July 07, 2009
In our case, the opposite is true: "even if it doesn't produce that for which it is designed."
My husband and I have said a variation on that for years. In fact, last night I mentioned that I would've had conception problems no matter who I married, but that at least I was having these problems with a loving husband. I apologized to my husband for ruining his chances at a baby, to which he replied that he'd rather have dead babies with me than live babies with a worse wife.
We're in this together, no matter what happens.
"dead babies with me than live babies with a worse wife"
You've got a good man there, Sarah. He loves you above all.
Posted by: AFSister at July 07, 2009 08:47 AM (2Nifp)
I think he's wasting himself in the rap/hip hop genre. That has country song written alllll over it.
With all the talk of 'good eggs', he's definitely one. An Easter egg even.
Posted by: Guard Wife at July 07, 2009 09:15 AM (qk9Ip)
It's not just about the babies. Marriage is much more than conception. And a worse wife would probably also be a worse mother.
Thank you for sharing that conversation you had last night with us. You have nothing to apologize for. You have done nothing wrong. On the contrary, you recognize you're with the right man. In the midst of all this personal pain, of the trials facing this nation, it is reassuring to be reminded that true love exists and endures.
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Posted by: Krista at July 07, 2009 01:50 PM (sUTgZ)
I read the linked article. Too bad guys can't figure that sorta thing out a lot earlier. That way, I wouldn't have to feel like such a weirdo when it come to personal choice. Let's just say the doctor I saw one of the times I stopped into the clinic on campus (nothing serious - probably s persistent cough or an ear ache or something) while I was working on my M.Ed. didn't seem to believe me when I said "never"... The reasons for "never" are my own: I know me, and without that promise of "I'll always be there", I'm not willing to set myself up for the heartache that would come if it were - for the guy - just something physical...
Posted by: Miss Ladybug at July 07, 2009 08:45 PM (paOhf)
Awww, good man!
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