitely know home-schooling isn't for me even though I give credit to parents who do it AND give their children the social interaction they need. Anyway, don't lose hope on our schools...teachers are trying! So much of a child's success stems from the motivation they get at home, and for you all, that will be enough to make sure your child is successful
Posted by: Stephanie at May 22, 2007 01:59 AM (+bp0U)
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